3 Types Of “Busy” Men (WARNING: #1 And #3 Will Never Prioritize You Or Commit!)

Discover three types of men who say they're "busy" when you're dating (and what that means for the future of your potential relationship) in this video with Helena Hart.

[danieladriussi]

I am lucky enough to have a man who is super busy, but always prioritises me. He often works late through the week so his weekends are totally free for me. Also works early mornings so he has time for dinner with me one night through the week. I get regular phone calls (morning and afternoon) and texts before bed. First time I've ever experienced this type of commitment... and it's beautiful and assuring. 🤗🥰

[radlyn]

I’m very attracted to category 3 of busy men, it’s true we get easily hooked to them. I learned trick with this type of men, every time we message each other I delete all our conversations because I know I go back to them and read them again and again which makes me fall for his words not actions.

[staceywilk]

Wow...I've had so much anxiety with a guy I've been dating for a month. Sounds like he's #3 😔 I've started leaning back today and I already feel so much relief and am not freaking out that I haven't heard from him since this morning, over hours. He works in a busy industry 6 days a week, but everyone has a few minutes to send a quick text or call..it's about priority. I recognize I've been making myself too available for him. That stops today. I'm already planning self care activities for me this weekend, uncertain I'd he'll follow through with our tentative plans. Thank you for helping me recognize this. 🙌

[rosenblau]

My boyfriend turned from type 3 (breadcrumber for almost a year) into type 2... Once I was about to walk away because I couldn't take the pain and being on an emotional rollercoaster anymore. He is now acting like type 2 for 1, 5 year so very consistly and long term. It's unbelievable. But if I hadn't changed, he probably wouldn't either. It's not about the men... they just reflect our inner state to us.

[winniekirui]

You know what, Helena?

It actually means so much to us that you are still producing great content and so present with us.
A person would think that now that you have your husband you'd not have a reason to keep posting but it's refreshing to keep having your energy continually coming towards us. You didn't neglect us just coz you got married. It has been amazing to experience you before and after you got married. My respect for you just grew way more after witnessing this.

Thank you so much, I actually trust you. Truly appreciate you, Helena♡🤗🌻❤.

[pisceslyfe]

Been there done that with # 3 guy, made me loose my want for love, men and relationships, all together, staying single

[mongrover]

Currently dating someone who is too busy in category 3 and it’s a horrible feeling

[jacquelinekabugo-raderson]

Omg ... talk about divine intervention! Was just about to send a message to the man in question, and this video popped up. Thank you for all you do 🙏🏽💛

[leebeex]

My guy is #3. He lives 2 hrs away. I’ve seen him twice in 3 months. I cut him off & he turned up last weekend but it’s my birthday today & he’s busy working. I’m not ok with this anymore so I’m just going to move on.

[helgad]

Yep #3 it’s interesting what you said about they say , they want / looking for a relationship but the action doesn’t match up . Eye opener. You kind of pointed out things that is just NEED to hear today! Love all your videos ❤️

[springfauna]

The most important thing you said here was "with the right guy!" And I believe in order to attract this right guy, you have to have a healthy sense of self-worth, self-respect, and your own life that doesn't necessarily include him. Just my opinion based on experience. Love your videos!!! 😊❤️

[Shg]

I’d love to hear from your husband about how he discerned or decided that this was something he wanted to pursue

[joyceharrington]

Im glad to have stumbled upon this video as I’m dating a man who is genuinely busy with his career but makes me a priority, consistently schedules dates with me weekly, told me he wants to make me a priority, and is actively looking for ways to adjust his work to see me even more. It feels good to know that I’m on the right path with him. Thanks Helena!

[nicole_patricia]

This message was right on time. Dealing with number 3. I actually used “backup” in my text to him earlier prior to watching this. Thanks Helena 🙏🏼

[costelloandlizzievolk]

Thank you for this. Learning this about men and people in my life in general. If they can’t even take the time to say hello once in a while, especially when I’m making that effort, then I don’t want them in my life much. Hard truth to face but better then feeling anxious and hurt trying to figure it out. Thank you 🙏

[mellead]

That video with Tom on busy men would be vital! Thanks in advance

[MsCraftyWPB]

I'm in a 5 year relationship, exclusive and I still feel like a backup plan. I still feel like I'm not a priority. I assume it's because of his work, 2 kids, soccer, working out, etc. I don't feel like I should assume that I'm part of the plan. I want to be invited. I don't live with him. Hed like me to make it easy and just "invite myself along". I'm just not that girl, I guess.

[Joisu]

I had a #3 relationship and felt terrible. Thanks for your videos. Reminds me i am not being too picky or unreasonable

[heatherkphoto]

I have been in the 3rd category for 3 months+ and when he finally starts acting more like #2, he always goes back to #3, I am so over it and the feeling he will eventually be more of the #2 but I am realizing he isn’t and I need to be strong enough to know my worth and find a #2 type of man!

[rosesamuri]

I completely resonated with the 3rd type of man because he's the type of man I'm dealing with now. Anytime I feel like there's not enough substance in the relationship to continue fueling the embers he seems to say just enough to have me think differently and that things will move forward and then they don't. I'm always the one saying how I feel, but I wait until I'm boiling because I never seem to get past a certain level with him. I'm so tired of the endless games! I've never been in a situation where it's been this confusing for me. The 2 other relationships I was in it was nothing like this where I feel like I'm getting teased, like more is to come, and then it's the complete opposite. I truly adore him and as a friend he's wonderful. It's so hard.