Stop Trying to Change Him!

[BillieRaeBrandt]

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[zaph]

Instructions unclear. I changed into a belt.

[randi]

17 years with my husband, and he always says "its going to be like this forever, I will never change." And I reply "you better not, because I you!" Then we both laugh. Its corny, but its also the truth.

[ArnoldsDesign]

"But you want his pants molded to his legs". Lmao.

[DavidAVest]

It's startling how often women ask for or even demand things that they don't actually want. How do they not see it?

[andreajimenez]

Being in a relationship requires quite adaptation to the other person. We do change for and because of each other. Hopefully, for the better. We do make sacrifices for each other. BOTH. That's a relationship. So, yes. You make an effort to share interests. He should be willing to make exceptions to his schedule the same way she should be willing to share his interests (maybe going to the gym the day after?).

[darkjackhammer]

Feels nice being understood for once. Discipline and dedication are the main reasons good men are loyal. loyal to their partner, friends, and themselves.

[EmilyW-]

I don't try to change my husband, I love him for who he is and he loves me for who I am, he likes my nerdy personality. He was my first love, all glory to my lord and savior. Thank you Billie.

[andes.]

u speaking the truth, I committed this mistake and it took years of my life to recover from the feeling of being betrayed by my self doing

[devenp]

Thank you for keeping it real and telling it like it is. Wish my wife finds this channel 🙏

[PistonAvatarGuy]

If he doesn't want to go out *anymore*, it's because she's doing something f'ed up when they're out. My ex seemed to make it a point to try to humiliate me when we went out (starting fights about private matters within earshot of other people, for example), so I just stopped going places with her. She also deprived me of sleep until I ended up losing my job, which is just pure abuse.

[danslavallee]

"Anymore" means he did that before. So he changed, its not her who is trying to change him. It means he "lied" and they dont have the same vision of a relationship. If they are so different they are just not made to be together. And in every couple sometimes we adapt to the other, it is a balance, or you better be single.

[ernesrivera]

AWESOME TRANSITION from just a casual conversation to Anson. You go GGRRRLLL

[mathers]

Protect this woman at all costs. She's spitting facts.

[bitterbaldguy]

Yeah, 11 years into a marriage and I have no clue who the fuck I am and my wife doesn't give a shit about the person I am.

[stevennewman]

Good advice on this one. You're right more than you're wrong. Never heard of the Anson belt, now I have.

[stellabari]

The thing is, if you don’t do anything together, the relationship will die off. You have to find things that both people like to do. Being a couple is a compromise between two people. She has to understand that going clubbing might not be his thing, but he has to understand that simply staying at home is not hers either. Both have to make an effort to make the relationship work. And if they can’t, the relationship is pretty much doomed.

[Destichado]

You know what, that was so smooth I don't even mind.

[EmilyWashington-dywf]

Hey I'm new to this channel and love your contents, They were very helpful !

[kman]

Bought an Anson belt in 2020, still holds up. Lasted longer than any belt I've ever had. Worth the money.