Stop Asking: 'What Do You Mean'

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When your boss says something ridiculous, mirror them and make them repeat their nonsense. Its my favorite.

karenalise

Him; Do you know the muffin man?
Me; the muffin man??
Him; the muffin man on drury lane.
(Youre welcome very much)

dr.dolphi

A good way to catch people BSing. They will likely waffle their way into a different topic when asked for clarity in this way.

Walkingthroughtreacle

So clever, so simple, so obvious. Thank you 🎉

louisaweiler

It common when you follow the advice by Chris the amount of time it saves and my learning is sometimes how partially thought out the conversation was

WethepeopleGA

hhmmss great communication skills distilling persuasion choice specificity clarity

thistest

I am thankful for your knowledge. In such a short period of time I've learned so much I'm so appreciative

JerseyRepresenting

Did you think it was coincidence? So many good things happening for you. ALL for YOU!

joel_magic

I love this! It finally makes sense to me.

JLO_GT

This is quite the case when you're learning a second or third language. It behooves one to find different ways to explain the same thing. You don't have the facility with the daily colloquial lexicon or slang...repeating a message verbatim to someone who doesn't get 'it' means you're both not getting it.

woodyboyd

Interestingly I use the method here in Germany when I’m learning new vocabulary or phrases I’ve never heard before. :)

charlesharrison

So long as the person you mirror has the emotional intelligence necessary for the switch to flip.

youtubeaccount

Please consider editing these with less flashy transitions, the content is great but super hard to watch if you have photosensitivies. Thank you!

emilysunflower

Reflective listening was the first thing I learned becoming a therapist

jordangeiser

Example: If someone says ''please put the box at the bin'', if that is not clear enough, then ask: ''put the box at the bin??''. Then they will give a clearer answer eg ''on top of the bin''.

WeAreAllOneNature

'Where is the Effeil Tower' ...très drôle. 😂

AmandaDiane-rr

People get more annoyed when you repeat their words. I prefer asking "What do you mean by that?" It's more personal.

TheAncientColossus

Basically just be like Solid Snake in Metal Gear Solid.

“MUF?”
“Rex?”
“Second floor basement?”
“Questions?”

aprev

What about when they respond by simply repeating themselves in a tone of exasperation?

jonathanp___________

if you just repeat wont they believe you heard and understood? what else do you have to tag their words with to ensure they expand
?

markemerson

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