14 Signs He Doesn’t Care Enough (And It’s Time To Let Go)

All of us deserve to be in a healthy relationship but when he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, he will show signs he doesn’t care about you or your relationship.

14 signs he doesn’t care (and it’s time to let go)
He might say, “I love you,” but love is the last thing on his mind when he is texting you those hurtful things.

My ex was a narcissist, and I could tell he didn’t care about me because of all the red flags.

He would hurt my self-esteem from the beginning of the relationship.

I knew that he didn’t love me because he would never put effort into making things work.

1. He doesn’t spend time with you
So if things are starting to be different than they were at the beginning of the relationship, it’s a bad sign.

2. You are the one chasing him
The thing is, the more you chase them, the more they will run. This guy doesn’t want to be with you anymore, so what’s the point of chasing him?

3. He blames you for everything
He probably also never apologizes when it’s clearly his fault. You can see if he really does care by his ability to take responsibility.

4. He is the one who makes all the decisions
Perhaps he thinks that you are not smart enough to make decisions or he considers himself to be more capable.

5. He doesn’t put effort into making things work
If he doesn’t care about your relationship, why would he try to fix it? It’s simple as that. You are the one doing all the work in the relationship.

6. He doesn’t listen
Everyone knows that communication is the key to a successful relationship and that naturally implies that partners should listen to each other.

7. He shows no interest in your life
If your boyfriend has no idea about your job or hobbies, why are you with him? He doesn’t care about finding out more about your hopes, fears, or dreams so stop justifying him. You deserve to be treated so much better.

8. He shamelessly flirts with other girls
Trust me, girl, when a man loves you, you will be the only woman in his life because he sees you as the most beautiful and amazing woman in the world.

9. He is never jealous
Anyone who is afraid of losing you will get jealous from time to time but if your boyfriend isn’t bothered by other guys coming on to you, it’s because he doesn’t care if you leave.

10. You are never a priority to him
Trust me, a guy in love always makes you a priority so, don’t settle for anything other than being his first choice.

11. He doesn’t treat you special
But most importantly, you won’t be happy because you won’t be loved. So, don’t stay with him just so you could see it become your future.

12. He doesn’t talk about your future together
You two would stay up all night talking about a white picket fence and the Golden Retriever you will have and it would be a fun activity for you two to think of your children’s names.

13. He doesn’t spend money on you
He considered his job as a way to provide for me. Later on, when we started living together, he would just give me his whole paycheck; he wouldn’t even flinch.

14. He doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends
I am sorry to tell you, but the answer to why he hasn’t introduced you to his friends could be that he plans on using and dumping you.

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Timestamps ⏰

0:00 Intro
1:28 He doesn’t spend time with you
2:22 You’re the one chasing him
3:04 He blames you for everything
3:48 He’s the one who makes all the decisions
4:33 He doesn’t put effort into making things work
5:29 He doesn’t listen
6:19 He shows no interest in your life
7:12 He shamelessly flirts with other girls
8:12 He’s never jealous
8:46 You’re never a priority to him
9:28 He doesn’t treat you special
10:02 He doesn’t talk about your future together
10:46 He doesn’t spend money on you
11:20 He doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends

[aquiliaringwood]

@glamOrOus
I'm glad that you mentioned Our Heavenly Father. All is according to HIS WILL!!! Even our chat. You are Not alone; Trust Me! Whew, if only you knew. I wish I had someone to talk to. I didn't see my Life becoming It, well, I pray it gets better. Tired of crying. Tired of sleepless nights. Tired of the heart pain. Just tired

[glamrus]

Sux feeling like the loneliest woman in the world. He would laugh at my insecurities and poke fun at me with his family and friends. My oldes fam specifically the grandma laughed me away from one of the few people i knew in this world. I hope my absence is felt, most certainly i felt their presence. I pray they will never feel the amt of hurt i did as i considered them all my family.