Watch this if you're struggling in life 😩

Sharing a helpful way to view your life struggles, the difference between external challenges and internal challenges, and how to ease your suffering. This video was made in partnership with Adobe.

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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

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Disclaimer: This video was made in partnership with Adobe.

[deborahgold]

Visualise the woman you want to be and show up as her every single day!
If you're reading this, you've got this sis! Stay shining ✨

[nobody-gqju]

this came at the right time 😭 everything’s been dull and i feel empty lately

[halaenahurisse]

"We cannot control things that is happening around us, but we can always control how to react on it"

[NeonBearClawStudios]

Comparison is the thing that keeps me in a constant state of depression. And, it's impossible to stop.

[khushijakhar]

I hope everyone out there overcomes their struggles gracefully.

[lavendaire]

Allow yourself to appreciate the ups and downs in life.

Maybe you’re not where you want to be right now but be patient and take your time because you will be there eventually.

Sending you lots of love ❤️

[lostinadmiration]

I feel like these days we all feel alone in our struggles, despite more and more people struggling with negativity, depression, or just languishing.. Speaking out, reaching out and being honest about our imperfect realities can help us all feel less alone. So thank you so much Lavendaire for doing your bit and creating such empowering, empathetic content ❤️ much appreciated! sending love to everyone!!!

[realshantia]

I've never met a strong person with an easy past. Use your current challenges to grow stronger because nothing is permanent. Thank you for this video

[chelsweeee]

I am sitting at work crying because life has been so incredibly difficult lately, and as soon as I opened youtube this video came up. I did not want to exist anymore, and then I clicked on this video. As I think about it now, I'm at a HUGE transition point in my life right now. So it makes sense that things are difficult because I'm growing and getting closer to that person I truly want to be. Seriously thank you SO MUCH for this 💕

[pistachseo]

I struggle with self doubt part but I'm on the journey to get through it :)
1) list out all your negative thoughts everytime you catch yourself having them
2) Ask yourself 'do i want to carry these negative thoughts with me everyday for the rest of my life?'
3) Add a positive affirmation to replace all those negative thoughts
4) now you have a list of positive affirmations that you can repeat to yourself everyday to rewire your mind

[caradifiore]

I’ve struggled so much with depression, self doubt, a little bit of anxiety, and low esteem for 6 years so I definitely needed this and made my morning better thank you

[Freverblessed]

We are all dealing with our own traumas and daily struggles. Nonetheless, these are the moments that makes you stronger and more resilient than you’ll ever know. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Remember we can’t control everything but we can control how we react to it.❤️

From a self love content creator to another; beautifully said Aileen!

[AhmetKaan]

*Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.*

If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day! 🖤

[MysticWomenCollective]

"We don't grow when things are easy. We grow when we face challenges."
AMAZING VIDEOS AS ALWAYS.
Thank you for your kindness and generosity in sharing your challenges with us.
Much love. namaste.

[chitraroy]

I lost my long term relationship, my grandfather and my father within last 4 months and now I'm starting my own business with my mother and aunt. I'm blessed to have such a supporting family. Thank you sis, your videos helped me a lot during this time. ❤️😘

[AhmetKaan]

*Complaining is one of ego's favorite strategies to strengthen itself.*

[schawnettarobinson]

My problems are my gifts: my challenges allowed me to learn so much. I really appreciate them. Events will pass. The trauma and residues remain.

Working through the trauma and dealing with financial fallout also. It can be overwhelming.

I believe 🎉

[ItsMe]

Finally someone who didn't said that my problem is not normal or that I am overreacting to my problems.
THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️

[palestar]

I'm dealing with a terrible demon...I used to judge heroin addicts and call them things like "junky, " "loser" ect I never understood why they always complained that they were so sick and that's why they couldn't stop using, thought it was just an excuse. Karma is real because now I'm hooked on one of the most deadly substances that is much worse than heroin to get off of so now I walk in their shoes. I never thought it would happen to me, but the truth is, it can happen to anyone and addiction doesn't discriminate. I'm not sure what to do lately with this huge, overwhelming problem that I have now. I feel as if I'm trapped in this deep well without much light... So when you talk about struggling, I am definitely there. Everyday I feel hopeless and trapped, actually those words are understatements of this demon I feel has my soul in the cross hairs. I don't know what to do anymore or how to get my health, body, brain and life back. This is by far, the worst thing that could have ever happened to me. It's very difficult to find strength, especially when I have no support from anyone. Please pray that I find it out, that I find strength, hope and that the universe is on my side. This is one of the hardest things in life to ever suffer from, sometimes I no longer see the light. 😢 I think I really need to listen to this and hopefully it will help me... Perhaps it was a sign so thank you. I haven't watched yet, but I read a comment that said this video is good advice for minor issues. Maybe I can take something from it though 🤷 addiction is far more serious than a minor problem. It's a life consuming disease so maybe the video will help, maybe it won't... At least it's positive 🤷

[sacdaabdurhman]

“Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” Sharing some love from small YouTuber
Thank you for the video 💜