How to Se Better | Extroverted Sensing

We are going to be looking at one facet of Se and how we can improve that - no matter what type you are.

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[laszlo_kovacs]

When looking for a good lock screen background i came across a genius quote that i think summs up what Se does: "GET SHIT DONE."

[nizal]

"Our boy Carl jung ..." hilarious!

[ikasugami]

Definitely tangible To-Do lists are my greatest tool in accomplishing the Se stuff! And I've gotten that down to a science...My system has a system, HAHA.

[archanasahitya]

Omg! I never realised how much of Se I didn't do because I was afraid of coming off badly to other people. Thanks for this. :D

[Vezmus]

I have been very gradually trying to improve the beauty of one room in my house in particular as much as possible, and it's crazy what a difference it can make to your everyday experience.

[GuidingMyHome]

This is such a strange video for me to watch because this all feels super obvious to me, and I'm realizing that this is probably mindblowing to some people the way your Ni videos are mindblowing to me. 😆

[daviddabrowski]

Getting a little better in reality over time. Man this hits home 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. Here I was thinking “I don’t have Se in my top 2”🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[tomochysan]

Fantastic video!! **VISUAL ENTITY OF THE SENSORY!!** (aka object)😍💣🤯

[AntoineLavoisier]

That was really honest and you’ve clearly made great strides in the quality of your videos. Thank you for sharing. I’ve got third slot Se and how it manifested positively was gaining that Ni-Se balance. I used to plan everything down to the minute to ensure the best experience for everyone. Now I’m more comfortable with the chaos and don’t have as much of a need to plan every minute detail out or do it with a sense of urgency. So on the positive side, Se has made me more chill. Despite learning to utilize it, I’m still turning to the dark side of Se when stressed and overindulging in the sensory as an escape from the chaos. It seems in order to break this habit I need to Se even better.

[writerducky]

Clothing style.
Definitely a gradual change that came about living with my brother who's likely Se dom/aux. That experience really tuned me in to my Se (in terms of clothing and living space) and I cringe when I see old pictures of my style-less self.
That said, I still only really care in so far I look presentable to others, or others depend on my effort.

Appreciate your videos.

[rishyyx]

It's not that your videos were so bad at the beginning, but actually you progressed so fast in making high quality videos, what made the old ones look bad in comparison to the new ones.

[derekbinsack]

Your Se is better than mine! I love the headband too, glasses and necklace and your candles and plant in the background. It’s very Aesop vibes.

[tnic]

I guess my point in my longer comment was -- don't beat yourself up, the Se leads have their problems, too, and I think not having a direction for life, and feeling stuck in the day to day is worse. Even if it looks glitzy or impactful!

[erfanakhavan]

Thank you for these videos. I really want to improve my NI, TE and SE and your videos are helping me out. So please keep them up.

[thebosslady-G]

This was helpful for me as a SCPB Jumper INTJ female. Thank you. I've been trying to figure out how I can speed up the process of doing Se better and formulate rules to make it less a of a painful experience in my growth.

[kristannestone]

"...things that physically CHANGE, in REALITY..." I ACTUALLY HAD TO REWIND AND LISTEN *2X* FOR THAT TO SINK IN. And when it did, I thought "Oh Yah, I'll be implementing this. Obviously, I need it. Great video!!! I'm excited!!!

[nadal]

I love your channel because it's so helpful and practical as an infj I learned a lot from your channel because you give simple and helpful advice s and explanation especially to our cognitive functions

[quinndepatten]

I've noticed that I really hate waiting. I'd rather walk and take twice the time than wait for a ride. It's just much more satisfying to see actually progress.

It's been really torturous moving out. Its like there's a giant wall between me and all the stuff I want to but can't do before moving out. I just want to see it happen, so I can change stuff up as I go.

[_medtalk_]

I'm working on it even though Se is uncomfortable, thank you for this video I learned something from you.

[lauracello]

Thanks LiJo. I found out that I am INFP. Thought I was ENFP but INFP makes sense. Se being my blind spot. I realize why I have never been real careful about my looks/ hairstyle etc.