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[RaymondStone]

But Kell-Bell, I just want everyone to know about my rash!

[AllSeeingThai]

“If they don’t know your dreams, then they can’t shoot them down.”

[Stephanie-hnyn]

Sometimes I think people over share because they’re lonely.

[karisap]

I think there's a fine line between vulnerability and oversharing. It's really about right place, right time, right person. Social media is rarely any of those things.

[motc]

I keep destroying boundaries because I want people to understand me as a person and to hear my feelings, but this gives me a whole different perspective.

[EmmanuelMotelin]

”Once you’ve lost your privacy, you realize you’ve lost an extremely valuable thing.” – Jodi Rell.

[emilyantonia]

I’ve been guilty of this. I remember oversharing because I felt I could make a more genuine connection because I was being “real.” When I didn’t get the same sharing back I felt embarrassed, I resented people when they weren’t willing to tell me about themselves in the way I did for them. Even though I would feel really uncomfortable and vulnerable when I overshared I felt it was still better than being cold and closed off. This ended up with me completely isolating myself because I couldn’t handle the emotional exertion that came with sharing myself with others. I guess it’s about balance, not feeling that you need to offer every part of yourself or avoid the relationship completely, but taking the time to feel out what is comfortable for you and the person you’re with.

[harveythecat]

Don’t stay quiet but be selective about what you share and with whom

[gayemarianesfox]

“Not everyone wants to see you win” TRUTH

[therealkoolaidandkale]

That old quote, "People want you to do well, but not better than them." Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one not stuck in "the matrix" and I love it here. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[carolineeccel]

I'm naturally a quiet person. People would ask why I'm so quiet so I would try to be more talkative, saying too much like you said. I didn't like myself. Now I'm back to my true self, quiet and I like it. Keeps them guessing. Thank you so much.

[jessiek]

I learned that from my life. Never share your personal story to people in workplace. They will judge you and gossip about it

[Mayan]

Moral of the story: You do not need other people’s validation !

[TheLaurenShow]

"Talk less. Smile more. Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for."

[woudgy]

A thing that bothers me a lot is people who overshare their children's lives on social media. Children cannot give informed consent. Reprehensible, tbh.

[makaylabrown]

Don’t give people a stick to beat you with. Tell them your business they just come back and and beat you down with it.

[HannahKleidermacher]

If you look back on the times you “overshared” to a person and cringe hard, you might just have a problem with vulnerability. Being a naturally private person is fine, but don’t try to convince yourself into becoming private for the sole purpose of avoiding “cringe” or others’ judgement. Knowing yourself and feeling confident enough to share that energy with others may be ultimately more freeing to you. Depends on the person.

[davidresch]

Talk to people like your talking to the police...always say LESS than necessary

[vyshnavigudivada]

"nothing bad comes from not telling people your business"

[nouf]

People don’t care about what happened to you, but then they can use it against you one day, so just don’t share too much and be careful and make sure have someone to tell them everything because then you wouldn’t need to be Oversharing to anyone