How to tell if a man is DL! #dlmen #pridemonth #gaytopics

[Imperfecthands-qmdy]

Guys who sleep around with multiple women constantly

[reneegardner]

I KNEW IT! He's constantly bringing up this guy is gay or transgender and complaining about it randomly!!

[rickybrown]

Ladies if you want to know if your man is gay all you have to do is listen to him. That’s it!!! He will let you know.

[alicegandy]

If a man always putting a woman down all the time is he on the dL

[daviddepriest]

Facts... as a barber, some of my best clients were gay and they were cool as hell. Straight men just don't like to be hit on by gay men.

[thelotusexperience]

Also men who are extreme players, no woman is ever good enough, theyve been married multiple times, they never had a healthy relationship it can be a sign as wrll

[celesteredding]

I know some homophobic, straight guys and they're not gay. It's not just a straight man, it takes a mature minded confident man to not be bothered or intimidated. My opinion & view

[PettyIsMyMiddleName]

True !

What I also know is simply pay attention to your instincts ladies. I truly believe it’s a reason for “mother’s initiation “ not saying every woman wants or has children, but it’s a biological wiring within us.

Our instincts will let us know something isn’t right, but often we convince ourselves that we are overthinking things etc.

Simply pay attention to men visually and listen to him speak. Ideally watch him in situations where he doesn’t notice you watching him, the eyes never lies.

[lovelygirl]

Yup my ex is on the dl because everytime amything came out on tv that had to do with gay men he would get upset and changed the channel quickly. But when we were at a party he got drunk and his close buddy guy squeezed his knee under the table and he looked like he liked it and he didnt know i saw that.

[kimberlyjones]

When they get real triggered anytime they see a gay person etc. and go out of their way to talk about them, make comments, and use derogatory terms for them. There’s some self-hate going on. Like he said a straight man is not bothered by the mere presence of a gay one. They are only bothered if propositioned.

[ReadyNowStayReady]

It is so sad that women are losing men to men‼️. The men want men‼️😳smh😅

[KrysBrown]

Bingo! I had to ask a dude why he had such hatred and called them slurs but had a feeling it was because he felt a way about his own sexuality.

[whitneyb]

If you want to know if he’s gay then isn’t that the answer 😂

[DontDooTooMuch]

Wow my ex left me at a restaurant that we went to with my friends because there were two gay men there and supposedly he was very uncomfortable. 🚩🚩🚩 But they didn't do anything to him to feel that way. I'm glad I'm not with him anymore. He was terrible overall.

[sapphira]

Yes I was seeing a guy who was constantly complaining about his male coworkers being too touchy feely with him and they must be gay and he doesn't like it yet he never put a stop to it lol

[ajaycbaby]

Most straight guys don't want to dance at a gay bar.

[LaEstrella]

I feel like all of my serious relationships, I’ve been the beard. I had one ex end his own life when I got pregnant. I searched through his laptop and found out that he’s been on Craigslist looking for men and transgender women the entire time we were together. I had another man that admitted he sabotaged birth control I order to get me pregnant the first month he knew me. I find out he was a big womanizer who had attempted to do the same to any woman he could. He just wanted a kid to cover up who he really was. My current husband spends a lot of time with a certain man and gets defensive if I even say that man’s name.

[yamimami]

See I’ve been saying this bout how they get uncomfortable, thanks for the confirmation 😆

[ancient]

Trust your gut and don’t ignore the red flags. But when in doubt, check him out.

[melodydrozd]

Spreading falsehoods such as this can potentially cause tragic misunderstandings. And this guy knows this and especially the people who put him up to it.