INTJ Death Stare: An Example

Michael talks about how his INTJ Death Stare is taken by others.

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[logic]

I had a coworker once ask me why I hated her.
I was thinking about eggs.

[abstract-thoughts]

I get "are you ok?" all the time haha. And coworkers say I always look serious.

[SystemGlitch]

Them: "Why do you look so serious?"
Me: "I was born like this."

[nolanwilliams]

Its a common stereotype that us INTJs are cold and always calculating our next move blah blah blah but the reality is, at least for me, I am a LOT more goofy and laid back inside than what I give off expressionally

[roye]

The infamous INTJ stare is distinctive specifically when they hear a dumb comment or asked a dumb question with an obvious answer

[BashaerB-hc]

I never realized how bad the INTJ stare face is until I met another INTJ. Observing someone else who is so much like me was such an eye opener. I understood why Intjs are so misunderstood.

[Hypatia]

People think I'm bored when I'm listening intently.

[ellenh]

Enfp watching this feeling "This is exactly the kind of person I like hanging out with."

[missinterpretation]

My boss: we need to talk
Me: what?
My boss: your face in meetings
😂

[jnprather]

"You look like you hate your life".

To INTJ's out there, bartending was one of the best things I ever did, in that it trained me to get very good at auto-smiling at people when I make eye contact.

[AstroBaby]

People always think I'm mad. I'm just focused on whatever I am doing.

[vjforsythe]

Got made fun of a lot for my tone/neutral face in HS. In college found out I was INTJ. I've learned feelers interpret neutral as actively negative as well.

[Ten_]

Oh god I got a similar reaction from a new trainee in my office. She went “He looks like he’s so sick of me talking and asking questions all the time” when in reality I’ve been enjoying having a new team member and someone to split up the workload with. I also liked that she asked questions rather than made me spoonfeed her the work.

[carolinaayala]

I’m INFP married with an INTJ guy, he’s exactly like it’s described. I’m surprised about the sincerity and politeness how it is described in this video

[Ellie-xrz]

I totally get this. Multiple people a day walk up to me, sometimes people I don't even know, and ask me if I'm okay. And I'll be like "Yeah. Why?" and they'll respond "You look like your dog just died" or "You look like you could kill everyone in this room at any second now" or something along the lines of that.

[lazyscholar]

This is why asking XNTJ's what we are thinking about is the best and most reliable way to avoid misunderstanding us.

[mirinae_]

”You look so angry all the time!”. Well, it’s really rare that I actually am. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I even have to tell new employees that I have a serious case of RBF especially if I’m thinking about something so that they don’t think I’m angry at them.

[VRIceblast]

When I'm really focused on what's going on around me, my eyes are very open, I don't blink as much, and I'm just sucking in everything I see with my eyes.

I see everything, all at once.

[theoutlander]

Yes, the death stare has killed many relationships.

[ayaansharif]

Idk why everyone thinks im angry at them when i actually want to help them, i get "bro please calm down" a lot- ENTJ