ENFPs: Ask Yourself These 5 Questions When You're Feeling Stuck

Okay so I am *technically* aiming this video at ENFPs because we share a cognitive stacking but honestly, a lot of this is generalizable to any MBTI type (be you an INFP, INFJ, ENFJ, INTJ, ENTJ, ENTP, INTP, ESFP, ESFJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESTP, ISTP, ESTJ or ISTJ).

Feeling stuck is such a frustrating feeling and it's one I know very, very well. This video is more of a series of personal anecdotes about what's worked for me. If any of it works for you too, all the better ❤️

[jammingdan]

I recently asked myself why I didn’t have the drive anymore and where my “inner hunger” was. I thought to take more time to reflect and meditate to find the the next step. You just confirmed it with your awesome video! As a christian I find the source in God’s presence and He helps me to find new inspirations and wisdom.

[kaylagnapp]

I feel like I’m going to have to watch this several times to really let these soak in

[srgkzy]

This was surprisingly REAL. So much so that a tear ran down my cheek.

THANK YOU


( I really have to meditate a bit more on the whole video to write a comment with substance... but for now... )

[timothyleepeterson]

Thanks for this; “what are you holding on to that’s already gone?” Definitely has me gutted

[vanimalviya]

I think I found the Si integration line. "Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast."

[mumaphirichola]

This has changed my life thanks, have been stuck for a year, had tears running down my cheek while listening to you but I think it's time to move on 🤗

[benjaminfast]

So much of this felt relatable to me for my current situation. I've felt very stuck in my life, and finances and the need for security have really dominated my decisions because my family struggled growing up and my parents sacrificed happiness for financial security. I've borrowed that mentality from them even though it goes against my nature. I always feel like my life is meaningless, so I put in my 40 hours of work each week and spend my personal time playing games and watching TV. Trying to figure out what I really want is stressful because any conclusions I come to require great risk and my family always tells me it's not a good idea. So I remain. Asking myself a lot of these questions brings up a lot of stress. Hopefully if I can dig into them further they will also bring hope. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. I have so much respect for you. Remember, what you are doing IS making a difference in other people's lives. You are truly appreciated. :)

[TheCyaf]

Two key questions for any ENFP struggling (as I've been for 40 years ^^'')
What do I like the most?
What do I hate the most?
It helped me finding what path I want to take and why... Hopefully it helps someone else 🥰

[AnewA]

I’m in my early 30s and unemployed. I don’t know what path to take but I will ask myself these questions. This was amazing. Thank you for being honest.

[sarrabk]

Extraordinary amount of work put in this video...and I am not only talking about the technical aspect of it ( script, editing etc..) but also all the life-driven experiences you had to personally undergo to come up with such wisdom...It's a standing ovation for me, thank you for all the people you are inspiring and all the lives you are making better. May you find it in God's blessings

[lisawilliams]

Heidi, you motivate me like no other. From listening to your book on audible, I decided to reorganise my shed at 1am!! I've put this off for an entire year, and it only took me an hour! Having you is like having the most personalised therapist who knows me inside and out. Thank you for everything 😊💓

[tanvisharma]

Most of the ENFPs are watching this in 1.5× or 2x speed😂

[lorib.]

It's comforting to know that even a very successful enfp has been stuck. And thank you so much for sharing your own tools for getting unstuck. You really did find wonderful ways to work through it all. Thank you a ton for lighting the path a bit.

[normietwiceremoved]

Your point about adopting a 'perpetual beginner' mindset is a powerful. I've continually tried to remind myself of this because I can get so caught up with where I think I should be at this point in my life.

[Goldenthreadtarot]

Wow. You just taught me more in less than an hour, than most self help videos and books I’ve read in the last 12 years. Thank you.

[suziebrouillet]

Love you ….from a 64 years old ENFP who really needed to hear this!

[ADecentMan]

I am not one to comment on videos but I just want to say thank you so much for creating this content! Your videos have helped me to truly understand myself better and are helping me to heal and move forward 🙏🏾

[downrok]

I read your book and it changed how I viewed life and helped me to understand myself in ways that no one else could put in words. I'm dropping a line to say that your video is really a timely reminder for me and I am really happy for the kind of difference you've made in my life and the difference you're making in our world. It's truly inspiring. Thank you! :)

[rictusempra]

Heidi, thank you for being an ENFP brave enough to take the steps a lot of ENFPs are stuck with and sharing your "success" story with all of us. I quote the word success because I know life still isn't easy for you and won't be easy in the future, but I really consider those steps toward change a huge success. For so long, I've been held back and just been so damn scared to take those steps. I struggle with many of the things you've listed and feel like I am such a failure. I've recently moved out of my environment and my old group of people, my parents and my partner's parent telling me that anything outside the traditional route is a failure, and my social circle that prefers security/comfort over change (nothing wrong with it, probably SJ types). Taking that step I KNOW that I made the right decision, life has NOT been easy since I did that and I am struggling every day. My external problems (eg. rent, finances, employment) are not being resolved, it's all super stressful, but I KNOW that I am on the right path. Going against how the world tells me to operate feels scary and makes me want to cry every day, but it feels so right and I finally feel like I am alive and heading somewhere in life. Watching your video and hearing your stories confirmed that for me. Thank you Heidi for being the role model on my journey and I wish you nothing but the best and all the love from a fellow ENFP ❤

[aneeszahid]

The most helpful video i have watched on YouTube to date.