How God Saved Me From A Narcissistic Marriage - Testimony

If you feel trapped in a narcissistic relationship, please know, you're not alone. God sees you and has the power to transform and restore even the most hopeless situations. I hope you'll join me as I share how God delivered me from a narcissistic marriage.

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[Lookup]

My husband was a covert narcissist, BUT God changed his heart, mind, and direction when he decided to get saved. My husband admitted to everything when I showed him an article that God gave me to explain this behavior. Not even the best counselor in the world can get a narcissist to admit they are a narcissist. But God is the ultimate Counselor 🙌 🙏 ❤️

[Pthax]

I stayed 30 years as a Christian praying God would deliver him as a cheating, gas Lighting, covert narcissist. They don’t God is healing me and restoring me🙏🏻

[BevDrawing]

8:18 hate when people say that. Just because you are called to love doesn't mean you need to stay in a toxic and abusive situation. God has called us to love others. Love doesn't mean letting that person walk all over you. Love doesn't mean getting everything they want. Sometimes love is letting someone go. Sometimes love is discipline and making sure people are held accountable for actions. Enabling somebody's bad behavior is not loving. God loves you enough to take you away from people who are hurting you!

[LuisaShamuel]

That is my story 😢 I’m going through a horrible divorce with a covert narcissist and he has made my life hell, but I know God is going to help me! Please keep me in your prayers

[savedbygracesavedbygrace]

I’m still in a marriage with a narcissist. Gaslighting, deflecting, chaos. Verbal abuse for 12 years. I never thought to pray for deliverance for me, always prayed for him. Praying God Will deliver me and my girls.

[heatherbrown]

I was delivered from a narcissist in the most unbelievable way…it took 23 years and I thought all hope was gone. Things suddenly got mucb worse one day and I thought I was going to end up in jail because of the anger I was feeling….but it didn’t work out that way. Today we are free!

[EminaBalan]

My story. It is so strange how we all are different, but with a narcissist, we all go through the same screenplay.

[marilynng]

I was married 18.5 to very trouble porn addiction too
God gave me the strength to finally let him go He actually left after my cancer diagnosis God used this diagnosis to set me free from my very troubled marriage My diagnosis has also led me to get healing from my childhood trauma It’s been two years and I am thriving God has been good to me and my 14 year old son

[marife]

It’s taken me over 25yrs to realize that my husband has these narcissistic tendencies (demonization) to be exact. I can relate to everything you’ve said, from manipulation, gaslighting, the guilt instilled in me of being the problem. He’s been in prison, out of prison, in church, out of church and even disrespected my daughter, yet I kept going back. Until that one eventful night when he nearly choked me to death and had no other choice but to call the cops on him- now I’m battling him wanting to take my home in the mist of what is probably going to be a horrible divorce, BUT GOD has delivered me and I know He will see me through. So prayers are Welcomed. I don’t have a support of people and definitely need to find counseling as I’m going through my healing process. So blessed I found you. Thank you for sharing your story. I felt I was alone and I now see from the many comments that this is more common than I thought. 🙏🏼

[carribeyreuther]

Currently packing because my therapist told my husband is a narcissist and possibly sociopath. And she asked how soon I could leave. He’s gone for a week so I’m quickly getting out. I needed this ! 🙏

[lisel.]

The day we went to city hall to marry, i felt light headed & nauseous... God gave me every sign possible, but i didnt value myself enough to listen to the holy spirit within me😢

[Smartsuit]

Thank you for sharing your story, Kris. My malignant narcissist wife of almost 19 years was just caught cheating by me. Praise our God! I have been delivered by the LORD and I will not look back. It has been the darkest 2 decades of my life with this supposedly Christian woman in my life. But God is faithful, and now I'm free. Thank you for your content. I'm grateful to hear of fellow Christians and their deliverance from narcissistic spouses.

[melissamitchell]

"He will either change him or deliver you." SO good!

[marquettejackson]

It took me 30 years to leave a Narcissist and it cost me greatly, but I trust in my Lord. He has been by my side. When I married at 18 I had no idea what a narcissist even was. So many people don’t know the mental, physical abuse, lies that I lived. My God has brought me to a place of healing.

[pastoralcounselor]

I left my husband the day he said that he never wanted to marry me. He said that I made him sick! And we should divorce. After 5 years of hearing that, I finally said Okay and put in the Divorce papers!
Now I feel free!

[kathymateer]

I also married a narcissist, an abusive narcissist. As a missionary child whose parents lived in another country, this was difficult on my parents and myself. I felt shame for what I had done but chose to rely on God. I trusted God in my shame and fear of my husband. But God finally allowed me to get pregnant and my child gave me someone to care for and protect. My son was 10 months old when I separated from my husband. I tried everything I could to save the marriage until I also was Biblically released and so divorced. It was final 3 days prior to my 10th anniversary. God has taken care of my son and me through all these years since.

[KarmabyCara]

"I stepped out of God's will when I married him" hit me like a ton of bricks 😢

[Dee-Dee]

I love it when you say, " Judge all you want, but I left!" It's also very liberating when one takes responsibility for the part that they played in getting entangled in such chaos. The say I topped blaming and taking responsibility was the beginning of my freedom. I also have zero regrets for leaving, and even though he never fought to keep our marriage or stop me, he still tells everyone that I filed for the divorce, I left...and you know what? I'm okay with that.

[susanservin]

I knew something was wrong on the honeymoon. He told me I didn't pray correctly. Over time he destroyed my faith. Thank God He drew me back.

[christinabrown]

I am 25 years into a marriage with a covert narcissist. It is so hard!! My health has definitely suffered and I feel like a different person because of it. He has everyone at church fooled and even teaches Sunday school now. I have been praying for God to set me free. I don’t have $ to be able to leave, so I am stuck and miserable 😢 . I also did it to myself and married the wrong one!! I’m just thankful this is only temporary and one day, even if it isn’t until I get to Heaven, I will be free.