10 Dumbest Dating Mistakes That Guys Make (PLEASE STOP)

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Smart guys make a lot of DUMB dating mistakes. Here are some of the worst ones that I see over and over again. Please STOP these immediately!

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13:36 “Typically in life, later equals never”. This is the reason I like Todd’s content so much, because his advise is not just useful for Dating but for life as a whole. Truly one of the best couches ever.

Don_Porfirio
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Summary:
0. Active / Passive misstakes. (Active are less excusable)
1. Not having condoms - Bring two with you always. Its a priming technique/ reminder of 'game'.
2. Dont invite a girl to a place if you dont want to do the activity of that place.
3. Live in a bad place for dating.
4. Putting dealbreakers in your profile.
5. Poor style and fashion. Just lazy or stupid?
6. Trying to define the relationship before there is a relationship.
7. Bringing up a loaded topic on the first date.
8. Cant bring girls home.
9. Sandbagging your photos to be more honest (make good pictures( ex profile) and dont make them less attractive).
10. Putting it off (start gaming now, not later).

draapulus
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I would like to add: Letting the girl know like her too early/telling her you like her. Your actions should show her you are interested but not yet fully sold on her. I have personally struggled with this one, but I am never doing the same mistake again.

MMKnight_
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Todd thanks that trough your free videos you actually gave me game, and guidance that i was missing from my life.
I improved with girls
you alongside some other channels, made me who i am today. A journey of 5 years that i started enjoying my life once again.

panathasg
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Editing team stop putting so many snapshots in the video... Geez 😂

Ninjahire
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Agree with the part of the "the time to start gaming is ASAP".

ricardok
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I suffered from the do it later mindset (single dad, working 80hrs/wk on my business, living in a warehouse), then when I was finally ready I did in fact start, but I was years behind. I got into a relationship with an incredible girl and effed it up completely with novice moves. Start now is right. If you don't meet the woman of your dreams or even get a single date, that'll be the same as if you didn't try but now you'll have months or years of momentum. 👊

jean-pierreparent
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The most important skill to master in 2024: “*The Art of ignoring women.*”.

It’s a superpower and I’m not even joking.

PitbullofWallStreet
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Todd wearing an off black shirt? This can't be real.

raddadization
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I had a date from hinge planned today, watched this video and went out and bought a small pack of condoms, and I did feel different after. She flaked, no call no show, and I adjusted that message you have in that one video where you suggested the quick call. It actually felt like no big deal when I messaged her that way.

After waiting around for a little bit I walked to another museum (since the one I had invited her to has weird time slot rules) and actually cold approached two pairs of girls. The first pair was intimidating. I had to psych myself up a little, but eventually opened a door for them and asked them about their favorite exhibit and they were super receptive, introduced themselves to me, and we chatted for a few minutes. One of them started to seem like she wanted to break it off, interestingly the hotter one seemed more invested. I managed to conceal the fact that I was super nervous and even kind of cold read them and comment on how one was into more classical art and another was more into the weird stuff at the museum. Then I approached another pair who seemed a lot less talkative, I also wasn't sure if they really spoke English, so I just told them to have a good day and moved on. I didn't get any numbers, but I walked away from the whole thing feeling like such a goddamn king.

Your videos popped into my feed right at a point where I was sick and tired of getting caught up in oneitis for girls who were either unavailable or who I ended up chasing away, lol. I've been finding all your advice so simple and obvious, and I'm really excited to see where it takes me as I keep going with game.

Firecelebi
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I like to dress down but stylish on first date…so when girl shows up in heels and all that…now she’s the one who feels overdressed and the frame becomes the date is a bigger occasion for her than me

seanb
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Pro tip: Date girls that don't drink. Your dates will be half price and they friggin love coffee.

raddadization
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Do you plan to review reality shows like Single's Inferno? I'm interested in hearing your perspective, similar to your analysis of Hitch. Thanks for the great videos, as always.

free
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I can attest that having an active dating life motivates you to improve your life in other areas.
Don't wait! Just start now and improve along the way.

RafaelGringo
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Todd, so much of what you say reminds me of The Daily Stoic and 48 Laws which I love. Thanks for sharing!

JamesLanee
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Your chanel is awsome. Thanks for sharing such valuable information! I live in São Paulo, Brazil.

ayrtonlorenzety
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You are a genius Todd! Have you published books/e-books?

advsonhere
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Most dating coaches are really full of bs I didn’t even watch the whole video but at least you give men solid information and real world tips the stuff your saying I common sense for many of us

Unclecarlfather
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Haven’t even finished watching but must respond. Ignoring your own deal breakers just to have a larger pool is idiotic. You’re wasting your time and theirs if you’re going to reject them anyway. Be true to yourself.

matthewallen
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Watched every video of Todd since his RSD time but the newest idea having hundreds of white light flashes and clicks in the video is just bad.

gerylagrande