How To Know If You're His REBOUND Girl

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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick lays out 8 signs in how to know if you're his rebound girl.

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*NEW SUMMER 2024*
I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂

[tamie]

I'm just trying to get over the trauma of being used as a rebound girl..

[debracrawford]

Rushed things...yup. jumped from longterm relationship to longterm relationship...yup. lined up next relationship before leaving last one...yup. Took me to same places he took her...yup. Used all the same catch phrases with me that he used on them...yup. Told me he loved me two months in. If a person cannot be ALONE for a year after a serious longterm relationship then they have not dealt with the breakup. They are just replacing the void in their life. I don't want a weak ass partner that cannot be on their own for a long period of time. And I certainly don't want a emotionally needy person.

[orangecookielee]

The way Ryan talks is like a protective big brother. ❤️

[rhondakoti]

I wish I had seen this sooner. I was in a rebound relationship- I had no idea I was the rebound but he did every one of these signs. I eventually walked away but I should have walked away a LOT sooner.

[oceanoasis]

These signs also sound alot like how to spot a narcissist.

[melilinda]

If someone jumps from relationship in relationship, is codependency, has past traumas(childhood) or is narcissist trait

[SamElle]

When things feel fast and easy is definitely a big indicator. I used to think that it was just a "spark" or what people call "love at first sight" but I always find out later that they had recently come out of a relationship and they're looking for a rebound.

[angelicaangel]

"People don't change ...unless they have to..."....this is the most important sentence here Ryan for sure. Great video ☺.

[mrs.lupitawest]

I’m such a rebound that I look almost exactly like her, I walked away a week ago.

[sikes]

Been in one, but the worst thing was I never knew until then that I was. Was naive with relationships since it's my first and he took advantage of that. He took all my firsts and left. It's almost a year and I'm still healing.

A piece of advice, never jumped into a new relationship if you haven't moved on or healed from your past. Or else the cycle won't end.

[casandramccoy-langley]

I think when he calls you his ex's name ! It's over forever! He doesn't even want you, he wants her!

[notsayingc]

I wish I saw this before I was in my last relationship. I questioned it in my mind but all signs were there. Thank you for your honest insight.

[rion_eto]

Yes, had these signs. Yet I dated him for a year 😔 The breakup was a mess, but now I am happy being single and meeting new people!

[meganjohnson]

A million times YES! So on point with the signs!! Just got out of a relationship with a guy who ran back to his ex wife two days after her boyfriend broke up with her.

[OceanLove]

Great pace and loved the psychology angle! Let the rebounders run! My ex would compare me to all the other ex’s who moved on— i kept telling him i am not them, and that this comparison pushes me away too!

[jm]

You know what is the main problem... I've never met a guy who never mentions ex gfs. They mention them casually no matter on which date you are. It bothers me greatly. No matter how many times I tell them I don't want to listen about their past they can't stop it. That is why even if I date someone for months I break up in the end. Or if they talk on first or second date I write them off. I remember when I was chatting with one guy on a Tinder. He went into detailed ex file even 2 years after break up. I blocked him in the end and never wanted to meet him. What is the problem with the guys? I mean if I can keep my mouth shut why they can't? I have a feeling that the older they get the more emotional baggage they carry. It isn't just mine experience but some of my friends too. Some of my friends even intentionally speak about their exes and their past relationships. I can't understand that. I would gladly like to meet a man who can really leave the past in the past and not drag it everywhere he goes.

[cristinaalem]

I know this feeling and I can tell there’s nothing wrong with us as woman. But still hurts and if we see this a pattern in this behaviour there’s nothing we can do and it’s time to say goodbye. This kind of relationship affected us and we deserve all the best!
Yes, sex is good but pleasure don’t last, lack of intimacy and empathy. After sex he tells is becoming late and you feel a glacial inside you.
Someone great is waiting for us 💕💕💕
Thank you Ryan, always amazing your videos

[jjthek]

Great video. So true that people don't change. I found that out the hard way. I really like that the psychological part of relationships is talked about because it really is key. It is true that actions speak louder than words.

[awolf]

Thank you Ryan!
Such a timely topic! Your videos have become my daily "medicine"! No joke! I set time aside daily to watch at least a few. I'm 53, health care provider and enjoying and learning!