Breakfast Chat: How I Deal with Hate, Criticism, and Drama

Come hang out with me as I eat avocado toast, chat about dealing with negativity, and give my thoughts on drama. Be sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below - maybe start a conversation with someone else as well to keep it going :) Love you guys!

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[Mtinabrms]

I can't believe someone would have anything negative about you, your such a positive person & beautiful inside/out ... & motivational ... I love your vegan lifestyle it inspires me to make better choices

[karadailey]

Caitlin! I think you are a wonderful, calming, considerate, beautiful and entertaining person. And I have gotten that impression just from your youtube channel which is only a fractional representation of the person that you are as a whole. This is a powerful, self inflective conversation to have! TY

[meganchang]

It blows my mind that people leave hateful comments on your channel, you seem like such a grounded and driven person and that you are doing this because you love it and not for anyone else's validation. It honestly makes my day whenever you post a new video, because you put such a positive vibe into the world! Side note... that toast looks amazing!

[nicinathalie]

Thanks for these chats, they are so genuine and really helpful. You balance your channel so well, love your videos ❤️

[AllySheehan]

Watching this as I eat my third bowl of cereal for the morning. I have had The 4 Agreements on my bedside table since September and have been meaning to read it! I think we have such a similar mindset and it would really benefit me xx

[filmbycon]

I just wanted to thank you for entertaining me late nights when I'm looking for inspiration. Much love all the way from Australia 💗

[thebluecottage]

Loving your breakfast chats! Negativity is a hard thing to deal with but I think remembering all the positive things people say is a good way to combat those negative feelings and also just filling a bank of love for yourself, so by loving yourself constantly and building up your positivity I find helps me! I just got that book for my mom as one of her Christmas presents! Maybe I should get it as well!

[alexisjankowski]

I love these videos! you are such a beautiful fabulous human being! keep doing you girl 😊

[jamie]

I love your breakfast chats. Very cute idea, and very interesting topic of conversation. :)

[lauren]

I love your breakfast chats so much, they are always a good way to start my day off with both relaxation and deep thought 😊 I share all of your views on drama too - I always say that fighting with other people is completely unproductive. You don't want to listen to someone who is yelling at you, and they don't want to listen to you yelling at them. I believe in listening calmly and not getting involved in things that could be unproductive, like drama or hate videos. Love is productive, kindness is productive 💕 And I can't wait to hear about your yoga journey in an upcoming breakfast chat, I've been thinking about doing it myself! I'd also be interested to hear about how you balance things in your life. I'm a grad student in the medical field too, and there is a stigma that we don't have time to do anything except for school. I find it really inspiring that you do both school and have this cool YouTube and Instagram hobby, how do you balance it all? (Sorry for writing you a novel, just have a lot on my mind this morning!) Sending love your way! Xoxo

[TheConscientiousEater]

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with negative, untruthful comments but love your mindset! Thanks for being so open and vulnerable!

[Cuddlez]

Having our "guard" up at all times and being perfect about avoiding hate/drama can really drain us. I love The Four Agreements book. What I took away from the book was to be selective with what I take in and what I give out. I try to ask, "What good can I find out of this comment/situation?". For instance, "You're fat and should lose some weight" can really bother me as well, since I was 350 pounds and very unhealthy. The best thing to gain from that is take it and use it as a fuel for my drive to achieve a better state of fitness. That last couple reps. A few more seconds of a pose even while shaking. I love your videos and who you are in general. Keep being your positive and lovely self. You are loved.

[auujjkiuii]

I love you and you're videos! you inspire me and you're completely gorgeous ❤❤

[camilacarneiro]

Caitlin, you are amazing and such a genuine person. Thank you so much for this video... It really talked to me. I'm so glad that i found your channel this past few months, it is definitely one of the best ones in YouTube. The way you see life have changed my way of seeing it. Sending love from Brazil! (: (I'm sorry if my english isn't the best one)

[melanatedentrepreneur]

great video. definitely needed to hear this

[iamalexandra.]

The only explanation I can find for someone to call you fat is that they feel fat and since you're skinny they project that self-hate onto you. You're so pretty and you would still be if you weighed more, or less. If other people learned to accept themselves they wouldn't feel the need to try to bring others down. Especially when those people don't have a clue who you are! Don't let that hate get to you ❤

[marleenkop]

Love the breakfast chats! lts so much easier to wake up knowing I can watch this during breakfast. they make my day and Im already looking forward to the next one.

[botanicaldream]

I'm the EXACT same way!! YouTube is the WORST for hateful and judgmental people. I'm non-confrontational but I'm pretty sensitive too and internalize some hateful comments and criticism. I'm going to pick up that book at the library! Sounds great :)

[lavenderruffles]

"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." -Eleanor Roosevelt. This reminds me to not talk about drama and to rise above it. I don't need to bring myself down to there level lol (as cocky as that sounds, it's true)

[danasaker]

don't let anyone bring you down you are who you are and we love you for who you are and mean people have their own proplems just don't care they're just trying to make you feel bad about your self❤❤