Why Does He Text You And Then Ignore Your Response?

[biancac]

Texting has really ruined the dating process.

[pcole]

So the next time he texts me I won't respond at all. See how he likes that.

[may]

Call me strange, but if a person is not important to me and I don't want to talk to them, guess what? I DON'T TEXT THEM. i hope I can somehow, magically become gay, because I think I'm done with men.

[unicornprincess]

I don't understand all of these childish games. See, I don't play games. This generation is just 🤢. It honestly makes me sick. I want that feel good, 90's type of love. I know it may sound cliche, but I'm for real. Thank you for your insight, I need to stop wasting my time.

[bfftv]

Damn you gave it straight to the point. It’s probably true too 😭😭 I feel used

[shesnaturallydope]

That's y I don't want a relationship these guys just be wasting my time and there own

[Prilonzo]

This happen to me to day I was so upset like why even bother texting me if am not priority to you

[sunshinejewel]

Ha! Just what I felt in my gut and you confirmed it. His ass is gettin DROPPED!

[nikiasublett]

I'm just still confused lol. if I don't wanna talk to someone I just don't talk to them, period ! a guy I've been talking to does this and it's starting to piss me off. it's almost like he only txt me just to see if I'm still there. I need more understanding from this

[evlish]

If he doesn't see you as a Priority now he will never see you as a Priority so you should better pack your bags and move on to someone else

[jillvandenlinden]

Bottomline: Don't get invested too soon when you're just dating someone and know your worth.

[melxoxo]

This is honestly the best advice I've heard. Im literally going through the same thing with this guy I've been crushing on. He'll always text me first but whenever i respond back, he wont text me back. Its very confusing AND fustrating.

[itsjustmimi]

This happened to me for the 1st time yesterday. I think its a way to shift his needy energy back to me. I hadn't called or texted him for the last few days so I guess he wanted the upper hand in the situation again. That's kinda cruel but now he won't have that avenue to contact me anymore. Thanks for the cold reality check...I needed it.

[stephblenheim]

A lot of time they are punishing you that's why they're doing it as a power trip

[johnbarlow]

my ex contacted me by text message after 5 months, I replied back to her text a few hours later because of work commitments, she'd read but no reply from her. Obviously she was thinking of me but why the games. I still love her but I'm not playing games neither. Thanks for the video.

[sendspaghetti]

This happens to me way too much. I feel like a convenience to him no longer feel like his girlfriend anymore....

[semisweet]

I love your honesty and it hurts but I have done this to a guy before too so I'm no better I guess. I feel so stupid because although it takes me awhile to respond back I still do. I should just let the guy go but it's hard to.

[bxgirl]

I agree it can go either one or two ways either he is just seeing if he got a line to you to string you along or he is insecure and don't know what to say next this guy is big stuff over the phone text ect when we are face to face he can't even stay on one side of the room without being near me like has to actually try to fit into my skin total lost of control smh I think if they play this text game and you give them a taste of thier own medicine and they attempt to wait you out trying to act like they didn't read the text already just wanna be elementary I say ok DROP HIM/HER quick before your feelings get the best of you people say "why the games" but they can only play the games we allow! So with that being said "silence is golden" until they prove they wanna be a grown up let them know that behavior won't be tolerated!

[Bella-Mae]

A guy did this to me and it fucking sucked! I couldn't figure it out then but i finally woke up and realized that he was just a jerk. Whenever i would reach out to him he would ignore me or take forever to read it but once he got back to me I would respond to him and he would ignore me all over again and he did that for months.. I finally got tired of it and moved on and met someone else about 2 months later and he tried hitting me up again responding to a message i sent him 3 months earlier and i laughed and told him to just stop and that i was done with his shit and got into a relationship.. He didn't respond and 10 months later he hits me up again (I'm still in a relationship) to apologize and told me he felt awful for how he played me. I was nice i told him i didn't care anymore and that it was ok.. Funny bc when i really liked him he ignored the fuck out of me the majority of the time but once i didn't want him anymore he almost inmediately would always respond to me and actually make conversation with me like was he tryiny to reel me back in or something?

[gladysgonzalez]

ugh that happened to me ..went out with a guy for a week saw each other every day for a week I felt a connection.. then he says I deserve better I said ok it hurt but OK.. I get a text with an explanation about how he's going through stuff... I'm like OK... nothing for 2 months and I get a text hi stranger how are you.. I reply with .. really good how are you .. nothing ...at all ...wtf