Why your Indifference Injures the Narcissist

[emmamonroe]

I think the best thing to move on is to tell yourself they never ever existed.👈🏻

[Twany]

You should always be indifference once you figure them out. Never, ever go back. Their point is to bring you down. That’s a supply for them.

[hindwidad]

Indifference is the ultimate F U to the narcissist because you just don’t care for them at that point. They would rather you hate them than be indifferent to them.

[ernokorhonen]

Those parasites get injured from almost anything

[Freethnkr]

Narcs have a god complex...They want to be God in your life, to be the center of everything...which is why they want you to need them...this is why satan was kicked outta heaven, pride comsumed him & his mission has always been to place all focus on him. He wants the same praise & worship as God gets from us...We can unconsciously make the narc the idol in our lives...And God says I will not have any other gods before me...

[assplundah]

We would never tell someone who has been physically graped to just “move on”, so why does everyone say that to someone who has been emotionally, mentally & psychologically graped by one of these psychopaths??

[directionfinderformen]

19 yrs of lies. 2 yrs of a divorce process. She's the biggest mistake I've ever made. But I do have 2 beautiful sons she gave me. That's priceless, and she's worthless.

[cherrieguitar]

Lol he said I was too 😅 I turned it up a notch I guess😅😅😅😅 I'm glad I did coz I had to stand up for myself. At least now he knows never to mess with me and of course he slithered into the darkness with his new toy.

[Hiddenplace]

I remember my ex narc being jealous that me and my son were playing a card game...i even asked if he wanted to play. He was bothered that we were laughing and having fun and he wasnt the center of attention. Really pathetic behavior

[anneyoung]

Praise the Lord, "being captivated" never happened. God was protecting me. It helped immensely that we had nothing in common, there was no attraction on my part, and there were glaring red flags from the start.
Good advice implemented months ago.
Don't waste energy contemplating the narcs. bad behavior. The narcissist will always garner new supply because they cannot breathe without it.
Accept them for who they are and move on.

[kerimorgan]

Indifference is great space to grow into, but I find one question that haunts me the most is this; What is it about me ( what’s within me) that allowed me to fall prey to this in the first place? What does that say about me? Why did I accept their shame when it was never mine to carry? That’s actually more than one question, but it’s all interconnected.

[lioubovgrant]

Yes to become indifferent is to getting our lives back, we need this for our own peace. If they feel hurt by that ? The hell with them, they deserve much worse then our indifference. Well done Joe !👍 Thank you ! 🤗❤

[karenangel]

Your videos are very good, your communication style is very easy to understand, thank you.

[mostHigh]

I almost said something. After he hurt my daughter's feelings 😢. But I reframed. Because I know he thrives off of that. I am totally done with that demon.

[hauntedsalmon]

Did grey rock during the last Hoover and showed indifference. It felt really good to disappoint him for a change.

[samxsara]

I find one thing you do when healed is you just don’t play, you’re living your life and they get mad cos ur attention is no longer responding to trauma

[mostHigh]

It really made me mad and I wanted to say something. I'm so glad I didn't .😊 Thank you Joe ❤

[justsomeperson]

Just make sure you really do it and don't pretend because they can tell

[ct]

If you're susceptible to the narc game, it means you're profoundly broken yourself. The greatest gift the narcissist gives you is the opportunity to face yourself and grow, something the narc cannot do himself.

[Sarah_sunshine]

Thankyou 🙏🏻 you are such a big help in my healing process ❤️