Watch This If You Have No Friends.

I've been struggling to make friends since the pandemic in 2020. For a while, I used to think losing friends/having no friends was a bad thing. Recently I realized that there are some benefits, and I wanted to share what I learned with you all! Having no friends is hard, but it doesn't always have to be this way. new amazing friends will come it just takes time. I hope you enjoyed my first YouTube video!

Time Stamps:
0:00 Intro
0:37 Why I lost friends
1:14 Losing friends and evolving
4:14 Process the kind of friend you've been to others
7:24 How to be a better friend to yourself
10:52 Knowing good friends will come
12:43 Don't settle for whack friends
13:25 Outro

@Thewizardliz
#makingfriends #bestfriend

[miabeweenieshorts]

I stopped making friends 4 years ago and my life is so much better. No drama no negative vibes and energy.

[saltandpepperandmint]

Perks of having no friends are that you get to know yourself and you are not influenced in a bad way and you don’t have to bend yourself to fit in
it can be a really amazing thing - definitely better than having fake friends

[hannahsims]

From what I've seen, some people only have friends because they're lonely, half the time they don't even like each other.🤣

[blackgirleyes]

The fact that the pandemic caused your friendships to end....shows that it wasnt a solid foundation
I'm proud to see how you've learned so much during the journey

[kimberlyjackson]

It's best not to have no friends at all because alot of people nowadays don't know what true friendship is

[pysq]

"You're not bored, you're boring." That often heard quote from childhood has always stuck with and helped me enjoy my own company. 🤗

[becca]

Being introverted even talking to 1 person for even 15 minutes is overwhelming. I want friends though but can't trust anyone. I feel good alone even though I get lonely it's better than being stressed and overwhelmed with people.

[velasquezcarter]

I struggled to keep friends because it’s very hard to find people that match my energy or self-less ness, everything was always feeling like a competition or just wasn’t feeling that energy I would give to someone I considered a friend . Barely heard congratulations, barely heard that they were proud of me, etc, and I experience this with family as well ( bare in mind I know no one owes me these gestures, however I’m the type of friend that will literally celebrate the smallest achievement, and I get over joyed with other peoples success because I love to see other progress ) . So sometimes it may be lonely but I think the last thing we need is to surround ourselves with people that hold onto our old stories and some people aren’t ment to take with us to new versions of our lives .

[elabe]

Having no friends allowed me to do what I really wanted without facing their criticism. And without them I lost a lot of negativity in my life. Thank you for your video 😊

[ididntexpectthechainuserto]

I’m not much of a alone person. I prefer being surrounded with people. Losing friends is probably one of the hardest challenge for me. It made me feel so devastated. But I’m definitely going to take advice from you. Thank you so much for uploading this video!

[amberjaftha]

There is no use making a friend nowadays because as soon as that friend gets a bf or get married they forget all about you. And you wondering if they were ever sincere.

[candice]

Having friendships requires a ton of energy, effort, and commitment just like a romantic relationship, like all things in life friendships need to be nurtured, but for some, there is a point in life where we start becoming our #1 priority and start prioritizing other things in life instead of constantly trying to nurture and please others. Our peace of mind is what matters the most. If you have no friends is because you are busy working on the greatest relationship you will ever have in life, the relationship you have with yourself.

[shaztaf]

Sometimes, I notice when you are pretty, other women perceive you as a threat. They are jealous and don't want you to make them feel inferior, especially if you are super pretty like yourself. It's so easy to have male friends, however there's always that risk that they find you attractive and want more. That's the issue I have, I get on with men better than women but usually the men have always wanted more and I have literally just wanted them as a good friend.

[Goldenac]

Since being a child, I was ostracised, severely bullied and had issues at home. Now I just cant trust others .No amount of therapy can change the fact that there’s many predatory people out there.

[KLB]

If you lost friends during the pandemic, they weren’t true genuine friends. The pandemic was a time to connect because we all were going through a major life shift.

[atawbi]

Friends are great and all, but at the end, you're your own best friend. You know yourself better than anyone, you have your own taste, you know your own struggles to deal with, you know your body than anyone and etc. We all are our own, and we know what it's best for our body and soul.

[emiliebrooklyn]

I lost all my friends when I realized that if I don't text no one will text me lol. so sad

[kaila]

I won’t lie, I clicked on this thinking it was gonna be for me & it’s not . I’m tired of ppl telling me, because I don’t have friends, I’m on the right path in life . I do not believe we have to carry the burdens of life, individually . Community is very important . It’s very lonely when you set yourself w that mindset, I’m a result of it fr because I’ve been “friendless” for yrs & loneliness is not the goal . Not taking away from what your video is speaking on because it’s true, just not for my situation .

[ailismckinney]

I actually love being alone. My ADHD has really affected my ability to make and keep friends and I have finally accepted that being on my own is giving me a chance to reflect on what I want from a friendship and what I need to be to be a good friend. This is such a great video. Thank you!

[chalisarocker]

This IS DEFINITELY my story ! About 1 1/2 ago I literally made a video talking about this on my platform!!! I don’t have friends….but I’ve always been a loner & I know God will align me with the right like minded women who are on a spiritual journey just like me . I’m my BEST when I’m alone . I work harder when I’m alone !