Sustaining desire in a long-term relationship | Dr. Petra Zebroff | TEDxSurrey

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Sex therapist and researcher, Dr. Petra Zebroff, describes the four ways to increase sexual desire and reconnect a sexual spark in long-term relationships. The natural and gradual decrease in sexual passion is one of the most common complaints for sex therapists. After extensive research, which included more than 10,000 survey participants and helping hundreds of couples reconnect, Dr. Zebroff describes how “low sexual desire” may not be what it seems. Find out which of the four ways of sexual initiation works for you and your partner to get turned-on. Petra Zebroff, has been an avid student of human sexuality for over 25 years. First as a PhD student, then learning from clients as a sex therapist and now with sex research.

After founding, Libida, the first women’s online sexual magazine and community, Petra went on to write for popular magazines and websites such as Psychology Today and focuses on sex research and innovation to understand the areas of sexual initiation and eroticism.

All through that journey, there has been one common thread, and that is — what lights people up sexually. While the majority of sex research and therapy emphasize the problems of sex, Petra has focused on what ‘works’ sexually, specifically what sparks up the erotic part of the brain.

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Very interesting topic, thanks for sharing would be nice to have more talks about that ❤️☀️🌙

simplysunmoon

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

NathalieLazo

Very good topic although you forgot to mention a very small factor which destroys erotic brain: Toddlers. Two boys in my case 🤣🤣

millig

Yeah after 2-3 years I felt the "spark" leaving the "game". But it came back, sadly only for me and not my partner, at 6 years around. Few years later it ended for the better.
You only know if you are compatible for life, after you lose your Spark.

allicedee

This content stands as a testament to insightful and profound thought. A book with related material was a significant influence in my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

LarryP

It's a spark that one should keep between them always one should try things with required amount of time after all it's relationship it's about keeping it throughout your life ❤️🌍

Lifeofsharmaji_

For any guy, man reading this comment, go read or hear the book "The Rational Male" from Rollo Tomassi. This will teach you a lot of women, and how to keep Genuine Burning Desire aka "the spark" women feel for a man. Thank me later

orwell_fan

NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO KISS FIRST!!! - DAMN THIS TRUELY HAS BEEN A GREAT MESSAGE TO MY EARS N BRAIN!!

datchinogreentgod

Lovely to be able to see your talk Petra, great job and you were amazing!

MultiSuzy

SPECIAL COMMENT: You as the man must have awesome chemistry to begin with so your relationship with your Woman does not fade away. You too (as the man) must be more beautiful than the Woman so she can listen to you. The man must have awesome chemistry! He too, if possible, must have Chemistry and Looks so all can roll well with the Woman. "The World is messed up love wise for the man who does not have any chemistry with a hot woman" December 31, 2023. USA

Jay-efii

Thank you👍🌹. Wow! That was a big eye opener 👍👍👍

JaeNiece

People get tired of things they have access to overtime. Think of that brand new car that you no longer covet after 2 years and that brand new cell phone that you no longer baby after 2 months

champfisk

Where do i find this Qtip questionnaire ?

bfcbrad

It certainly helps if you have a gal that looks like the good Dr. Petra as the days go by, but actual commitment should be the eternal spark. Material stability, limerence, impulsiveness, societal pressure, and/or obligation("accidental" pregnancy...etc) should never be the foundation of a relationship that's expected to last.
The days of survival dating are gone and hypergamy should be reclassified as a mental disorder.
When Love becomes the only reason people are dating instead of relieving anxiety and fear? Alot of these issues will become rare rather than a societal norm...

UnconditionalTruthKilluminati

This is an amazing talk I love the idea of communication with your partner. Too bad rvw is going to hurt so many lives.

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