If it hurts, it meant something #breakup #mindset #partner #love #relationships

If it hurts, it meant something.

[francescahamilton]

Some key factors: speak little, create silence, allow space, show warmth. Be a good listener & stop interrupting. Stop trying to prove everything. It's a killer.

[dysplasiaanaplasia]

Problem arises when one doesn’t wanna acknowledge this simple truth

[Ms]

So true. I'm now in the healing phase. Still in shock that it is done. But it's best

[abdotube]

That happened to me. I loved her. She wasn’t ready, even after 6 months, she wasn’t ready. I respected her feelings and respected myself and had to let her go. Because i loved her. I gave her space and left. Got blocked. Felt the pain. I was sad. Still sad. But I’m moving on. Maybe God will bring her back. But now, No turning back. I just can’t. Leaving is the only way. Maybe she will understand one day.

[TechWiz]

The fact is people are too stupid & waste far more time than is truly needed. Communication resolves far more than silence ever will.

[Kangel]

I never stay friends with any of my former lovers.

[Madstahoe]

Because I loved him so much. I had to let him go. I wish for him to be fulfilled in all that he does. If he’s meant to be with me, then God will bring him back to me.

[rachcopenfreeminds]

Yes clear communication. Beautiful concept.
Thank you
Let go find what really fits.
Thank you

[TheBeatGoesOn]

❤ I love when I come across rare finds where people actually speak from their own thoughts and emotions and feelings and not following a narrative and scripts. So much fakeness and time wasting on social media.... YT is the best for sure though.... Except for the people that are using it just to rake in cash and exploit people instead of making their lives better like this kind of content. Thank you I appreciate you ❤🎉😊

[Iron_Hawk_]

Literally going through this rn. I know I shouldn't be all personal but I just had to share how accurate this is. Definitely relatable.

[menchiesia]

Omy, I love your vibration and your messages. ❤❤❤

[LolaizaJazzmine]

I totally agree. End it completely allow each other peace

[PREGOMILLIE]

I lost him and he lost me but I believe that it's for the betterment of both of us. Yes. There is love in that pain and that grief has changed me. So iit was for my best.

[MBm-duyv]

I love you so much man you make sense Everytime

[RoVicD]

I feel this to my core. I didn't break up with him yet. I'm trying to see if there is some way that we can stay together, but I'm not really optimistic. It hasn't happened yet and it still hurts even thinking about it. The pain is unbearable.

[flowerpower]

As long as you have not processed a trauma, you subconsciously develop such patterns.

[myhounddog]

I never trust people who keep their Ex's as friends.. it always felt like a weird way to still have control over that person.

[Raymal]

Too many people lack the resolve to hold boundaries. Those boundaries are how you respect yourself and respect others. If I genuinely have a female friend, I'm never going to do more than or the same as what her boyfriend would. If I ever spent any time alone with her (I would actively try not to), I'd make sure the boyfriend knew. If I pursue someone and they reject me, I'm going to take that rejection with grace and humility, then stop interacting with her. I don't want to disrespect myself by holding on to someone who doesn't want me or disrespect another man by continuing to spend time with her. If I break up with someone, that's it. The decision is that the relationship isn't enough to continue. There shouldn't be anything left. You keep the space clear for the right person.

[liverfarfan]

💯 I did that. And it was for the best!

[livb]

It does matter whether or not you were friends before you were lovers