When You Are Doing Better Than The Narcissist

When you are doing better than a narcissist, it can elicit various reactions from them, and their response may depend on the specific characteristics and coping mechanisms of the individual. Here are some potential scenarios:

Envy and Jealousy: Narcissists often struggle with feelings of envy and jealousy when others succeed or outperform them. Your success may trigger these emotions, leading to resentment and potentially negative behaviour.
Undermining or Sabotage Attempts: In an attempt to protect their own fragile self-esteem, a narcissist may engage in undermining or sabotage to diminish your achievements. This could involve spreading rumours, downplaying your success, or actively working against your interests.
Competitive Behavior: Narcissists thrive on competition and comparison. If they perceive you as a threat to their status or superiority, they may intensify their efforts to outshine you or prove their worth in a competitive manner.

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[JacK-qnzh]

Left my best friend over the summer….what a blessing it has been! No more up at night’s thinking about … how I can’t be anything!! I Love everything about me and my new life!!! I’m doing really good!

[ryder]

I'm doing great I feel fine, the flying monkeys down the street well they are having alot of problems😊

[InHonourOfChester]

"Hello👋 I'm nice, I'm horrible, notice me" the way Anoushka described it, I cant😅😅. But this is so true

[augustineschaefer]

I don’t need anyone’s ‘closure’ except mine. They can go ahead and pretend like nothing happened to move on and I’m pretending that the last time was the last time with a block and done. Ignoring red flags doesn’t work forever.

[thetruther]

“Flying monkeys” is a good one. Anna Runkle used that term and I know something useful when I hear it. It’s a gift of mine. Yeah, I don’t need your Dad to say I’m doing better. He always chose his daughter over his success, although I’m the only, one who knew. You got excited with this narcissist of yours and I can’t even prove it. But, with my Mother gone, I don’t need the money. I’m a grown man, not a little boy who hasn’t made it yet. Thank God for your father.

[normandbriones]

She hoovered on my bday last week by greeting me. Here’s my reply: I chose to be kind and dealt everything privately. In spite of your hidden parts that made me still love you before, yes I’ve seen through you, I took all the hits that comes with it and didn’t exploit. But you made your choice. I have healed and moved on. Goodbye.

[InHonourOfChester]

You are such a blessing Anoushka! Thank you for this video, all that u just said are on point! 👏👏👏

[yankeehillraymie]

Miss Anoushka, i have one for You that i just realized, they use my precious Honesty Against me, im brutally honest so they use every bit of what i say Against me. And they hate me.

[ragingspeedhorn]

It's an awful transaction....under the guise of marriage vows. I kept my vows and im poorer, in one way...but better overall ..Karma has a beautiful way to balance things 🙏

[Akkordeondirigent]

Haven't watched it yet, but this one is easy: They do everything, pull every dirty trick to drag you down. At all costs. Even if it means to ruin everything you've built up. Right? And now I'm going to watch.

Edit: Quite exactly as I said. I live through that. My only chance was to abandon my former profession and leave anything (!) behind. That was hard. Now and then I suffer depressive periods because of that but I'm getting better year by year. Scars will be left for ever. But I came to terms that I didn't fail due to incompetence or character flaws, as they were eager to make me think, but because of their envy and their sense of inferiority.

Fun (?) story, but true: My last orchestra, from wich I got fired in the most disgusting and cowardly way you can imagine after forteen years of dedicated and passionate work, reached out to me twice: If they were allowed to play my pieces and secondly if I want to get some of my scores I had to leave because of the rapid developement that time. Oh the utter shock as I didn't show any interest at all in both! "How can you?! We want to maintain your legacy!" Yeah, sure, whatever. F.off. First cut is the deepest, be resilient, you will heal.

[steenkristensen]

Ja jeg forstår, jeg er enig med dig og jeg har også tænkt mig at forsætte med at gå frem af. Ka du forsat a en god aften Anouska 😉

[Paka]

Or we share kids that they question to know everything about what we’re up too. Very sad to get info out of an 8 year old son 😢 I wish there was a work around, but I don’t know of one.
Thank you for all the help you give us💙🙏🏾
I guess in a way it lets them know we’re past them, just sad a child has to be brought into this narcissistic world.

[amygradybsw]

LOVE THIS VIDEO!! SHARING EVERYWHERE 😂❤❤❤❤

[dumpmail-xzqp]

Don't think Ill miss that ex narc friend of mine. Not only she tried intentionally get me depressed, she was really enjoying herself by acting to be better than me.
I am in the belief that everybody should work on being the best version of themselves, not focusing on being better than others.
The level of disrespect she has shown made me wonder who even is this person? I was friends with her for 16 years and the 12 years were perfect, until she got that current boyfriend.
Its like she was compelled to make me feel devalued when she was bread crumbling and then twisting the reasons why I wanted to end continuing this nonsense and move on. I wanted us to maintain a normal conversation, she would start the conversations only to leave me hanging, wasting hours waiting for her to reply something meaningless. Talking to a wall would be more fun than her so I started using a diary instead.
I don't think Ill ever consider taking her back again after how she treated me.
I feel sorry for the new supply that got her attention now but I'm glad I am not a part of that hot mess anymore.
Its so strange to recover one day and realize how little of value this narc actually was that I have spent so much time and energy on

[rhododendrons_]

..Or they try to reset your facebook account many times of the course of a year of NC- cause you blocked them after they discarded; rubbed the new supply in your face; told you, you were 100% to blame for the relationship failing- this after being together for over a decade (super mature these little geniuses are)

[Jeff-xsdo]

The chiropractor that I ago to every 2 weeks, The receptionist is my ex best friend, I’m sure she reports to my ex on how I’m doing, Always upbeat and dress well every time I go, I have moved on Looking for new Love

[raidenewalden]

Because of the relationship that I feel from the early years being with him is not good . No commitments, and insecurities I have to do things that is best for my future and I achieve that with no help from him . He said he can’t control me . For me I feel like we have a separately life all along . I wonder why, so now I know .

[KleeKaiBreeders]

Narcissists compete with everyone. It’s not possible to have a healthy relationship with a narc. Cut your losses and go create a life that makes you happy.

[Freethnkr]

What about when the narc seems to be doing better than you? They've relocated to a better city, remarried to someone who's better looking, has more going for them, cooks better, smarter, they seem happy, have more money, just moved into a new house, drive better cars, travel to nice places etc...Where as you and the narc always struggled financially, because he abused all of the finances, he never left the city, we never went anywhere for vacation except to his narc parents house to complain about me, we were never happy, there was always drama, chaos & confusion, but his family loves he new supply but still hates me. I was the reason for all of his issues, and now he's happier, has more and doing better

[itsdavincidavinci]

One of her flying monkeys saw me at law school, just started my LL.B. Should I be scared😬?