Stop Being a Nice Guy

In this video, we follow the story of Wojak, Wojak has always been a nice guy, someone who tries to please others and avoid conflict at all costs. However, Wojak has realized that his nice guy behavior is not getting him what he wants in life, and he feels frustrated and unfulfilled. Therefore, Wojak has decided to learn how to stop being a nice guy and assert himself more.

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[harmhoeks]

2:35 "avoiding conflicts will result in lack of boundaries" 😮valuable

[Pieruh]

Me being a people pleaser stems from being lonely since I was bullied in my school days. Now at 23 I find myself constantly getting into friendships where the other person is manipulative, emotionally abusive, and don’t respect my boundaries. I asked myself “why do I keep attracting these people and getting hurt?” And now I see it’s because I’m too nice and seen as weak. So recently I cut off a few friendships and relationships that was draining to me and wasn’t valuable to me. It’s time for a change and to grow a backbone, otherwise I’ll just keep being used by people taking advantage of me. These people claim I hurt them when I leave, but they constantly hurt me while talking. I should value myself more and be around people that are genuine

[BabySeahorse]

I think there’s a difference between being nice and allowing everyone to basically step on you. I basically try to be friendly with everyone around me, but I obviously still have a backbone. That’s my take on it.

[gatergates]

Its been about 2 or 3 years since I stopped being like nice-guy Wojak, life just keeps getting better

[masterexploder]

Don't look for trouble and conflict on purpose, but don't avoid them when they arrive at your doorstep. Keep the frame.

[thevillagerguy]

I’m nice, but I usually get treated like shit by other people 😔

[youtubehodol]

we all need someone like chad in our life. I know a lot of people got a chad figure in their life, but are just not paying heed to him. And there's people who just wanna improve, and constantly trying, but maybe they are just missing a figure like chad in their life.

[Holtwizer]

Chad's really coming in to increase this guy's value in a brutally honest way. It's about time someone took a look at what their doing and realizing being nice isn't how you succeed in this day and age. Even back then, being nice wasn't really how people progressed. Stand your grounds folks, it's all you gotta do.

[mr.nobody]

Chad is the one who is being nice or otherwise no one helps a man in distress nowadays

[fazebugatti]

Im literally wojak rn. My brain has always been the Chad talking to me, but never have i listened. I have become more disagreeable and decided to just stop helping others as much. I still fall into the trap of trying to please people and get closer to people. I now have this pet peev of people with a lack of awareness. I'm slowly becoming one of them

[shiro]

This channel is a gem for us men short & simple educative and informative videos to achieve self improvement. Thanks Chad.

[AlexPrila]

This is funny and educating at the same time

[saltyskateboarder]

fawning or people pleasing could be a result of traumatic experience, good luck out there

[AestheticShrine]

Lord I know this is just a Wojak vid, but this hits me hard. I was the nice guy my entire childhood, which ended up me being bullied all the time. My friends would use me as the scapegoat when they got caught doing things they weren't supposed to do, even if I didn't participate and just witnessed them. My dad never taught me to stand up for myself either, so I stayed like this up until now when I'm 22, bitter and lonely. I try to tell myself it's not too late to change, but it's harder following through with it.

Anyways, good video.

[allseeingotto]

Great advice from Chad that I would do well to learn

[Nieznany]

Guys, it's okay to help others than rely on you. Just not at the cost of yourself.
Don't change from one extreme to other. Just pay attention and help the people that value you and would help you in such circumstances. Don't help people who are only trying to take advantage of you.

[SinsiMonkey]

Never be too nice they will take advantage of you.

[qrelease]

Thank you very much, from now on I will improve myself.

[Orm-znfl]

Be a nice guy, there's no problem, but don't ever expect anything in return.

[christiansantana]

Remember it’s not selfish to put yourself first. People only miss the old you because you made life easier. Do better, and always strive for the greater goal