8 Things That Make YOU Attractive - Hailee And Kendra

Are you kind? Talented? Do you feel confident? What are 8 things that make YOU attractive? 👀
And... what do you find attractive?
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[sunnyostrom]

One of my favorite quotes is by Oscar Wilde; "Be yourself. Everyone else is taken."

[jasonlouis]

I was playing a MMO. Someone was putting together a server-wide event and I was participating. In talking with her, I realized how much she was juggling and offered to help. Seven months later, she had moved to freaking Kansas and we were married. Kindness really is king.

[lizasky]

1. Confidence, yes, do I have it? No. Fake it, always. I have confidence in social interactions more than my looks.
2. Availability, yes, I have had to learn (the hard way) that being too available is unhealthy.
3. Uniqueness, yes, its the small quirky things that I love. Coming out really helped with that.
4. Kindness, TOP TRAIT, my entire life is was hammered into me to be kind. If you can't be kind don't leave your house. Louder for the people in the back.. IF YOU CAN NOT BE KIND, DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE!
5. Intelligence, yes, its more like can you have a conversation you know nothing about but be intelligent enough to be engaged and ask questions to clarify your understanding.
--- Higher IQ question: I think if you have a balance and understanding, you can connect with anyone.
6. Passion, yes, my wife worked in an assistant living and nursing home for 6 years. The passion behind being kind, caring and helpful to elders was one of the reason I fell in love with her.
7. Sense of Humor, yes, I am a goof and I found a goof.
8. Demeanor, yes, understanding everyone has bad days but if bad days or a rotten attitude is all you are bringing, please don't invite me.

You guys are GREAT! Agreed on pretty much everything you said. Keep being attractive and happy 😊❤

[Robert-eldj]

Loved the "" I don`t wrestle any more. You do when You're drinking. lol

[xdhrooe]

Over 12 years with no one saying they liked me. You never know who or why you are attracted to someone. I learned when i was nearly 48 i have Asperger's, which explains a lot. The only relationship I've had lasted less than 7years. Do people think I'm to smart or to stupid, do they think I've a wierd sense of humour. I just keep myself alone, solitude is my protection and my torture. I live in fear, trying to cope with rejection and the terror of possibly being liked, because i can't stand who i am because i hate myself. You two are amazing and perfect together, i wish i had a fraction of your self confidence ❤ keep giving hope and the dream of love to the rest of us💖

[SpicyPisces]

Kendra I had the same thing happen to me with adhd. I always get told I'm not smart enough to understand.

[sandyhemenway]

On being yourself (Uniqueness) - Brene Brown says the opposite of BELONGING is "Fitting In". Pretending to be someone we are not is MORE damaging to US than being excluded from a group that cannot accept us for who we are. If there is a major lack in most of the spiritual / religious texts of the world is a failure to emphasize how wonderful and critical diversity is in all things. It is clear that whatever force created the Universe LOVES diversity -- not only by creating between 2-8 MILLION different species of animals, but also in environment, planets, galaxies - and variations in behaviors of matter - to the myriad number of different energy types (solar, gravity, magnetic, etc.). We are social creatures - we NEED that feeling of belonging, but not at the expense of pretending to be something we are not.

[HollDoll]

My top 3 are kindness, demeanor, and availability. Vulnerability is everything to me. Sharing your true self with those you love is the best (and perhaps the scariest) part of being human. Without sharing vulnerability, relationships feel surface-level.

I love when my favorite channels come together❤

[dwerenat]

There is a huge difference between being intelligent and being a "know it all". I think there's a separation of sorts being a know it all that comes, probably, from a sense of superiority that people feel from knowing or thinking, an important distinction, that they're smarter than others.
Maybe think of it this way: An intelligent person speaks with you, a VERY intelligent person might speak with you or to you depending on circumstance, and a know-it-all will speak AT you, often unasked.

[Vomahanew]

Kendra nailed the reason why intelligence has to have a sort of "sweet spot" for both partners. It's central to communicating. Similar levels of emotional, scholarly, and worldly intelligence, even if they aren't exactly alike, are necessary for good communication. It makes it easier to understand the other person and feel valued by them and it's more likely each partner will notice and reciprocate the other's effort because you're communicating on the same level. Have you ever heard people discussing something you know about, but you realize the level at which they're discussing it is way out of your depth so you kind of feel out of place there? Imagine that but a relationship. You can't feel out of place like that in a relationship.

[custaburner]

Very highly intelligent people have their own problems that are outside of most people's experience, making them difficult to support with empathy and understanding. My top 3 are, confidence, humour, and demeanour.

[RoarSelbo]

You're videos are always funny. The two of you are attractive because you are funny, talented, creative and beautiful.

[weisstdujanicht]

Ihr seid einfach beide ultra cute. Und ihr passt auch einfach toll zusammen ❤

[SpiritWalker]

For me attractive is compassion, confidence and passion. I have always said since 18 unless the inner beauty shines through to compliment the outer appearance the true beauty of a person cannot be seen, loved nor admired. Love you two, every day you give me hope and faith for love and humanity.

[kiroesalt]

My top 3 are empathy, humour, and either being a good listener or punctuality. I can't pick which one. The being a good listener one comes from my childhood where I was the listener most of the time, and even when I spoke up I got cut off, and the punctuality one is just a strong value of mine

[samanthaleblanc]

I found your channel not too long ago and absolutely love you two beautiful ladies! I love your energy and the love you two have for each other is one of the purest I’ve ever seen. Thank you for being a light in this world!

[NixyRose]

I HATE head games!! I'm not smart enough to get that someone is playing. Plus, I'm socially awkward so I don't know the rules and if i ever start to think I might be getting an inkling.... they change the freaking rules!!!!

Just be straight with me. And it costs exactly nothing to be kind. So up front and kind. Honesty and loyalty as well. I like confidence as long as it doesn't cross the line into arrogance and/or narcissism. Had more than enough of that in my past abusive relationship and I'm all full up on that experience.

Funny is also one of the most important traits as well. Ex didn't have a sense of humor and got so mad at me all the time because i use humor to cope. So the more verbally and emotionally abusive he got, the more i "coped" lol. So vicious cycle.

My bf now is amazing and the most attractive person I've exer met.
He's so smart and funny and understanding and caring and tough enough to kick my butt out of a spiral then hug me and tell me I'm beautiful (I'm not lol).

I became disabled with a severe chronic pain disorder within 6 months of us beginning to date. (the disorder makes the pain center of my brain overly sensitive. Basically all my nerves are turned up to to 11+ and old injuries come back to haunt with a vengeance) and he stayed. I was the one making the money and he'd just gotten a minimum wage job. He'd had it really hard. I made amazing money and benefits and suddenly I'm left adrift, in severe ongoing pain, a resurgence and worsening of my mental and emotional health issues that I'd finally gotten under control. Worked for decades to get my shite together and BOOM! Suddenly it all came crashing down. And still he stayed. Through my hard fought battle with disability companies from my job, and the years long battle to get approved for SSDI. We tightened our belts and he worked his butt off, sometimes at 2 different jobs, just to keep us afloat.

Sorry for the novella, i just wanted to paint the background for you to see him in the light that i do.
We celebrated 10 years last month. I have no idea what he sees in my broken, medicated self, but whatever it is... I'm sure thankful that he loves me. ❤😊

[Hollytargaryen]

Confidence, kindness and availability ..and ❤ you guys

[skellysuburban]

What attracted you to each other, butterflies in the stomach and feeling flustered and if you see someone you like and the feeling is mutual, there's no stopping you. There's no science to it and best not to break it down just go with the flow and it will either work or not.

[brentcowell]

as a guy i think ur both really attractive on the outside as i dont know ur inside/personality but if i go by ur videos then ur both extremely attractive were it counts n i am happy u found each other n wish you both all the best life n love has to offer!!!!