The Lonely Days of Polygyny

Who Are We?
Coaches Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla understand the important of proper polygyny education because their religious and community leaders failed them. We made many mistakes but chose to fight for our family and the wisdom we’ve gained, we give. Our mission is to offer practical guidance about one of the oldest and strongest forms of marriage known as polygyny (a husband with multiple wives).

ABOUT OUR CHANNEL:
Whether you're single, in a monogamous relationship, exploring or already in polygyny, we shed light on its different dynamics, challenges, and successes when being done in a healthy fashion.

FOR MEN:
We focus on enhancing your leadership, helping you become emotionally and mentally strong, and build your overall confidence and skillset so you can win at polygyny.

FOR WOMEN:
Our guidance helps in embracing femininity, cultivating emotional maturity, and navigating complex dynamics to live a life of fulfillment and joy.

ABOUT YOU:
If you're someone who desires to learn and win at polygyny, we promise truth, best practices, and continuous learning.

[aisham]

SubhanAllah! Sometimes we as women don't think we can do things without a man or our husbands around, in polygyny or not. I can do this, it gives me a chance to miss him a little. I wouldn't want my husband under me all the time. I need my space too, just to chill out, unwind and have the whole bed to myself until he returns home! May الله make it easy for all of us to "live and let live" by HIS mercy! اللهم امين🧕👳‍♂️🧕

[durdurdikir]

"I Didn't Know I Needed Space, Until I had a Space"...Priceless Words For Me...Because I Treasure Space and Seclusion...as a Single Women😅

[redcarter]

When I was in polygony I enjoyed my space to myself. I took advantage of that time to work on me and the things I enjoyed doing.

[queendoda]

Ma shaa Allah 28 years of marriage and u look 28 ma shaa Allah.
I was just commenting on another video of Muslim brothers talking about how they wouldn't "allow" their wife to work. I immediately thought about this situation, what if he has another wife? What if he's a busy man on top of that. I have a lot of things I'd like to do, hobbies, and my own things that i like to do. I can't just be a wife and a mom because the children will grow up and have their own things to do and he might have other wife/s so i need to also doing my own separate thing too, women need to have their own thing going. Work out, swim, sew, crochet, gardening etc. It's not healthy to have a man being tye focal point and the center of ur whole life.

[NehemaniSelfcare]

Sister, Subhan’Allah. Where do you get your hijab accessories or from where can I find similar. I am looking to embrace hijab again and I’m very inspired by your style.

[IamRoseCityCertified]

I’m so happy polygyny is not a requirement of Islam and there is no requirement for women to stay with a man who practices this lifestyle. I’m so thankful I have the choice to keep it moving. I will never participate in such a relationship. Inshallah.

[salwamoustafa]

Thank u sister jazakillah khairan. I really needed this video n Allah guided me to it alhamdu lillah. Baarakallahu feeki

[hhh]

The time division is 3-3 for now. My parents had a long distance marriage for 8 years so I have major separation issues. I know he won't leave me but just dealing with being alone with myself is the hardest for me. I am extremely slowly beginning to take care of my mental and spiritual health. Like literally starting like a kid. It's so lonely. Mostly I am just talking to Allah. I'm extremely lonely the days he's gone and the days he is here I am hung on the fact he'll leave again. May Allah Make it easy for me, Ameen.

[miguellozoya]

And here I am looking for my 1st wife 🙂💙

[sonyarose]

The time and space are great!!!! Women should create “a life” with or without a man. Time and space, unfortunately, won’t minimize the fact that your husband is sharing himself intimately with another. That’s the part, I don’t think I could ever get over. If, I’m ever challenged with polygny, I don’t think I could allow my husband to be intimidate with me again. Time for a friendship only marriage; have sex over there. I have great respect for my Muslim sisters who can handle it. May Allah reward you. Ameen

[HoudaOussous]

A Moroccan saying : You are cooling yourself 😂

[mariatina]

You are ok with you man poking his stuff in sum other places? Why do you even need to accept this? I dont think Islam forces a woman to accept her husband take another wife? You may be laughing n cheerful but you are hiding the pain.