How narcissists weaponize forgiveness

[oliviamiller]

Yes, there’s a sadistic edge. Sometimes being upset fuels their cruelty.

[radoslawwitek]

The most important words I heard today. Tried to find the right way to precisely describe this sh*t but you did it perfectly in few seconds. Thank you! You're unbelievable, girl !!!

[jhavajoe]

I like the last statement-- "To distract you ..." Your emotional focus looks that way, while the Narcissist's other hand is working the overall background.

[ridgecrestvarietyshow]

Yes Ms. Mirror! Once again you've explained it so well!

[gregorynicholls]

Wow, best teacher ever. Have every angle covered. Keep radiating, lots of respect to you.

[bm]

Wow, this is very true..I was continually apologizing, and he wouldn't accept my apology 😢

[feirinn]

“Why don’t you lie to your mom about me again?!” I heard that constantly, while he was breaking my teeth and my shin, I had told my mom nothing at this point about what was going on…still my fault 🙄

[PrettyIndependent]

No wonder I’ve never gotten a real apology from them. They think they would be giving me the control.

[phil]

Thank you for that information, my ex narcissist texted me after 8 months of being gone and stated that all she wanted was an apology.. I didn't bother to respond, im staying in no contact regardless.

[ristosorri]

I personally humiliated publicly one narcissist 12 years ago, and another 8 years ago. They are both extremely angry to me even now.

But it was necessary. Both used people like tools and caused so much harm. Now they are both much calmer and harass nobody. Humiliation sounds bad and cruel, but its the only way to stop toxic people from ruining people's lives. They lose that sharp edge which is needed to put people down, once everybody sees who they really are.

[PersianPary]

One day i was helping him with his university lessons recording voice explaining actually teaching him his lessons when he called me and I did not notice it until some 30 minutes. Heaccused me of betraying him. I was so devastated and heartbroken that I shaved my head. I have depression as you may guess. When he found out, he discarded me because of shaving. I said this happened out of depression and because of your nasty thoughts about my fidelity but alas! He was sure to leave me.He made it the boldest, most horrible thing in the world, shaving my head. He was a manipulation monster🤧He said ge cwn not forgive me and he did not love me anymore! Please tell me he would leave me regardless of this incident because I can't help blaming myself.