How To Be Confident Around Girls | 8 Life Changing Tips!

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How to be confident around girls. 8 real-life tips that work and I practice with my clients. A lot of people struggle with how to be confident and men struggle with how to talk to girls and build their confidence. The 8 tips I share with you are meant for you to take back and work on. There is no quick fix for how to be confident with girls. It takes work and that's what I am here to share with you today. I can guarantee if you 100% follow these tips. It will build your confidence.

Here are the 8 tips on how to have confidence with girls.

Tip #1: Be direct and stick to your word. Don't be submissive if you think that she may not like you. How to build confidence around girls is all about your approach to being direct but always being respectful.

Tip #2: Don't expose your negative qualities. Don't talk about your negative qualities in hopes that she will think this is cute. It's not it automatically puts you in the friend zone. Instead, work on them, and being confident around girls will become easier.

Tip# 3: Take a compliment and don't feel like you have to compliment her back. When you hold your ground is when you compliment her when you want to compliment her. Don't overly compliment but be direct and make your words known this is the key to confidence around girls.

Tip #4: Find support, men that are your friends, and help you with conversations when you are talking to women. If you have guy friends that are confident with this ask them to help. Use your resources and this will help you be confident around girls and how to build confidence around women.

Tip #5: Use affirmation in your mind to control your limiting beliefs. Use affirmations like " I got nothing to lose" I know my worth" I got this. Say this to yourself because mindset creates energy and you want your energy to be good so keep up the great thoughts so it impacts the woman you go out with.

Tip #6: Limiting beliefs. Let go of the bad thoughts and acknowledge them and then use affirmations to them right back when they come up so you can start controlling these limiting beliefs. Be in the present moment with her and release the pressure of what you have to do.

Tip #7 Get out there. No one is going to come to get you off your couch and find you. You have to put in the effort. So go out with friends, join a dating app. Do what it takes to build your confidence and being confident around girls.

Tip # 8 Work on self-development and continue to do that. How can you advance yourself as a man? Where are the points that need focus?

Tip #9 Attitude comes through with body language so remember to control the way you think and engage and adjust your attitude before your approach. If you have a positive attitude you will have a positive approach.

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[TheAnswerSeries]

You are more of a life changing coach. Very good information, Thanks

[mikemoss]

Hi Apollonia! I don't really have confidence issues being around girls but this video did give me a few helpful tips that I could use to "clean up" my game: #2 Don't expose negative qualities. I have been guilty of this from time to time. Trying to be self deprecating to present myself as having less of an ego. #6 Limiting Beliefs: The "voices in my head" have caused me to procrastinate making a move causing me to miss an opportunity. Lastly, my favorite. #8 Self Development. I can't speak enough about how helpful this is! Lets' just say I am full of positive energy, living in the moment, being present and looking ahead! You.... Miss Apollonia, are molding me into a new man! Thank you!

[cottagegymfun]

3:14 Affirmation "I'm the sh*t"
Lol I've got this

[charlesrandolph]

I really appreciate this. I'm asking out a woman tomorrow i recently got back in touch with. She and I have the same goals / values!

[double-og]

2:10
Yea, as guys, we all put eachother on blast if we confess on having no game. BUT that in and of itself is motivation.

[lifestoryguy]

it amazes me that there are still guys out there that don't realise that it's not about what you say to a woman in some lame attempted to get her to like you or to impress her, but it is about the questions you ask her to get her to open up so that she feels understood, emotionally connected and invested in what you are saying and reveals her true character. In asking her questions, you get to judge whether her values and lifestyle is compatible with yours and whether you could fall in love with her over time. I mean, you can have rapport with a particular woman, even like her as a person, but she may have different values and a lifestyle that just isn't compatible. So, however pretty she is, you can't date a woman you have little in common with because she'd drive you bonkers in the end and she deserves a man that could love her in a way you can't just as you deserve a woman that can love you in a way that she can't.

It seems many men need to realise that being a man isn't about how many women you've slept with or even whether you are in a relationship. Being a man is about having your own purpose and a direction for your life. If a woman finds you attractive and values what you offer that's great. But if she doesn't value what you offer then that's great, too, because she then knows that, as great as you are, her taste is for a different kind of man. After all, attraction isn't a choice. You can't make someone love you. You may be able to manipulate them for a period of time, but eventually they'll leave. So, it's better to figure out what you want from life and have fun trying to achieve it. A woman will probably turn up along the way, and if she doesn't, well, you will have achieved all your dreams and many other things that most people never get round to doing.

As Arthur Schopenhauer said, 'All great souls are destined to live alone.' So, if you don't find a woman that matches you, then perhaps you can take some comfort in the fact that you might be a truly great soul. Who knows, perhaps there are women out there so afraid of dating you, not because you're too poor, aren't tall enough or don't have model good looks, but because you are so happy and content with your own life and achieved so much that you are intimidating. They may even believe that they have nothing to offer you.

[AngieNFilms]

Great tips and agree with everything you said!!!! I just shared this video with my brother (LOL) so he can find a quality gal and be much smoother :)

[datdeerdude]

When I saw the other thumbnails on this channel, I was like "oh gods, she's going to give me awful advice, but let's watch anyway because she seems pretty real"
I'm pleasantly surprised that everything in this video was true information grounded in reality

[BalancedtotheCore]

This tips are so right on, Apollonia. AND so great for life too! Thanks for sharing.

[Thanio]

This is incredible, relaxing and refreshing

I'm so sick of always defending men always in that defense position. This channel promotes progressive positive growth!!

She is very descriptive when she speaks so I literally just leave this channel on auto play while at work! This is a good day starter channel!!

[simmentorshipinstitute.]

Thanks for the masterly and eloquence in putting accross facts that empower men who care to stand out from the crowd .i love you and your talk.

[bobbymitchell]

Yes so true being 2 down on yourself is telling. I am very confident and glad the ladies treat me wonderfully i love the male female dynamic !!!! There is nothing better 2 me !

[josephficarra]

Kaboom. Appolonia kaboom on point. An only the best will do we don’t settle for unacceptable behavior. Today

[infernalx]

Men I have 3 simple tips for you 1. Work Hard and become Rich 2. Hit the gym 3. Buy decent clothes.

[chessmaster]

I have been watching these videos. In my view you have authenticity and I like that.

[callistusigboanugo]

Amazing video Apollonia Ponti, you’re on point with the issues involved in relationships.

[michaelmccullough]

A very wise lady Apollonia! I really like what you say, and your very kind intentions towards lady just like yourself would be a wonderful "catch"!! ('just sayin').
Thank-you for your great Love-work!

[waynehaslam]

Hi Apollonia, I came across your video's the other day as I'm struggling to understand my girlfriend. She sometimes allows me to kiss her as well as hold her hand in public when there's other people around. Sometimes not as she just pulls away from me, I'll be honest with you, it hurts sometimes. She did this on Friday night last and later on she was letting me kiss her and hold her hand as well letting me put my hand on her thigh. I did ask her why she was doing this to me, after I'd gone outside the pub for a smoke and she asked me what was wrong. She told me it was a woman's thing and that it wasn't me. She's knows I'm crazy about her and that I absolutely adore her.

[johnnyblack]

Thanks for your advice always Ms Apollonia Ponti.. My favorite dating and relationship coach

[michaelpope]

Wow you are really good! your video reminded me of some positive things I need to think about to be more confident. Having the right mindset with affirmations is big!