Divorce Lawyer Reveals The #1 Mistake That Most Men Make In Relationships | James Sexton

In this short clip with Divorce Lawyer James Sexton he reveals the #1 mistake most men make in relationships, his thoughts on why people cheat, why the red pill community is wrong and more.

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[Bambino_]

My biggest mistake in my relationships was my selfishness and self centered attitude. I deserved everything I got.

[SS-lybn]

He is so right. It causes her to fall in love with him again and again, creating connection. Women fall in love through their ears, not their eyes.

[MelodiousRhythm]

I did that with my ex 18 years ago. I made her lunch box and put in a love note everyday and a joke of the day but she still cheated more and more until I divorced her.

[pepper]

"Coffee on the counter, my love for you, everywhere ". Best little note I ever received!

[asalinas]

This is watering the nurturing part of the relationship garden.

[RP]

I could listen to this guy for hours. Totally entertaining

[craigsmith]

Yep it's called appreciation costs nothing and buys a whole lot.

[michaelgallaugher]

I can honestly say that notes have more impact than we (men) think. My wife still keeps 3 year old post it notes of me saying silly love you messages. Women respond to verbal messages, not the action messages.

[hansblitz]

Usually lawyers don't seem to express such a deep dive into the psychology they deal with it.
This guy is different, what an interesting dude.

[ledhalenV]

Thank you. I’ve been one of those guys who was like “why do I need to tell you everyday.” I already know my wife is going to really appreciate notes, so I’m going excited. It’s the small things that matter, and I appreciate the reminder.

[lisam]

I love this advice, and my husband and I have had this conversation before. He tries, but sometimes he has to put a note in his phone to remind him to compliment me. I appreciate the effort! I leave him a note every morning, try to make the food he likes, and treat him kindly and with respect. He does similar things, but physical touch and words of affirmation are my top two love languages, and they are the bottom two for him. If you don't have the same love language it does take extra effort to 'speak their language', but it pays off! His is time spent together and acts of kindness, so making him the foods he likes, and watching him play his favorite games on twitch on Friday evening make a huge difference. It's wild how different we all are. Twenty years of marriage in, and we are finally starting to get the hang of this thing.

[johnsharkey]

Excellent advice. Starting this with my wife tmrw!

[matthewhowe]

"Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus." Excellent book. For those with dogs, does your dog greet you at the door when you come home? Maybe we should do the same for our spouse, I do. This year we'll celebrate twenty-seven years of marriage.

[tiorimas]

We've had commercials telling us we're the most important person in the world and that we deserve everything. How did you not expect us to be selfish? Then you have social media to amplify this 10x and generate armies of NARCISSISTS.

[hnybee]

I've been corresponding through email with a man friend. The power of the typed or written word is so powerful

[Arielleoo]

This is exactly what ended my 5 year relationship, hearing way more positive things from folks outside of my relationship. No reason to stay 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Aliens-Are-Our-Friends]

Women want 1 rose a day for a year, not 365 roses at once in one special occasion

[toddjames]

I just left a note and it felt great! Wonderful advice.

[reinhardt]

He's right!
Im the type of man who compliments women in a respectful manner.
And I kid you not, they slowly started to develop feelings for me. All because their man would not.

Women are like flowers, you gotta maintain them not just have them on display.

[rayrwyr]

I don't think writing love notes to a wife who currently disrespects her husband would help.