The Real Reasons Women Divorce and Men Resist

In this eye-opening video, we delve into the real reasons why women choose to divorce and the psychological barriers that lead men to resist this significant change in their lives. Understanding divorce is crucial for both parties, and we provide insights into the emotional turmoil and coping mechanisms involved in divorce recovery. Discover effective strategies for men on their journey to divorce healing, including rebuilding after divorce and creating a strong support network. Whether you're navigating the complexities of divorce survival or seeking divorce solutions, our discussion offers valuable perspectives on the divorce mindset and how to move forward after loss. Join us as we explore these critical topics and empower men to embrace recovery and growth during challenging times. Tune in for expert advice and practical tips that can help you thrive beyond divorce.

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00:00 People Want Happiness
00:59 Where to Find Happiness
02:18 How Marriage Creates Problems
04:32 My Resistance to Divorce
08:16 Men Stay In Marriages
11:28 Women Leave Marriages
17:52 The Allure of Fictional Idealism
19:17 The Power of Realism to Achieve Peace
23:18 Living Well Is The Best Response To Divorce

[ryandgarland]

As all men told me and I will repeat, "never get married".

[lemontea]

Because women get rewarded in family court for ruining their families.

[AQUARIUMFREAK]

i am proud of you JOHN for holding your ground and not taking your ex wife back... many men would have caved.

[jonmueller]

You just described my ex-wife. She wasn't happy after 35 years. I will admit I wasn't perfect but i was never abusive and never cheated. Our daughters and I were crushed. She wanted me to take her back after 2 years. Nope. I'm very happy now.

[dark]

I cracked an egg open during breakfast and nearly cried on the bliss on being single and in full control of my peace and my life. Thanks, Sir!

[basti]

Getting married as a man nowadays is one of the worst things you can do. Stay strong kings! 💪 Love doesn't exist.

[Hisway]

Being happy to me is finally being free, riding my dirt bike, mountain biking, skiing, travel and enough money to do whatever I want whenever I want. Never again will I haul around a boat anchor.

[etebol]

Comfort makes cowards of us all. Don’t get comfortable. Be ready to give up everything but your freedom and dignity at the drop of a hat. You can always get a roof over your head or another car and job. But if you betray yourself, you will never forgive yourself.

[TheHomeExpert]

Women's friends in whom they confide in are most often jealous that they have a good husband and will do anything they can to undermine their relationship.

[piobmhor]

I think back to a buddy of mine, divorced back in 2006. His ex was given a very generous spousal support as well as child support payments. It far exceeded 50% of my buddy’s net income. She probably thought this would give her the same lifestyle while married as it was greater than half of what was going into the bank every month. Wrong. She (like most women) was the spender, and he was the saver. Long story short, she’s in subsidized housing surrounded by boxed wine and cats, whereas my buddy is renovating his own home. Seems that once she was responsible for her own financial decisions, she was constantly broke. Fiscal responsibility was her kriptonite. My buddy’s neighbours have told him that she has been around his place when he’s not there, snooping around. She’s probably thinking of what she screwed up. I asked him if she ever came back asking for a “Mulligan” what he would do. He thought about it for about a nanosecond and replied with a resounding NO. Can’t say as I blame him.

[ShAlove]

That's f**king true; you're not gonna find happiness in rage, the best revenge is living a good life. Thank you John for these wise words 👏🏻

[gregorylatta]

Men are more about doing the right thing. Women are more about doing what they think is right for themselves.

[brandonroach]

You are performing a great service to the community. Thank you for you well thought out messages, and reminder to get out in nature.

[TheLegend-uqgz]

The reason: women have a very long list of qualities they want in a husband and sadly no single man has all those qualities. So, women settle for the one that mostly can provide, once they have kids + their own money or alimony; they are bored and begin their “escape plan”. Guys, don’t stress yourself about this.

[stevenwistort]

Man!! You guys that got married, I never knew the despair you would go through. I just never had the desire to get married and have kids. But most guys that are married come up to me and say they wish they were single again. How sad.

[scur]

Don’t get married and the problem is solved.

[Cjwilkins]

My grandfather passed away earlier this year at the age of 95. He was married to my grandmother for 65 years and she passed away a decade back. One of our last conversations he asked me why was I single. I simply replied that the juice simply isn't worth the squeeze for men in the west anymore. My peace is Paramount. He jokingly said I agree with you and I can tell you during my 65 years with her I felt alive five of them. "Your woman will give you the best she ever has to offer til the honeymoon ends which is roughly 2 years in. After that, she's moved on spiritually, even if her flesh is besides you." That HAUNTED me.

[Bobafea]

John, I have to say that the dogs are great interviewers. They don't interrupt, they just give you just the right amount of space to get your message out there. And your message is, as always, to the point!

[DanHottenroth]

I had a similar experience with my first wife when we divorced. After 6 months she contacted me and said that dating after the divorce was awful and she wanted to get back together. I told her there was no way I could trust her again, but it wasn't easy as we had a good couple years together. I agree that you get one chance. My last divorce, 8 years ago, has similar thing going on. When we talk she keeps mentioning that all her friends ask her why she divorced a great guy like me. Knowing her it's her indirect way of asking me about getting back together. I was ignoring it, but the last time I told her there was no way were getting back together, it's a one shot type of thing for me.

[lukehunnable]

This concept is great. Walking in the woods, like some kind of Emerson, and just talking about life as an older man. Congratulations!