Narcissists Will Lose Their Minds If You Do These 10 Things

Are you dealing with a narcissist in your life? Then watch this video! We'll discuss 10 key strategies that will throw narcissistic individuals off-balance and make them lose their minds. Learn the secrets that can help keep you safe and protect yourself from manipulative people. Don't miss out on this eye-opening advice that could change your life forever.

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[istj]

It's not just narcissists. Hold everyone accountable. Hold yourself accountable first. That way you don't go blaming the wrong person.

[jenart]

Narcissists seek out people who will feed their ego. It is a game. They even act differently to those they can manipulate vs those that block their attempts to manipulate. Some good advice 😊

[shahadah]

1. Hold them accountable for their behavior. Speak up. Don't become accustomed to their games. 2. Stop giving them primary supply.

[christyschmidt]

I left one after 30 years of marriage. Been gone since October 2019. Mental health is so much better!

[owlbestitching]

Yes, it is very much resonating with me. When I was taking care of my mom (near her end of life) my dad actually fell to the floor acting like he was having a panic attack. I knew it was just a show he was putting on because too much attention was being given to my mom. First time I saw him crying like a child and it was horrific. I couldn’t believe what I was witnessing. What hurts so much is that my poor mom dealt with him for 60 years of his manipulation and control of everything! It just kept getting worse for her, especially after the adult kids left. Now that’s he’s alone, none of us is feeding his ego and playing his games. But he’s still desperately trying to control us into doing what he wants. No nursing home for him…he doesn’t want that, but he wants me to travel 1.5 hours to his house when my sibling lives practically next door to him. Ha, my sibling is not feeding his narcissistic needs either. We’re both doing the minimum because our minds can’t take it anymore.

[deborahlaws]

I don't recommend ever threatening to expose them. Firstly, because quite often what you think is a narcissist, is actually a Sociopath, as they are only a few features apart from each other, and when a Socio sees you as a threat, you are on their radar and you must be dealt with, eliminated. Even if you negotiate a deal to eliminate the threat, you are still a threat and they neutralize threats.

If you are certain it's a narcissist you are dealing with, by threatening them with exposure, yes they will lose their mind, completely they will and you will see all kinds of nasty bad behavior like never before, tricks pulled from their bag you never knew existed. It's a very dangerous thing to do and you really need to be clear, level headed and very knowledgeable on their species of feces before engaging.

I tell all my peer counseled victims that are working through leaving and regaining their freedom, do not do this, do not even let them find out you know their secret. I tell them to be what they are expected to be right up until free and safe. Blindside them by leaving when they aren't home. We've had between 1-2 deaths per year. Each associated with exposure threats right at the brink of gaining that freedom.

You know, it's baited out of them through challenges in arguments. When they know it's all changing and they are trying to regain control and project all their ills onto you, if you just can't hold back and spill what you know and make it a threat, beware, it can cost you your life.

[cyndim]

I did it, He said “Why didn’t you answer your phone” I said knock it off Knuckle Head, if I don’t answer the phone means I was busy doing something else. What a feeling of accomplishment. End of story.

[ryanfasiska]

Yes to everything but not the last tactic. DO NOT LET THEM KNOW YOU ARE ON TO THEM! Wait till court and slam them with the facts... The real facts, not hear says. The stuff on paper, video, text msg, exposed patterns, ect.. Letting them know you are on to them gives them time to cover up old lies and make up new ones. Best advise I can give is too stay as silent as possible, don't play the game and to keep a daily journal. No attorney you hire is going to be as good as your journal, but you'll still need an attorney to "preach" the "journal" in court language. Narcissist combined with parental alienation is something I hope nobody ever has to go through.

S.O.S.

[lucybraun]

Lest their behavior be excused by those reviewing your case, it's important to draw up a personality profile for the narc. Rather than calling them a narc, outline typical narc behavior, and then set forth specific evidence-backed instances only where the narc engaged that behavior. If you set this profile out separately from the narc's legal wrongdoings, it won't be so arduous for the reviewer to get through it, because they will realize in advance that the profile is just their opportunity to see how the narc operates, rather than having to weed through all these traits while getting at the evidence of legal wrongdoings. I've been weighing this approach for months, and it seems to be making the massive project more structured and easier to follow.

[mountainman]

I know this is very vague as all the details would take entirely too long to write, but I'd like to give a few examples, and see if you guys think I've been dealing with a narcissist. I know lots more criteria would need to be shown, but I digress.

*She never holds herself accountable, and
projects blame onto me.
*She plays the victim
*She gaslights
*Shes manipulative
*She's passive aggressive
*Her dog bit me in my face, and she blamed me because she claimed I didn't show him enough attention
*I had a bike accident due to the rain, and she blamed me for not checking the forecast ahead of time
*When I'd be occupied making fondue or painting, she would berate me by saying "are you going to talk to me?"
*In the beginning, she love bombed the crap out of me. Made me feel as if i was the most special person in the world. When she ended things, she told me she was seeing someone else, and said "dont you want me to be happy?"

[mamadoom]

Ignoring his attempts to manipulate me and keeping secrets from him are two tactics I’m going to use.

[bernicewalker]

My ex met his match didnt think id b a harsh as i am he so used to mistreating woman not this queen i said c u in 2weeks never went back different city he stalks on on social media a player who played hi. Self communal narcissistic with psychopathy but i left my mark i was the best he ever had or ever will i dont put up with nonsense ever

[NimmyGierlinger_]

They already lost thier mind and getting jailed🎉

[SavageHun]

Prof. Sam Vaknin is the King of dealing with narcissists! Put them in YOUR play, and attack their success..

[JulesB]

I recently realized he is a Narcassist and when I realized this, I decided to turn the tables on him. Knowing I was his grade A supply, I stroked his ego and then I blocked him on all my social media. He's been dead silent since. I think what alot of people don't talk about is that mourning of what could have been or the person you thought they were. I've found it really hard to process.

[timefactortheoryofgravitya]

Leading with a negative or convoluted perception... Some of the narc's I have dealt with play a dirty game of triangulation by leading with a negative or "altered" perception of a situation to make you think " Chewy, I have a bad feeling about this". Then they follow up with vaguely acting like they are trying to help. But because you are already thinking "This will not end well", you will probably choose the wrong course of action or say the wrong thing based on the "leading" negative / convoluted perception. Very manipulative! If done well, the Narc gets an opposite result from you, instead of you doing the "vaguely suggested" right way to resolve something, which makes them look like they were really trying to help. It is called "setting someone up for failure". It has worked on me many times, sad to say.

[MyFungal]

All they want is to do is to throw others under the bus and hear yes your right. Don't have an opinion of yourself that's unheard of

[yetthejet]

Yes. I have a friend who acts like this. Thank you for your tips.

[Amy.PCB.home.]

I had a boss, Director of HR, who was manipulative and controlling and hateful. I confronted him once in a respectful way that he wasn't a good listener and he lost his mind. I ignored him and kept working on projects. My teammate manipulated him back with affection and lying about my skills. He ended up letting me go.

[mohamedseif-elnasr]

Yes. And I left them. I know they will try to return, but this time it cannot work. 😊