Dating Coaches Reveal the WORST Ways Men Try to Woo Modern Women

Relationship expert Sarah Dawn Moore and The Attachment Specialist - Adam Lane Smith discuss the biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women, based on their coaching experiences. This video provides insight to help men create meaningful connections.

Sarah and Adam reveal the worst attempts they've seen from men trying to woo women, like over-the-top gestures too soon or unsolicited explicit photos. These tactics only work to attract insecure women.

They discuss the predictable pattern of men who "love bomb" women with dream relationship promises, then lose interest after getting sex. Authentic connection is key.

This candid conversation gives men examples of what not to do when dating and pursuing relationships. Following poor advice leads to short-term hookups rather than meaningful bonds.

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Chapters:

0:00 - Introduction
0:37 - Love Bombing and Explicit Photos
1:08 - Coming on Too Strong
1:46 - Worse Attempts at Wooing
2:33 - Tactics Only Work on Insecure Women

Key topics:

Biggest mistakes men make with women
Love bombing and manipulation
Creating authentic connections
Tactics that only attract insecure women

[jrod]

My worst experience was when a woman told me to come to her house because she said no one will be home..I went to her house and no one was home, not even her 🤪 JK

[tronwars]

I moved to Thailand, dating here is easy, as long as you don't go to the tourist areas and seedy bar scene and stick with clubs where a lot of office workers and Uni grads go you will find a girl/gf fairly easy and many of them are soft, kind and down to earth.

[evieartsandcraftlover]

I really enjoyed my dating experiences. I think living on the country there is still some chivalry left and gender roles. I loved dating my now husband. We had lots of fun and apart from a few dinner dates we did a lot of free activities. Went for drives through the country side. Walks in the forest. Dating can be a lovely experience.

[rogerd]

I have been married for 36 years to the same woman, so I must have done something right. Neither of us is going anywhere until one of us dies.

[thegreenbaizevampire]

I had a girl like that. Came on super strong, then when she found out I might be interested, she started pushing me away, and eventually ended it. I'd never been in a relationship where I felt relieved to be dumped before, nor since.

[josephoneil]

I went on a date with a woman who, at dinner, told me she just got out of rehab for heroin 😳

[danmc]

I would not agree. Every man is going to have his preferences. Most want would prefer a breast size that is present, not flat as a board, but also not huge.

As far as the other end, fit would be the big preference, not droopy, and again, the range for size would be something normal.

I have seen models with next to nothing in both areas, and others that are curvy. But the only woman who modeled that I can think of with huge breasts was Anna Nicole Smith, who was an outlier.

Fit, fun, and feminine. That is the start for most men. They also look for a pretty face, and then turn to character. Loyalty is important.

[tiffanywilliams]

Yay! My two favorite people coming together for a video 🙏 Love it!

[kenriehl]

I thought that dating as I got older would become easier. Hah… You ladies can still only hold the Crazy down for about 30 days.

[matthewwolff]

I've found the best strategy with women is to give up and not give damn.

[davidz]

It'd be easier if women wooed men.

[ericanderson]

The best way to woo a woman is the Three Stooges style. Woo woo woo! Nyuk nyuk nyuk!

[sarahdawnmoore]

Full episode on @iwishyouknewpodcast if you want to check it out!

[_Red_Pills]

Who even wants Western Women anymore? Really. 😐

[lookfeelbehealthy]

Sorry Sarah, I love your content 99% of the time, but that 'Paris guy' story was the least real world example I've ever heard. I've known plenty of guys like this, and they say 'I love you' right away, and then it's the WOMAN who gets turned off by that gesture (since the mystery is gone before it even started), not the guy, and then the guy becomes a stalker. What ridiculously weak-minded women have you met who fall in love with that type of guy? That type of woman is more screwed up in the head than 99.9% of people in the world. If it was that easy to get a woman to fall in love with you then all of the 'nice guys' would be successful with women. C'mon, are you sh**ing me!? That's blue pill Disney s**t. It does NOT work.

[joelzuniga]

What are you expecting that men should do to your expectations in dating women tell me something new because women do the same to get what they want at the end come on Sarah

[Larrymh]

I'm no Romeo, but at least I've never done those things. Truth be told, I couldn't afford to do the latter.

[curtis]

Absolutely I agree with you Sarah on both types..
The High Value Wannabe..
And
The Nerdy Rom-Com Romeo 😅
But I just ask you..
What does work with you
Sarah dear 😊

[friedmule]

LOL Have you maybe not forgotten the 3rd worst type, my type.
We are on a date, I am myself 100%, has zero f*ck given. If you like me then "okay, strange", if you do not "glad we pay our own half anyway". Oh, sorry forgot to say, I do not waste time on that anymore, dating is participating in a triple Iron Man and the reword for winning is a never ending obstacle course, until you finally lose. :-)

[ffarmchicken]

I’m glad Sarah can see through these weirdos. If a guy can afford to go to Paris, he must be rich. But a rich guy can get any woman near by to have sex easily. Why take her to Paris? Odd.Warning bells. Plain old poor guys like me just ask if a woman wants to go on a hike or a mountain bike ride.