WHY STRAIGHT MEN DON’T DATE TRANS WOMEN

Hi Guys!

In today’s video i’ll be talking about why i think some straight men can’t/wont/don’t date trans women. These are my thoughts and opinions, formed by my personal experiences. This isn’t fact. This is just what i find to be true for the majority of guys i meet. Some straight men don’t simply want to for no other reason that it’s just not their thing and that’s fine. They respectfully decline and accept you’re a woman. For instance, it may be your genitalia as you can be pre-op or some other thing preventing them from dating you. Don’t force anyone to do anything they don’t want to do. It’s just nice to be nice.
I hope you learnt something from this video.

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[rotweilerdc]

Why straight men don’t date other men? Where’s the confusion? 🤣🤣🤣

[JasMcKenzie]

FYI- when it comes to choosing a romantic/sexual partner, it is fine to reject anyone for any reason whatsoever.

[wmaddan]

Straight men don't date other men, and no matter what you self identify as it wont change what you are "to them". Trying to shame them by using terms like 'toxic masculinity isn't going to be productive because you can't force anyone to want to be in a relationship they don't want to be in. They want cis-women - simple.

[Kirwina]

Straight men have the option to date who they want - a natural born female

[FiveMCity]

I couldn't imagine making a video "why lesbians don't date straight men" and calling it toxic feminity.

[jackcarterog]

A trans woman has no place telling a man he's still straight if he dates a trans woman. I understand where you're coming from. You experience yourself as a woman and want a man to see and experience you the same way, but you can't overlook the desire of a straight man, which is to be with a biological woman. Don't be mad at him for a difficult situation you're in. There are men out there who will date you, but I don't know what man would seriously do so when you're looking for a "straight male". Who cares if he's straight or not? Him caring about you should be the only thing that matters. It seems so shallow to focus on whether he is "straight" or not? Why would a man date someone so shallow and self-centered?

[rogerdodger]

I don’t think it’s toxic masculinity. I think it’s about a cis male not being attracted to a penis.

[roadrunner]

I didn't even watch the video but I came to the comment section to answer the question. Why straight men do not date trans women?
1) Straight men like women.
2) Trans women are not women.

[denilsontavares]

Because we are straight
Simple as that

[KripsyKreme]

Because you are male. Straight men don’t want other males. Sexual orientation is not “conditioning.”

[I_am_milan]

"to fit in & be a sheep"
You're going to shame men for not wanting to be with you 😂🤣

[jammadan]

WHY STRAIGHT MEN DON’T DATE TRANS WOMEN? Good question! You should start a video series asking such questions
Can I suggest the topic for your next video? How about why gay men don't date women? And after that maybe why lesbians don't date men?

[Jaspervision]

Why lions don’t mate with hyenas is beyond me as well

[anikanayak]

Actually men are not being transphobic when they say they don't want to date you...Actually they are being very very polite...truth is they actually want to run as fast as possible when you approach them...but they are being kind and saying no

[jasonmckenzie]

No disrespect. To only be attracted to a real woman is naturally given desire by GOD. A trans woman will never be able to have the intuition of a real woman, the tender motherly love, be strong supporting wife, or have the biological genetics of a real woman, the soft touches and natural scent of a real woman, the tolerance and emotional strength of a real woman, carry any burdens of a real woman. To naturally go through pregnancy, real woman are real woman period. Real men, heterosexual men, want real woman. And that's how it will always be. Any man that is attracted to a transgender and fully knows it is a transgender that he is attracted to is a homosexual by definition. A transgender woman is nothing more than a homosexual man who wants to walk and talk as a woman by unnatural means and to be acknowledged by everyone as such. A real man, God fearing man, will never date or even consider in his mind to date a transgender, it's a line that we will NEVER EVER EVER cross ❌. Let's go back to the basics, Attraction to the same sex is homosexuality. Period. Regardless of appearance.

[cortezrange]

The reason why you're not girlfriend material because you're not a girl

[seattle]

So if I do not want to date trans women something is wrong with me? I have heard it all. I want a family. And I like biological females. And I like passing down my DNA. A transwoman cannot offer men that. Sorry your theory is wrong.

[FGC-kuez]

As a cis straight woman, there are billions of straight men who don't want to date me. The vast majority, in fact, because I'm either to tall, short, young, old, "wrong" race, religion, nationality, sexual orientation, you name it. That's ok, and normal. No one is universally appealing to everyone in their target dating population. I suggest we focus on those who want to be with us and treat us the way we expect to be treated. Everything else is a waste of our valuable time. Sexual attraction is less personal than we think, and we can't control who we find attractive, or force ourselves to find someone we don't fancy attractive. Those are just facts that apply to everyone. Not just trans women.

[zamangomane]

You cannot paint an orange to look like an peach then put it in the peach section at the grocery store and expect customers not to be mad as they were deceived to buying something they didn't want . Though you feel, believe and have taken measures to become female does not change the reality that biologically you can never fully fulfill the role of a biological female which straight men are always looking for . So though you present yourself to be female and live that lifestyle you cant be mad at others who do not see that and want other things . Nowhere do we find that gay men are mad that straight men don't want to date them because it is understood that straight men have a very specific set of preferences of which some are non-negotiable hence straight male . The sooner those in the Trans community with your mindset can understand and respect that the sooner everyone can be at peace . It's not about conditioning or family it's about an individuals choice . My advice is to be open and honest about who and what you are to those men who are straight and are attracted to you and accept when that attraction disappears once they are presented with the reality of who you are. yes you have become anew but that will never erase your past and the facts and realities of who you were born as because that plays a large role into what you can provide your partner with and cannot and its not always about children but rather the effects on psyche, personality, mannerisms and life experiences that biological females go through that trans females will never go through to make them who they are as individuals .

[breezy_]

As a straight woman I would not date a trans man. There’s nothing transphobic about that. If I want biological children one day a trans man can’t give me that. The same thing goes for straight men. They want a biological woman to be the mother of their children.