Why Are Women More Likely to Initiate Divorce?

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Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like a job interview.

Gioachino_Orsini
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This is exactly how I feel and react. As soon as I had my first baby something immediately activated and I became very aware of every possible danger there was around us.
To some degree that made me be a less fun person

mistlazum
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Because women have every incentive to do so. If they were staring down the barrel of getting kicked out of their home, taken away from their kids, and forced to pay the person responsible...that number would be MUCH lower.

UglyAmerican
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They also got a major advantage in the divorce courts

hplaserjet
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Women have less direct relationship to anger...When a woman "bites" her tongue to avoid expressing anger, its not at all socialization. A lot of it is brain circuitry. Even if a woman wanted to express her anger right away, often her brain circuits would attempt to hijack this response, to reflect on it first out of fear and anticipation of retaliation. Also, the female brain has a tremendous aversion to conflict, which is set up by fear of angering the other person and losing the relationship. Instead of triggering a quick action response in the brain, as it does in males, anger in girls and women moves through the brain's gut feeling, conflict-pain anticipation, and verbal circuits.
Scientists speculate that though awoman is slower to act out of anger, once her faster verbal circuits get going, they can cause her to unleash a barrage of angry words that a man cant match.
Typical men speak fewer words and have less verbal fluency than women, so they may be handicapped in angry exchanges with women.
Often when I see a couple who are not communicating well, the problem I see is that the man's brain's circuits push him frequently and quickly to an angry, aggressive reaction, and the woman feels frightened and shuts down.
Louann Brizendine,  The Female Brain

selfhelpchampion
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Nothing but common sense from this guy

maximofl
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It is really simple - the moment a woman does not feel she and her children are safe; be that physically, emotionally and financially, she will take steps to protect her children and herself and she will do it quietly: the shock a lot of men experience - they are so unaware!

Areflection
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True. You also need to be sensitive for your children in order to understand them and their needs.

ketherwhale
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FTR - lawyers sometimes get a separation caused by abandonment turned into a claim BY the abandoned parent. In other words, who files on the record doesn’t always reflect who initiated the divorce, at least in America.

Bible.Thumper
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My clients are more likely to divorce because their husbands are either sleeping around or just drinking with their friends or both. I don't think they are being sensitive.

DanielWSonntag
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I would imagine child support payments and alimony heavily factoring into this. This is why it's so important for couples to establish a pre-nup before they get married.

Razear
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And women ALMOST NEVER LOSE financially in a divorce when compared to their former husband

OffGridInvestor
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Why would you enter a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it ?

redreuben
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main reason is that they know that they will win money from their husbands. Dont get married if youre a man theres no point

dudevinci
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Ecclesiasticus 25:16


“I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.”

King James Version (KJV)

Pathtozionk
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"More units of negative emotion, subjectively, per unit of stress" What does this even mean? If women are more sensitive to negative emotion, then why weren't they initiating divorces as much in the 60s?

dotenks
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A formula for coexistence.
There ya go.

oclockshadowbanned
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Its mainly because its financially rewarding to divorce for women, and financially catastrophic for men. So obviously men are going to be more reluctant to first suggest it.

TheBulldogsk
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Women initiate divorce because they will not tolerate being cheated on.

christinepettei
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Why would any guy get married today when the odds are stacked against him.?

mikedoyle