Top 5 Dating Mistakes Women Make (You can STOP now!)

[airam]

5 mistakes :
1) being a validation vulture : needinees to be liked
2)falling into the change trap: thinking I can do smth to change a man, critisize him. But I don't have this power, so the best way to do is holding my boundaries, don't accept bad behaviour. Being ready to walk away, if smb treats you badly.
3) laying down the commitment card too soon: showing a man my commitment too soon, before he actually has prooven himself to me be caring, being committed, fully interested.
4) being a sponge supporter: when a man takes, and never give back, adapting to his schedule, go to his place, being "used", too kind
5)listening to your emotionnal lies: under strong emotions, attaching a meaning to certains things, so return to reality by " What if he treated this way a woman I value the most in this, world? " Would that be Ok? What she would do?

[mimenchaca]

Jason,
I like how you reviewed your points by listing all 5 at the end. It is very helpful to reinforce the points and to remember them. Thank you.

[DeliciaTrini]

That's such a great point "What if he treated the woman we valued most like this?" Very important point! Thank you!

[corgisrule]

I LOVE caring for my man, but I’ve wasted so much time on undeserving dudes (getting up early to make them breakfast, even though my schedule was opposite), he always stayed at mine, I was planning everything, etc. Just rotten. Don’t do that, girls!

[neverdidIeverchangethis]

I like the woman I value most in the world. Ultimate goal here would be to become the woman we each value the most in the world. Of course our mothers, sisters, and daughters too!

[evnomiaiw]

a high value and high quality video on this topic.. thank you so much for creating this video and educating the world in healthy relationships!

[sarakelly]

I am loving your videos. I have been divorced for just over 2 years after being married for 25. I am not in a rush to marry, I appreciate your views of the red velvet rope. I am now open to dating, and more encouraged to be my true authentic self. They are changing my perspective of what to expect in myself and in future him.

[gratitude]

Excellent video!
I’m guilty of 2/5 . I’m talking about commitment and sending gifts 🎁. Being available when he calls almost always.

[colleenhahn]

I'm only at 1:08 into the video. I'm totally heterosexual, but I can honestly say I don't want a friend who is so needy she needs much in the way of validation from me. If someone (female or male) needs me to confirm her or his worth to them on a constant basis, I will walk away from the relationship.

[tammypham]

You’re such a good person. Your mother did a great job ❤️

[elizasmith]

Your wife and kids are very lucky. Your videos are great for anyone who is interested in dating. I want to say this. For every high quality man there are more that are not. If there were a lot of high quality men women would not have to deal with ones that are not. Every woman deserves one. Again your videos are great.

[elizabethmathis]

Thank you Jason, I need to work on #5. Thank you for all the other refresher reminders keeps me in check to be a better Individual

[newbeginningswitheve]

Thank you for telling it like it is without sugarcoating what we need to hear.

[lilanushwat]

Mistakes 3 and 4 were right on point for me . The information was very useful.

[Cindyscrossstitch]

When I first watched you, you reminded me of Tony Robbins, watching your videos i learned you attended his seminars and worked with him. Great videos. Yes mirroring works, learned it from Tony but love hearing your prospective. You have great videos.🌻🌻🌻

[dmw]

What if I don’t like his beard? I don’t want him to change for me but the beard is a turn off and I’m not sure if I hold mention it

[alimabaca]

Thanks very much AGAIN, Doc.! Remember everyone:. Cherish the ones you love, AND be cherished!🤣

[gratitude]

Off topic but important and urgent :
Who should visit whom for the first time in a long distance relationship? We are 13000 kms apart dating for 10 months. I’m in school no breaks no holiday time for another 18 months. I’m also working/ running my business. He needs a visitor’s visa and he has a full time job . Jason, I feel he should visit me at least for the first time . Our plan is that we would live in my city. It makes senses that he need to get a good report with the emigration in order to later stay in this country.
What is your thoughts?

[ClaudiaSanchezQuintero]

I love all your videos but this one is my favourite so far! Thank you!

[tamalikadas]

I did the mistake no 3....now he cuts down all communication and deleted my no... But still I want to be with him.... I am pathetic