You Are Replaceable - If They Can Find Someone New! | What Happens To A Narcissist Without Supply

The narcissist has low self-esteem and an unstable sense of self. Due to their unstable sense of self, the narcissist doesn’t have a good understanding of who they are, and this can change moment to moment. While they may come off as competent and confident, this is an act they put on. To avoid being exposed for who they are, the narcissist must always have a new supply ready to boost their ego. However, what happens when the narcissist doesn’t find a new supply?
The narcissist tries to design their life where they always have another source of supply at the ready. If the narcissist’s current supply has taken control away from them by leaving before they have a replacement, the narcissist will do whatever they need to find a new supply, even if just for the moment and not a permanent source of supply. During this time, the narcissist is the most vulnerable which means they are also the most reactive to their environment. The narcissist will use their narcissist punishment tactics to put others down as a way to boost themselves up. They will belittle, name call, and do whatever is needed for them to feel good about themselves.
If ultimately the narcissist can’t find a new supply at all, they will be faced with who they really are as a person. They will realize they aren’t superior, all-knowing, and someone people want to be around. They will start to break down mentally because they are now required to be vulnerable, and this is something they are incapable of doing. They have spent a lifetime blame shifting and not taking responsibility for their actions and when they must finally face reality, and not the reality they have created for themselves, they are faced with who they truly are as a person and not the lie they created. The unstable senses of self will become apparent, and they will quickly decompensate, becoming more and more erratic in their behavior and more brutal in their words.
This is when you might experience the narcissist discard because the narcissist needs to do something to feel in control.

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[ianarn]

Sometimes the narcissist forces you to walk away then dumps you! You simply in the moment lose patience with the hour long tantrum and subsequent silent treatment when you’ve offered to talk things out to your mutual satisfaction. Of course this is not possible with a narcissist who must win and will not concede even an inch.

[gwendolynwehage]

We have a daughter and son-in-law who are narcissists. They seem constantly angry and covertly rude to me when they are around. These people have no empathy whatever and care nothing about what someone else is doing. They boast constantly about whatever they are doing and show no interest in what anyone else is doing. They seem to be burning through all their relationships as though they have contempt for anyone who does not think just like they think. They have no room for those who are confident and live their lives differently from them. I am not talking about someone who is living sinfully here but just different choices and interests. They judge things that are not wrong, they are just different from what they would do. They have tried to come between me and my husband by preferring him and treating me with contempt. I believe they hate the good relationship my husband and I have. They want my husband to control me as they try to control him.

[nicholecornes]

Once you understand it definitely helps

[CH-]

"For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another." Galatians 6

[garycordle]

This is so true Dr Emily 👍 have a great weekend and thanks for the video 🦋

[firegirljen]

My ex narc lives in my building. He broke up with me (3rd time) on my bday in April. Since then, he runs away to go camping solo 5 days a week. No new supply I can see. And, he doesn’t even look at me. Running away seems to be his cope strategy.

[xdavis]

You are the best. Excellent info, excellent presentation. Thank you !

[imrlaps]

That explains why he started unleashing all this stuff on me after i dumped him but not before. I thought it was him finally being emotionally honest in a sense, by openly showing anger and jealousy.
But maybe it was just this.

[treatmenice]

Dr. Emily, thank you for validating our feelings. Your work has helped me more than anybody else. You always get a thumbs up from this guy!

[ritadoran]

I was lied to future faked to the point of considering moving to a new home new state his idea given an engagement ring he took back every time I asked him not to watch porn and quit dating apps i got told no im crazy and he gaslight me a lot torture

[johnjohnson]

if the narc is wanting to end a relationship and you ruin their precious new supply for them aka expose their affair to everyone they know and show how much of a little home wreckers they both are... IF you have kids with them... that will be their new source of supply.. and they will still end the relationship and make false allegations against you for abuse and will do everything they can to make sure you never see your kids again..

[shannonjones]

Hi Dr Emily! Could you please discuss this. My fairly new friend who seemed to be concerned about my health, asked me to share my situation. As I thanked her for her willingness to listen and agreed to share when we got together, she went silent in the middle of the texting conversation. I felt really vulnerable and hurt. Thanks for your help!