7 Signs You Were Born To Be A Loner

Daily life and the world in general can be tiring, with its unexpected changes and surprise events that can disrupt your sense of stability and safety, so people can seek solace and refuge from these stressful happenings, by sometimes hiding away and recuperating. If you think that this might sound like you, here are a few signs you're born to be a loner.

Writer: Max Gustavo
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[KingsleyIII]

"Sometimes it's better to be alone. No one can hurt you."
Meg, Disney's _Hercules._

[linuxducky]

Loners are the BEST PEOPLE I can't even explain how people who respect and know space, who aren't always in your business or want to know your business, they're not hungry for attention or self absorbed types. They have unlocked true happiness without need of external things, people, factors, validation.

[beznicza]

I like being alone but not feeling alone.

[omnijonn]

I am a introvert, don't go to parties, don't stay long at public places, and prefer to stay home with my cat and write

[wiktorkaminski]

The annoying part about using headphones could be easily misinterpreted. Because sometimes I might just not want to disturb others while I am actually open for the conversation.

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). You're a very private person 0:34
2). You feel suffocated in large crowds 1:09
3). Your independence is extremely important to you 1:43
4). Your headphones are your is armor 2:18
5). You're happiest alone 2:43
6). You don't enjoy drama 3:19
7). You value your time 3:51

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[therealswitt]

I swear I thought I had a trauma response by how much I kept to myself, now I realize I just dislike people.

[mikeburkhart]

Better to be a loner then be surrounded by false friends...always been a loner, and never minded.

[mercury-king]

using snufkin in this animation is incredibly apt. i’ve always felt like his wandering, independent life was something to admire & didn’t like how, at least in the new moomin series, moomin doesn’t seem to understand that snufkin needs that time alone for himself. some people are just more private than others, & that’s something i resonate with.

[EcpliseCrow]

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨
1. 0:35 You're a very private person
2. 1:09 You feel suffocated in large crowds
3. 1:44 Your independence is extremely important to you
4. 2:19 Your headphones are your armor
5. 2:44 You're happiest alone
6. 3:20 You don't enjoy drama
7. 3:52 You value your time


I may or may not have read the title as "7 signs you're a loser". I was so confused for a second there 💀💀💀

Also, love that sasharcy jumpscare at 2:34

[RowanRiverstone]

I've always said I'm often alone but rarely lonely and almost never bored. For as long as I can remember I've preferred my own company and that of a dog or cat for a friend. Found myself in a relationship with someone just like me in this respect, and it's great. We give each other space and time and share when we feel like it. Being alone together is a lot of fun, too.

[Rose_Butterfly]

I always thought loner was a good thing.
Like something you had to earn. Something normal people cannot do because they need others to help them, because they're not strong enough to do things on their own.

[buckspa]

I'm 53 and definitely remember feeling something was wrong with me when I was young. Through college I put myself through trying to be sociable but usually hated it. After college, I didn't feel the pressure to do the social thing and it felt like a great weight was lifted from me. Unfortunately, 3 of my 4 family members were extroverts and it has often been very painful to deal with them. For over 20 years, I lived away from them, for 10 years only returning at Christmas. After my father died, however, I agreed to move in with my mother, who is 86 now; I can deal with her without much trouble, but my sister is an almost constant source of pain, critiquing my behavior, needing to know everything that's going on; I just want to be left alone. I yearn for the day I can remove her from my life and go back to being on my own, with my cats. 😣

[MrJoseph]

I enjoyed the 'Moomin' references and how they tied into the core theme of the video, very well done 👍🏽

[NeverToMuch]

It is your job to create your purpose in life and your fate. If you want to accept being alone, then by all means, go ahead. If you want to be somebody or something, don't live your life by the people they want you to be, live your life by who or what you want to be.

[drunkedhusky]

I think loneliness is mostly lovely cause its a time i can do stuff at my own speed, no one rushing me, no school/college/workplace pulling you with the same chains as everyone else, no need to be normal and be myself again

[MasterCJ]

My favorite thing in life is that people are so different, like I'm a loner for sure, if I suddenly had the money to, I'd live in the mountains my whole life and never see another human again,
1). "You're private" - Not really talk to me for like 10 minutes and I'll probably share TOO much about my life.
2). "Suffocated by Crowds" - I 100% dread being in one, but if I am it's not bad, I just don't stay in one place long so people don't keep noticing me and develop interest enough to walk over.
3)."Independance is VERY important" - I do love being alone, enough that I COULD do what I said at the top, but ideally I'd have a woman in my life and we'd do everything and anything together, I can be 'independant, but I'd rather be... 'independant together'.
4). "Headphones are armor" - Never used headphones to avoid interaction, to bulky, I prefer earbuds, however after living in a city for a year walking everywhere I did learned to just act as if I'm deaf and keep walking.
5). "Happiest Alone" - Again if I found love, absolutely not, until then, absolutely YES lol.
6). "Hate Drama" - I grew up with 3 older sisters... I was the fly on the wall growing up, and I learned to LOVE drama, the older I get the more I want to be apart of it rather than just watching, BUT I will NEVER create it intentionally, I could easily live without it.
7). "You Value your time" Oh yeah, one of the best lessons I've learned in life was from the movie "Zombie Land" of all places, "Ya gotta enjoy the little things" changed my life and I haven't live a day of my life since without joy in it big or small, frequent or rare, every single day has had joy, and the more time I spend alone the more long strings of joy I get. Social media is dangerous for that though, stay away from that hell, even if you love drama.

[gloomy]

Back in my late teens and early 20s, even though I was quiet and shy I didn’t like being by myself. I was always staying in touch with people through phone calls or texts. Now I’m the complete opposite and avoid socializing as much as possible. I think I just got tired of getting attached to people just to be let down.

[witteveensensei]

I came for Snuffkin and stayed for everything else. I'm not necessarily a loner myself, but I absolutely enjoy spending time in my own apartment... my very own inpenetrable fortress.

[kwasisarpong]

I struggle w walking in the midst of crowds just to get to class. It’s so overwhelming and I hate it