How to make a deep connection with someone

This is something that I've gotten better at with time. You can make deep connections with someone fairly quickly if you know what you're doing. This is a big part of what I teach my clients to do. Learning to master this will not only help your dating life but will make you a better person overall in life. This will make you unforgettable.

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Outro song: Thorn Beats -

[Ash_Wen-li]

Hmm, this actually explains why my friend does well with women with past trauma or issues, but never any "normal" women

[perish]

I had her in tears didn't even touch her that's a real connection

[FoundationsofFreedom]

Empathy is a muscle. While I struggle with approaching people out in the world (in the context of having no reason other than I want to talk to them) the people I have connected with, and especially women, have told me that they feel safe around me and they know I’m not going to judge them, but more so that I understand them. I think we should have the conversations about overcoming approach anxiety, how to best text a girl, and everything else, but at the end of the day, if you strengthen your empathy, you’re going to get next level results in your dating life, but also in your broader social life. People really just want to be listened to and understood.

[chrisbunka]

Many people are told nowadays that they have to hide their weaknesses. However, showing your vulnerability is a strength. If people can’t accept your vulnerability, they aren’t a good match for you.

[youngsuit]

This is actually why many jobs and groups like the military have groups of new people going through horrible stuff at the beginning. It makes you build bonds by that shared experience.

[nightswell]

Gentlemen, just to reiterate/emphasize do not do this too quickly with a woman! I made the mistake myself of becoming too vulnerable too fast with a woman, so much so that this woman ended up throwing me under the bus for it with a business partner. Like Lloyd said this is to be done after some time of getting to know your partner.

[youngsuit]

This isn't just throwing all your flaws out there to someone. It's strength and acknowledgement of them. You're the one in control; it's courage not through the absence of fear but despite it. Inevitably life will hit hard, you can't keep up the being perfect act forever. You have to be human. And show strength through that pain.

Despite how unrealistic it is, the movie hitch was as popular with women as it was men. That messaging about being yourself and being confident about it is sappy af but it wasnt like every woman was like wow what a trash message. Most actually liked that messaging.

[laciko]

Wow bro. All my respect to you. This is the deepest advice I have heard from a dating couch so far. You are right, the feeling of total acceptance and non-judgmental attitude whats connects two people deeply

[ashm]

this is interesting because a lot of people say never show emotional weakness to a woman

[Bryan-hxvl]

It's funny that this made me think about how my close friends got to become my close friends.
It was by sharing and talking about my lifelong problems. Them knowing and understanding what struggles I had and have.

Like when I reached a huge low point in my life and someone who wasn't close to me at the time helped me. He did by reaching out, caring and talking with me about it ans helping me fight against it. He became one of the best friends I have.

It was also how I got my first girlfriend. The big first topic we talked about which I can still remember was how depressed we both were and what struggles and scars we both carry(we both were very drunk at our first time meeting though).

Funny how some things happen

[amierfoster]

Haha dude u looked bad ass like a rockstar with the long hair now you like a psychology professor

[d.k.borelli]

I agree, so many coaches mention that you should always be happy and positive and uplifting on a date, and shy away from negative topics. Which YES, those are number 1 important attributes, but talking about hard times, with positive perspective, does work on a deep immense level. I used to always do it in high school, and early college, and wondered why So many women wanted me! Then when learning GAME, you learn other stuff that work well, but shy away from deep eternal connection that I mentioned above

[imoretullv]

I think what he is saying is: share the full experience of being human with another human (joys and pains)

[richvail]

I think this video needs a follow up. It addresses a connection with another by sharing ones pain but it doesn’t address how to get the other person to want to talk about their painful experiences. That in itself is a tight wire act. It needs to be drawn out of someone else in an organic form and not just a bold question of what makes you cry form of question.
I think it’s more important for the girl to share their stories based on the idea that guys need the girl to feel connected rather than the guy trying to get her to feel connected by tell her his sad stories. I think the guys stories will need to be shared later on when the physical attraction isn’t enough glue for him to stick around.

[qsam]

Exposure to vulnerability helps bring closure. When you share painful experiences with someone, it brings closure... but be warned it doesn’t work on everyone, especially a person who’ has mental health illness.

[O.Shawabkeh]

But be very careful at the start, before you become experienced
Don't come off as needy for attention. Don't show much of your pain so as to drive others instantly away from you.

[SPlusMentality]

Amazing insight! Thank you for adding value to us Lloyd!

"Out of pain we are born."

[MohitSapra]

Met a women, even tried to share my hardships with her. She struggled to understand me, because she never had gone through much hardships in her life like i had, life had treated her like a silver spoon baby. For her most improtant was wether we had similar likes and dislikes or not. We didn’t had many but still had some. Turned out she was still very immuture at the age of 23, we ended up really badly, but it was her choice, not mine. I always treated her right, i litrally poured my heart into her, but she had no reapect towards me or my efforts, she showed no compassion and tried to ghost me, i kept wondering what happend.

[BobF]

This is truly inventive material. A book I read with parallel innovation was also groundbreaking. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

[growing.grounds]

This is why the girl I talk to is so into me because I relate to her pain cause I’ve been thru what she is going Thur and I’m giving her a chance to disconnect from that pain