Men, ask yourself this

Can you authentically tell yourself this?

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[aalvarez]

As I have aged, my most important purpose is to become a man that I respect.

[sbh]

Popular saying goes, "Comparison is the thief of joy." I think an important thing to consider, however, is that unearned joy is the thief of ambition.

[ismaelhall]

A man's life becomes better when he becomes the man whom he respect.

[lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment]

Wow, finally you are talking about things I can actually relate to and agree with. Thank you. A "real man" does not need "tricks". Be your authentic self. Bravo!

[cncmilljunkie]

When most single women in my city are over weight and has three kids, it’s hard to want to invest in that.

[kevinwasilewski]

I agree especially about the “caliber of women” factor. If you’re a smart, confident, “clean” well-spoken man, but going after a gal who naturally likes big tough guys or bikers, than your features will fly over their heads. They’ll friend-zone you to have a decent guy to bounce ideas off, but pursuing her will be a waste.

[MrStudGuy]

Without saying it he’s implying that you need success and financial security if you’re going to chase women that are 8s, 9s and 10s. If you’re trying to become a doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. just to attract the most physically desirable women, you’re making a mistake. Whatever you choose to do in life career wise, make absolutely certain you’re choosing it because it’s your dream. Women come and go but an average career is 30+ years. Make sure you’re doing something that makes YOU happy.

[ThorMaximus]

The point is to level up your life. It doesn’t stop & it’s worth the work.

People don’t see the work you do, just the outcomes. For example, I’ve recently been hyper-vigilant about financial future, saving & investing $150k in under 3 years.

I’ve actually been called “broke” by ignorant people who don’t know what I’m doing, which is ironic given how much student debt they still have, are house poor, and have nothing saved.

In other words, by women who want a lifestyle and high status look but it’s on a house of cards where a layoff destroys their life.

In under 2 years, I’ll exceed a Quarter Million net worth & can ease up a bit on aggressively saving, steadily contribute, be a millionaire in 10 years with a good market & have 10x more with 100x less stress.

[keanureeves]

Dude there are always someone better than you… it doesn’t matter. All you need to do is make a life for yourself that you want to live and then find a woman that wants to live it with you.

[Morbutt]

I believe the problem lies in that women perceive men's value differently than men perceive a man's value.

[brianjones]

Be the kind of man you would want your daughter to marry.

Not the man you're okay with. The kind of man you WANT her to marry. Be that man.

[pinotwinelover]

As a man, you develop your love, that's deep it can either be taken from you, or given to you, and once you develop the characteristics he's talking about in the spiritual nature there's nothing really any woman can do except step into your life or step out

[matthewzumbo]

Its 9 am and this boy here is putting me on the spot already lol 🫡

[SinguSoon]

You may be or become the best option, but you’ll never be her only option, and the candy store, with its endless other flavors and choices, is always open for her to sample.

[mannyvelo]

I love this guy. Damn he’s good. So glad he’s flourishing on YT.

[GLDn]

He's right.
Ignore the little head and put yourself first. Build wealth. Be debt free. Hone skills valuable in all econmic times (trades/salesmanship).
The longer you invest in yourself, the higher the returns.
Women will literally bring you food and bake you shit to see if you're interested in them.

[melodyc]

This guy is VERY right about this. A lot of men want to point fingers at other men and say what's wrong, or call the woman they want and can't get a bitch. Worry about yourself!!!! If you become her type, you honestly don't need to play games. She'll come to you.

[AlaricsFather-in-Law-emkz]

This is ok advice, but many guys (competition) spend more than they realistically should in order to attract women. So if you're a minimalist or just spend within your means, you can't compete with them in that initial attraction phase. For example, I drive an ok car, but paid for with cash. Many guys lease better cars and are therefore debt slaves but women don't care about those details because it's not their problem. Another example are guys that have more impressive physiques due to roids. Yeah, I train and look good but there are always those guys around that look bigger and leaner because they're ready to risk their health to look better. So yeah, women are shallow and get picked up by the flashy guys, while they dry like the Sahara dessert if you're a financially responsible guy, let alone a minimalist who values freedom over material possessions.

[wellnesspathforme]

Step 1: Properly defining ‘caliber of woman, ’ a skill that almost no men possess. The best looking women are often if a very low caliber, fellas. Go ahead, learn the hard way.

[christopherwilliams]

This is the best advice! I live by it daily and it pays dividends!!!