Overcoming the Betrayal of an Affair -- Rick & Tiffany Bulman

The Bulmans’ marriage almost shattered when Rick discovered his wife. Tiffany, was having an affair. The day after the revelation, Rick remembered a conversation from their premarital counseling where the minister said if adultery necessitates divorce, then God is not big enough to fix a broken relationship. So, Rick and Tiffany underwent counseling with Pure Desire Ministries for one year. In this interview, Rick and Tiffany will share how their marriage was restored and offer hope to other couples.

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[yeseniadiaz]

Not much credit given to the husband i think the brave one here is Him . being vunable and willing to share such a painful experience in his marriage over and over again. U can hear in his voice theres still that healing journey . that season of recovering . 3 years later for me and im still not okay . trusting Gods timing and moment of true healing . thank you for your humbleness . forgiveness and sharing your story over and over again 🥰

[FamilyForumJapan]

Anytime there is secrecy and dishonesty in any area of marriage, that is a form of unfaithfulness, even if there is not actually an affair. And betrayal can take years to recover from, especially if a spouse is not repentant. Thank you for being vulnerable and willing to share your journey.

[keynat]

Very frustrating that she is the one who cheated and she is getting clout about being brave. The sense I get is that they set up a REASON for her to cheat instead of holding her accountable. They even said the other man was predatory. Too many excuses for the cheater and not enough encouragement for the Husband who endured all this betrayal

[natashalucas]

Super heros don't always wear capes, the real ones wear Jesus 🔥♥️

[frankwhite]

My wife cheated and I was devastated to learn just how far this went. I wanted to send her packing, but when I walked out the door of the room into the hallway after learning this the Lord spoken to me as clearly as ever forgive her. I knew He was talking full forgiveness, restore the relationship. He didn't give up until I finally agreed, her life literally depended on it. What spoke volumes to me was His love and forgiveness towards her !!!

[pleadfive]

Almost 2yrs in, I’m the betrayed. Never, ever, ever trust a friend. Remember this, be sure your sin will find you out!

[cheekiesap]

Listen to me, this video annoying me. Her cheating is not because he left gaps. He is not responsible for her cheating.

[craigcunningham]

Thank-you Father for this dear couple and their children. I pray Your love, favour and blessings rest upon them always.

[MJ]

Any relationship leaves gaps. You shouldn't be looking to close those gaps with an affair. I'm sure the husband also does not have 100% of his needs met.n

[nnylasoR]

“You provide the heart — *I’ll* provide the miracle.” ✨✋😭🤚✨

[jeremiahharris]

She talked about hurting her kids and herself but she didn’t once say how badly she hurt her husband!! Holy moley! Where has the empathy gone?
My wife cheated on me in a long term affair and it took time for her to gain empathy but I never ever want to see that empathy disappear! If this woman had remorse and empathy she would always be present to step in front of her husband and carry the brunt of the hurt she has caused to her husband and never think twice about it.

[tmom]

This is hard to hear . The husband should of been asked more questions. My husband had the affair and he isn’t remorseful and wants to have me just forget . It needs to be talked about how the other person heals through this process

[lindahayden]

Both of them needed forgiveness. Blaming should never be considered. Both made choices. Praise God for his amazing Mercy and Grace! As Believers we should recognize such impossible & Supernatural forgiveness of this husband.

[TrueTrue]

Going through this now.. Pray for me.. 😭

[thelordstabernaclebaptistc]

I’m curious about what helped the husband let go of the emotional pain. How do you forgive your spouse for falling in love with someone else? And how do you trust that it’s over? I’ve ordered the book.

[bjemaja]

Someone said she acted like she wasn't accountable. Actually she did ask for forgiveness for her adultery. Listen to the whole broadcast.

[mfxcdwy]

Reminds me of Hosea. A picture of God’s unfathomable mercy.

[randomguy]

As a Christian, I would say it's okay for the church to help people who want to stay together, but they shouldn't guilt them into staying together. Cutting my unfaithful ex-fiance out of my life, I feel, was the best decision I possibly could have made. The triggers, flashbacks and mind movies were brutal and would have likely continued my entire life if I didn't go 100% no contact.

[joseyndaba]

Enlightening testimony…The shame and pain is still visible on the wife’s face and demeanour though 🙏🏾

[nathaliekovacs]

POOR GIRL felt like she NEEDED to cheat on her husband while he provided and worked so hard for his family. SMH!!! This woman is a joke