Is marriage 50|50? || STEVE HARVEY

Steve presents the “Happy Wife, Happy Life” Hour with the question of “should marriage be 50|50?"

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[astateofshadow]

I’m baffled that she is proud as she talks to Steve. Some people should not get married or be in any relationship if they have this mentality, period. It is and always will be 100/100.

[sdprz]

I just keep hearing reasons not to get married on this show

[themaineventevent]

Marriage is 100/100 and divorce is 50/50 😂😂😂

[jgyrwa]

Where is the rest of this video? Wanted to hear Steve complete response to this subject matter.

[calebshipley]

In my marriage, there is no 50/50. We're in it 100/100. If you want your marriage to work, you're going to have to figure that out.

[narsnhel]

When you’re married, you become ONE. Is this how you want to be treated? Is this how you love yourself? Its not about how you afford to have a spouse. It’s about love. Loving means treating eachother lovingly and respectfully. You both have to consider eachothers.

[Seals]

It's so weird to me to see people splitting money in a relationship. When you're married you should consider the two of you to be one person. Everything they own is yours and vice versa, which includes all money made by both of you. So there's no "oh you pay for this and I'll pay for that, " there's just "let's pay this and pay that." It's super childish to me to imagine a woman who expects the man to pay for everything and she gets to keep all the money she earns. You're not a couple at that point imo.

[ABEAST]

Being cheap and struggling are two different things. If you want your man to be financially free, support him and sacrifice a dinner or two. Both of you should be investing that money.

[MohammedIbrahim-pxcc]

She calls her husband a "cheapskate" on national TV and still wants him to take care of her.
I'd divorce her on national TV.

[Doctordiva]

It's 50/50 but everything you give isn't financial. Maybe the husband buys the groceries but the wife cooks the food. Maybe the husband pays the bills and the woman carries the children, or one pays the bills one does the upkeep of the house. It's not all about finances it's about both giving to the marriage to complete it

[trulyjeannette]

If you can't afford having a wife, don't get married. Two part time jobs and in school, bet that wasn't an issue when he they planned the wedding. It's amazing of people's priorities. I know someone who had no problem finding thousands to pay for the child's sweet sixteen party but when it came to college tuition, they didn't have it.

[h]

My husband told me he wants to share renting an apartment after 2 years of marriage. I didn’t have my word in it, he lived there before me, I always buy food and cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills (water, electricity, gas) and I worked. I felt overwhelmed and took a break from work when he said how hard his life is. Not to mention he makes 3 times more than I do and never shared how he spends his income. He tells me that he provides for me, but I spent my savings when I left work to buy food.

I didn’t know who I was marrying and I deeply regret that I thought he was a man.

[drtash]

God being single sure feels good right now!!

[Kenny-jjih]

I’ve been married almost 10 years and marriage is 100/100 if one person is struggling the the other person has to help out. You split bills together. Not one person pays for everything all the time. When you get married you become one unit. There is no longer you and I. It’s us once you say I do!

[kittyboo]

That clip was NOT long enough! It cut off right when Steve was about to PREACH!

[vukkumsp]

The only mistake he did is not discussing this before marriage 😅😂

[alexandria]

She should be more supportive of the fact that he's in school and working trying to make life better for them. She's kinda making him seem like less of a man, that's how she's gonna lose him. She just wants wants wants and don't wanna help with anything. I mean I understand she wants him to be a provider but she has to bend a little for the benefit of their future.

[NyakzOTSD]

I agree.. spilt the bill 50/50 all the time married or not! Unless you are taking your partner out for a special occasion. I accept 50/50 comes in different capacities

[markskiglom]

Consistency is the concern. He pursued her giving her the image that he is capable of providing. Usually women gives more in a marriage, we guys think what they do has the same value as what we do. When you started a relationship treating a woman as a queen, keep treating her as a queen consistently, as she consistently treats you as a king. It only shows in the way she touches him, the way they look together.

[betterbodiez]

When I met my girl I had my own spot paying ($$800 a month ) she had hers paying( $840 a month ) so we moved in together n found a spot for $1300 a a month and she pay $600 and I pay the remaining, she clean up the house and I wash the cars, if she has to work overtime and gonna get home late I already washed the dishes and cleaned the house cleaning up
Is something she do and don’t have to tell her so I help
Her sometimes . If I take her out most times I pay everything and somethings she leaves the tip or
I’ll be like I’m broke this week and she be like ok I’m taking up out to eat. It’s all about helping each other.