Losing a father and herself. #loss #shorts #grief

Her father died and she lost who she was until she found her identity again.

Find your self after loss with Megan Pormer, TV host on Fox and doctor of biomedical engineering and she tells the story of how she was born again 10 years after she lost her father. Megan discovered she was suffering from the "Princess Syndrome" and learned to step into her own power. Her family went to one of the richest families in the Middle East to not being able to afford their father's funeral. Her journey of growth and deep insight of how she overcame her own obstacles was a really interesting conversation. You can watch her on the TV on The Megan Pormer Show every Tuesday morning on Fox LA on channel 11 and she talks about the newest technologies, healing trauma's and much more. 

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DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end, it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12 he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. Grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma or whatever it may be, DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about. You may cry; but, you also may laugh.

[anastasiatrimmer]

I completely understand what this young lady is going through. I lost my Dad April 2020 due to covid. I was close to my Dad. When he died, I lost my own identity. Now I'm just numb, I don't leave my house, I don't talk to many people at all, I only interact with my kids and my husband. I just feel empty and lost.

[atlbpoworksame]

I lost my father 2/21 and this has been the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced. I feel so guilty, like maybe I could’ve done something but that’s me being selfish. How did y’all cope? I guess it’s still fresh for me but damn I didn’t imagine being here: 🙏🏽 for all those that have lost a parent

[jadethecreatorr]

Literally, my dad taught me everything, how to be strong, brave, proud, but never how to live without him. I miss him dearly, December will make two years & it has not gotten easier, 👼

[akshayaanil]

I completely understand her because i lost my father last month and my mom grew up without a father; so my dad took care of my moms issues and also took care of his 2 daughters which is me and my sister. He suddenly died due to pulmonary edema and heart failure. When hos heart stopped beating it felt like mine too.

[daisydeemusiringi]

Currently going through this pain. Lost my dad he didn’t make it to 2024😢

[Itsbubble_]

I lost my father at the age of 12 now I am 13 but I miss my father so much because he was the person who always support me he always say that I will make you an independent girl I will you make you a girl who not scared from anyone else I will make you powerful stronger but literally my dad all dreams just😢

[jenniferbrooks]

I am so happy I found this video! I lost my dad to Suicide in 2021. I felt that everything I knew about myself was lost. I went through an identity crisis and even now in 2023 I am still trying to find myself again 💔

[ritwikgoswami]

Yes. After the demise of my parents I too have realized that all those whom I thought they loved me actually hated me.

[judithb]

I lost my father and I don't know what to do. I feel lost God help me

[NF]

Thank God I’ve always had my own identity and sense of self
Zero codependency or attachment to deal with and I hope it stays that was till my last breath

[OliviaThomas-id]

Do you know that I ended up homeless with nothing because of this. My identity was my parents. I don't even know who I am and I'm in my 40s. I'm still struggling with it. It's so scary to be yourself. Cuz if I'm not accepted I'm nothing. Which I know is not the right answer and I know it's not true. Thank you for sharing this.

[kcopeland]

Yes, I had that relationship with my mother. Until the day I couldn't do it anymore.. and I told her I wasn't her little clone that I'd been referred to as, many times throughout my life. And she turned on me like a rabid dog. We did go through the motions a couple of times throughout the next 4 yrs. Because of my children. Until they disowned her, and even then it was really hard for me to deal with that fact, of them handling it the way they did. But they weren't in the wrong, it was about my trauma. And in the end, she didn't want me, or one of my brothers to know she was dieing, or to say goodbye to us. And we were the two, out of four, that she shuned. She was a narcissist. That is what I had realized the day I had told her that I couldn't be her "stooge "any longer. And why she had turned so volitale toward me, I had called her out on what she was. I hope people start realizing that if you are being used, and abused by someone, it isn't in any way your fault. Or even about you, in the sense of where they're coming from. You are the validating supply they need to keep themselves functioning. So, in reality they are feeding off of your life force, and draining you of what they don't have, and can only get from someone who is of love, and goodness. LIGHT 😊😇

[Oromo_]

I lost my father omg I’m about to cry he’s not dead if y see in the profile it’s me I look like him and my dad and my dad loves me so much and he was always so tired after work and even if he was tired he would do anything to make me happy and my mom and him go on fights everyday and they got a divorce and I stayed with my mom and he never wants me to leave and now I’m in Korea he’s in china and I never forgot about him and we’re still intouch

[tiaturnbullchampionscoachi]

Who were the people who hated you and why?

[jamiepolk]

that were i'm at now and its ok I am a handful

[GrandmaCookie]

WOW…just WOW!!!! Exactly what I am feeling right now…except me wanting to kill the little girl in me is literal. Watched the entire 30+ minute interview. Was amazing. Wish I could afford her therapist. Lol

[TatumYoung-nrcy]

My dad just died yesterday and I’m only 12