Polygyny: Should you stay?

Salaam/Peace,

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[thepolychronicles]

Alhamdulillah. Well said as always. I definitely try my hardest to correct any mistakes I may make in leading our family. And these videos and workshops have done wonders for my family and we look forward to continuing learning as much as we can from you all. May Allah swt reward you and your family for all your help. Ameen 🤲🏽

[livefromplanetearth]

if you about building you have to stay. if you not about building you have to leave lol

[Smellzzz]

This really hit home for me. I have a sort of complex story of how I enter the Poly path. It comes from doing my research of my ancestry and finding out I'm 37% Nigerian with other percents around southeast Africa. Once I did my research on the upbringing and culture that was stripped, I applied and moved forward. I've always been a disruptor of traditions and religion. Being in pentecostal holiness majority of my life from the age 5 I set out in my 20s to figure out who God was to me and that led me to being non-denominational. I was already curious about Poly 2 years before my 3 year marriage that ended. It ended not only bc she declined when I explained and talked to her about where my discoveries we're taking me. I understand it was early for this type of decision to be made but given the situation, the best conclusion was to divorce.

[adriennematthews]

As Salaamu Alaikum, my husband is getting married Feb 1 st. I just found out, he only told me because it was getting close and he knew it was better to tell me than not. I am angry, I feel betrayed, he has been having sit downs for a while now. I lost my mind, we have been arguing it's been a mess. I asked for a Khulah, he said no. I had a dream and in that dream Allah revealed to me I couldn't leave. We have been together for 12 years. I spoke with the sister. I would rather be friends than enemies. She is homeless was in a bad marriage and needs a husband. Why mine? Dayum! I want to leave because I feel betrayed. I want to stay because I love my husband he is a good man. Years ago we would talk about the plight of the Muslim woman and the issues they were having with the men mistreating them. He said he would marry them all if he could. I said why are you doing this he said she seems like a good sister and Allah said take care of the poor. I see what he sees. But it still doesn't make me want to choke him untill he stops breathing any less lol.