What Worries Japanese Girls about Dating Western Guys (Interview)

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[TheJapanReporter]

Wow, so many comments. Thanks!
I've made a follow-up of this video. Check it out if you're interested.

[venomtailOG]

"sleeping without taking his shoes off"

What sort of western men has she seen?

[remisoverrated]

They be thinking of Hollywood actors not discord moderators guys...

[thethemperoroftheholybri]

"Maybe he would'nt know how to use the toilet in Japan"

Me: **sees the millions of buttons on Japanese toilets** ok you may have a point

[osumanaaa]

As someone who lived in Japan, I can tell you it's so~~ hard to get close to Japanese girls let alone dating them (and I could speak Japanese well enough). They might be saying things like that, but only few would be willing to date a foreigner in reality. Among those who do, many will do it for superficial reasons such as showing off to friends or learning a foreign language. There's also the stereotype about foreign men who just want to play around and~ since Japanese men are very passive and don't show their feelings, no matter how slow you take it, it will still feel like you're too proactive for some girls.

[alexeysaranchev]

See? There ARE subtitles in real-life Japan, after all.

[emanuel]

I love when one goes "they seem so smart"
Boy would she be surprised to see the western stereotypes about asians

[hannanatalisa]

I love when one woman said he needs to be kind to his parents ❤️

[mattgritzmacher]

Most of the girls talked about cultural differences, however, in my opinion is what interests me most. Learning about differences in culture can make a relationship grow. Great video. Love to visit Japan one day.

[marka.]

This guy keeps getting told over and over, "I don't really find Japanese men attractive" 😐

[ClassicDoffy]

I'd be scared too if someone sleeps with their shoes on

[tiozuwy]

I am Japanese.
We Japanese have a culture that does not praise ourselves but praises organizations other than ourselves. For example, even if I or our family are praised by others, there is a social decree saying, "No, that's not the case."
Japanese women in particular tend not to speak their true intentions. In fact, international marriages among Japanese are significantly lower than in other countries, with Japanese women accounting for less than one-third of Japanese men.
Honne and tatemae culture is difficult for Japanese also. Even for me as a Japanese, it is easier to communicate with foreigners that express their thoughts frankly. 😂

[takaw.d]

I had a Japanese friend who told me that she was so scared of me when we first met, but found it incredibly funny that i was nothing but a big teddiebear, she is now one of my closest friends

[aposeastwood]

"They seem so smart"
Well from my experience the "western" point of view is that theres always an asian smarter than you

[defmore]

Don't get your hopes up people, they want Captain America not Captain Nerd.

[thomasthompson]

The one that says “Seem so smart.” She’ll be very disappointed in very many Americans.

Language barrier is a concern yes. I heard a story about a French man and Swedish couple, who are now married. They met at Star Trek convention and didn’t know each other’s language, but they communicated through Klingon and they spent many years talking to each other in Klingon until they learned each other’s language.

[shinigamimiroku]

The language barrier is real. As someone who works in translation, you need to be very proactive in learning the language, even though it is *very* difficult at first, especially in places where the syntax is very different.

[camx]

"They seem so smart"

EVERYONE SHHH LET HER BELIEVE THAT

[swagsonville]

Imagine spending years learning a language just to find a wife, then she tells you to speak English.

[Bear-jurr]

My wife is Japanese. Weve been married over 20 years. Its been an amazing time.