HOW TO ENCOURAGE YOUR WIFE/GF DOMINATE YOU | The basis of FEMDOM

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[markusschmidt]

My experience has been that quite a lot of women are open to this, when explained sincerely and in depth...after all female dominiation in its core is much more about deep care about your lady woman and not necessarily of giving away masculinity...and certainly it does not mean giving up responsibility...

[kylehoyt]

My wife and I just started, I wish there was more content like this.

[blepblep]

Awesome video - treat Her like the queen She is and be open about your kinks, and things should go fairly smoothly. Make Her your priority and She will be willing to practice your kinks!

Over the course of several months I have gone from teaching my girlfriend what femdom even is, to having Her make me wear a chastity cage and give me orders and punishments. I hope to keep slowly progressing, while always worshiping Her and putting Her needs and wants first - although that comes naturally. She has begun to really enjoy Her power over me and I am super lucky to have Her.

My advice is to take it real slow, take breaks from the kinkiness, and always communicate well and treat Her like a queen! Thank goodness youtube has you, Goddess Mephistopheles…

[jegerenlillelortbb]

I encourage all submissive males to be open about their sexuality. Atleast inside your relationship! All my relationship has had femdom in them. Embrace your self and teach her.

[MedXOR]

Good thoughts.
-> a man may experience a submissive side slowly, years after marriage.
-> there is a kind of woman who becomes progressively contemptuous as the generous (not greedy) submissive contorts himself to please her

[vanessachaland]

Open communication and honesty is of paramount importance, in any relationship.

[baldersubmissive]

I would suggest male in this position to submit to her by doing stuff in your life. It could be fixing stuff at home, wash her car, get her finest dress cleaned up, buy her new perfume when it’s almost out. All to show you see her and her needs in life and you are there to help her help her get those done.
If she thanks you for it, accept and be pleased by that, don’t request anything for it, keep doing more.

It will take time but keep talking and try to focus the conversation on her needs. Where you can be helpful

[dalton]

Start by offering to do task for her. Think about when she would want a nice bath & make it for her, provided you ask her if she would like one. This will cause her to speak her mind & her preferences.
A good massage, yes a good foot rub also works but each has their time & place.
Do the task around the house she normally dose that you know she dose not like.
Doing these actions before breaking the conversation will show her how it feels before the conversation in a nonsexual way so she can have something to go on. She can see it would be about her desires/wants/needs. It should not matter if any of that hads anything to do with your fantasies as long as you are a tool to be used for her enjoyment/plesure then that is all that a true submissive would want.
Yes have your own personal limits, there is no shame in telling the dominant that you are not ok with x, y, z.

[Acehavok]

Love your explanation. Sounds like humility goes a long way.

[AgentStoobing]

Could not agree more - thank you. And your sense of humour is sterling!

[jamess.]

Not an issue to administer discipline, rules/punishments to women . But generally a man has to pay a dominatrix or escort for spankings etc, because its a respect issue in a relationship .

[bazbouz]

Domination, I think more women than you think are made for it and would like to dominate their husbands. Not all women either, to be honest, but a lot. And if we lead them to become our Mistresses and they like that, be careful, because it's a path with no turning back for the husband. I know a couple whose husband pushed his wife into BDSM at the age of 30, today they are both 60 and the husband is not even allowed to leave a room without having permission to his wife.

[bhageshhalceri]

Thank you MISTRESSMICHE for introducing me to this lifestyle, it means the world to me

[khurramicma]

When Dominatrix said “that doesn’t matter because you came here to listen to My opinion” 🔥🔥

[williamwoo]

I have a strong Girlfriend, she can be strict and if I don’t do as she says, she gets mad. I had her slap me out of anger, then I get on my knees and apologies. She was the first one to use a strap=on on me and didn’t even ask. I love my Girlfriend, she is also intelligent knows many languages and much smarter than me. I ask her why would you be my Girlfriend and she said that I was extremely intelligent and that if I wasn’t she would have left a long time ago. I am so lucky to have her and I worship her and do anything to please her and not feel I need to be rewarded. It’s unconditonal and I will protect her and support her in her life. I love it when she demands I do things for her, from cleaning the house to cooking to giving her massage and more. I told her to use me as a human toy for pleasure and I will be most happy and feel most alive. It works when it works without trying cause it’s so natural.

Thanks Alla, you are so cool.

[davidellis]

My last GF eventually got into my desire to be a Beta. She appreciated that her pleasure was my priority & began to have me be nude before her while she was dressed & would give me light over the knee spankings when I " failed " her. She had me throw out my adult dvds & kept me focused on pleasing her. It was mild domination but stimulating & the passion was real. We broke up 5 years ago & I fantasize about her frequently now. I would submit to her instantly today it's what fulfills me most. Thank You.

[koboldsage]

My needs dont matter to my wife in the slightest. We had similar tastes early on, but after the wedding she switched to a "been there, done that" attitude.

It doesnt matter what I "make it about".

We go through long dry spells.

[gogicbasic]

Thanks for existing! This site and all your videos are very helpful.
I am in a FL marriage and it feels fantastic. My nature is to be submissive. On the other hand, my wife is temperamental, dominant and she likes that role in marriage.
ALL decisions are made by Her. Her wishes and needs are the most important.

I work 2 jobs to have enough money to live, because my wife likes expensive shopping, luxury restaurants, frequent massages, treatments, etc.

Now she is obsessed with tattoos and wants to cover her whole body. I found her the best tattoo artist in the country because she deserves it.

Finally, we are a childfree couple because she does not want to have children and is going through pregnancy. I fully support her in that. We have one dog and that's enough. I adore my wife and I live for her.

[traceymacy]

once she knows what you want she will deny you and dominate you perfectly, all you think about is what she denies

[ManiGamer-pori]

Your step by step guidance has really been helpful Miss MISTRESSMICHE