How to Stop Being Too Nice STOP FINISHING LAST

Do you constantly get walked all over because you're too nice? In this video, I explain how being too nice develops and what keeps that nice guy/girl persona locked into place. When you have social anxiety or constantly feel on the verge of an anxiety attack, people pleasing behaviours are often the default simply because you've lost contact with who you truly are inside. And when you lack self worth, you cannot stand up for yourself no matter how hard you try. Further, your fear of being judged is so disproportionate that nothing but overthinking and lack of assertiveness manifests in your life.

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[rubin-healmysocialanxiety]

Thanks for watching how to stop being too nice. What was your biggest 'aha' moment? Let me know in the comments! 👇

[nxtlvlyt]

I was abused as a child and now can see why I'm always seeking validation even from my good friends who love and always validate me. 😆

[JackdawLifts]

OH DAMN

YUP.

Cotrolling my anger because I’m so emotionally skilled!



People pleaser 101
Anxiety 101

Yup!
Fuxk dude.

Like I know these.
I know this.

Yet I still gotta allow my full expression.

Haha.

I’m making changes now to move away from family again.

Another part of me is like oh no stop arguing with them Jack. That’s you just staying connected with them.
So again I try be nice and ignore it.
But agajn!
No that’s back in the trap!!

Hahahahaahahahahaga

Cant win.

If you play chess with a pigeon he will always fly off and shit all over the boardx

Ok anyway