The Danger🚫of Ignoring Red Flags🚩in Relationships #redflags #relationshipadvice #datingadvice

📍 Are you tired of feeling undervalued in your relationship? In this video, relationship expert @thematthewhussey shares practical tips on how to get your partner to change their behavior and start valuing you.

From setting clear boundaries to learning to say no, Matthew's advice will help you take back control and build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.

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[camuyana]

It took me years to realize that accepting his bad behavior would get worse and worse so I decided to put an end to it with a divorce. Living a much happier life now.

[Newcardsu]

The thought of: maybe I can't do better = I'm not good/pretty/worthy of something better..

I will be 40 next year, I was bullied from 4th grade until I started college and got away from those bullies.

The amount of rejections from people who doesn't actually deserve my attention, but I'm willing to give it to them out of "desperation" or because I'm willing to give them a chance.

Just enforce this feeling of not being worth anything.

So I pull away, because I don't feel down/bad/ugly when I am alone.
I sometimes feel lonely, but most of the time, being around others, are when I feel empty and lonely.

Where have all the good guys gone? 😅

I am giving way more than I receive, I deserve better, and I rather be single and happy, than being with someone who doesn't value me or what I sacrifice for them.

[emilytreu]

Haha even if I put up boundaries, it usually gets worse. Next time, first sign of disrespect and I’m out

[jibarabicha]

As a single mom who is automatically devalued in the dating market, found myself in this predicament, as I felt I couldn’t do better and was undesirable. The ex had reinforced this throughout the devaluation phase and it was hard to get out in the end. This taught me that I needed to work on myself more and that I am allowed to have high standards in relationships. Not looking to be in a relationship until I am empty nesting now, but these videos help to educate me for my ideal future partner.

[sheiladay-odme]

Actually, your common sense will not allow it anymore. This person contacted me and talked about my remarks on you/tube, was very complimentary and it just started from there. He obviously knew I was an empath and decided to play some kind of game. Game over.

[annabanzon]

Usually people feel free after a break up. I know I did!

[michellemcmillinsantinni]

No you can do better but you do need to get away so that you can cut those strings and heal and then you might be able to come back and be able to sit down with them without being all emotional and talk about it and you'll know if they're sincerely sorry are not that that does not mean you allow them to do it again LOL😅

[lifeseries]

But what if there are children involved? My cognitive dissonance has reached to outrage point since he hides all the finance and his plan for the future (my oldest teen son tipped me that he will kick me to the curb once our youngest sons will graduate from high school). Having been a SAHM for almost 20 years (we started having problems 5 years ago), I am still spending all my time taking the kids to school & back, cooking, cleaning, driving them around between activities...it's still a full time job!

[ncfkjyl]

I told my husband that I wanted to end it two weeks ago. He is coming to collect his stuff today. I know all of this but it’s still so hard. Part of me just wants to say ‘actually please don’t’ but I know things won’t ever change. My husband was never physically abusive and I don’t think he went out of his way to be emotionally abusive. He just didn’t make much effort to show me love. And he hardly ever took accountability. But instead if I brought anything up, he would attack me with his words. So when I see all this narcissistic stuff, I think he wasn’t that bad, maybe I made a mistake. But then every conversation I have with him is soooo hard even now and I remember how hard it is to converse with him about things we disagree on. We have tried counselling. I’ve read two books on how to be a better wife and watched a 12 episode YouTube series on marriage. I’ve tried explaining how I feel. But I think he thinks I’m self obsessed and that I share too much. When I bring something up he says ‘there’s things that you’ve done I didn’t like, but I don’t bring them up!’ I just don’t know how to improve it anymore. I can’t seem to get anywhere. And I feel he doesn’t make much effort to improve it. I feel unloved and unvalued and just really sad.

[faridaaktar]

Matthew
I don’t want to see you anymore. Not even as a friend or family.