The reason why women settle - Sadia Khan

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Been engaged twice.
They both began showing me parts of themselves I didn’t know before.
I refuse to settle. My peace and self love is paramount.
I rather remain single than live in an unhappy marriage.

Missybella

Allow me to expand on the concept of that biological drive:

It's essentially a fear of scarcity, a sense of being left out when compared to others. When we perceive ourselves lacking in the basic ability to communicate our desires, we feel compelled to align ourselves with the majority to maintain a sense of safety within the group.

Whenever I've encountered discussions of women attributing certain behaviors to a biological drive, it often seems more like succumbing to social pressures rather than a truly innate biological urge. This confusion arises from the constant external influences regulating a woman's behavior instead herself having her own morals, blurring the lines between what's truly biological and what's merely a product of societal conditioning. It's not inherently biological; rather, it's a matter of failing to distinguish between your feelings and your bodily impulses, mistakenly believing them to be one and the same. Even if the drive itself is real, it manifests in a distorted way until a woman knows who she is and sticks by it (in an appropriate way, stubbornness doesn't do anyone good if collaboration is possible). Without this understanding it is not possible to tell societal influences apart from personal wants and needs.

Women, The men in your life abandoned you. They never taught you how to tell the difference. Men learn this through a competitive nature. You lack boundaries. Have them take responsibility. Its not your fault you can't tell the difference. The ability to use boundaries originates from an opportunistic nature, which men have. But please have someone teach you, it'll help everyone.

msc

For survival and continue to have an easy life.👎

Freedom-dlgb

They want the Wedding not the Marriage and most Women don't marry the man they desire.

rodneyshannon

What about making it work . Decide to have the best life next to your partner. Everyone has red flags.

GerardoDelValle.

It’s actually men that settle for wrong women because of the 🐈 and naivety

Clevelandsteamer

That biological clock within is joke when that alarm goes off and it starts very early. That's why it is important to not waste your time on men who are not for you or aligned to you in principles, valued, beliefs etc .. dont do it or it would cost you in the future.

lexaneli

AVOID GETTING MARRIED IF YOU ARE A SMART MAN

RasoGOVI

That’s is the fact of settling down. You start making yourself attracted to someone you never seen as attractive and you start putting up with the red flags and as time goes on in the relationship you feel closer to the goal and end up staying. 🤦🏻‍♀️

allselflove

Because they like the idea of being married and they just want to be able to say they are married plus the big wedding and celebrations that come with it is also another reason why they want to be married so badly so they can flex on others. They need to stop worrying about societal pressure to have kids m, there are sperm banks everywhere if they are worried about not having a partner and they wanna have kids so badly. That’s what I should’ve done that’s way I don’t have to deal with a partner. If I want more kids in the future and I am not married or with anyone Id go to a sperm bank

Rasheens-Story

Men & Women both are pretty much equal into their thinking process.. c'mon I'm not going to lie to myself About this I mean (Men somewhere & at some point probably think to themselves..'did I settle?' n Women probably think the Same) .. they are equally as reflective
in how they reevaluate choices + decisions

ValentinaHaros-fdnf

Good advice for men to avoid women! Thanks 😊

rogerward

Moral of the story make sure you marry them young

Gypzy_Huztle

I Kings 11:3 (NKJV)
And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart.

ChosenOne

There are two sides to every coin men get married as well, knowing that the woman is not their first choice or preferred choice. They settle as well.

When you’re finally ready to be married, and it’s not an accident that a lot of friends get married around the same time, Mr. or Mrs. Wright is not necessarily around or available. For women, their biological clock is ticking and they’re a lot more convinced that it’s time to settle down-that’s especially true if their peers are settling down around the same time. I think some women feel that if they get married and have children, everything will work itself out and the same applies to men and sometimes it does and a lot of times it does not. We spend a huge amount of time, just taking care of ourselves, and doing only for ourselves, now when we contemplate getting into a relationship, all those years of dealing just for ourselves makes us very selfish unsuitable for marriage. I suggest premarital counseling before you decide to settle down, especially before children are involved.

there’s another phenomenon that makes a lot of people put caution to the wind in regard to marriage. There is that societal pressure to get married and if you get divorced, at least you can say you were married, and that appears to be better than never being married at all. Even with the freedom we enjoy, never being married makes people look at you differently in a negative way .
Experts can’t pinpoint where the pressure to find a partner, get married or even have children comes from, but some can be linked to culture, religion and gender roles.

ridgebhouse