11 Things I Wish I Had Known in My Teens - Adult Tips for My Younger Self

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Gentleman's Gazette
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I've compiled my own list of a few things I wish I had known when I was that age. Without any further ado, let's jump right
in!

Tip number one is to start saving money now while you still have a safety net. Instead of trying to save a few dollars or cents here and there with each purchase you're making, it's important to set aside money for savings at the outset that you won't be tempted to use when making purchases.

Number two is another financial tip, quality is a better long-term investment than quantity. As a teen, and like we said it's probable that you don't have many expenses but at the same time, you might not yet have a full-time job or any job at all and therefore, not have a great steady source of income, whatever the case, if your income is limited, not only should you be saving money but you should also be wise when you do choose to spend it.

Next up, tip number three is that a conventional high school education is probably missing a great deal of information that you'll actually need to be an adult in the real world.

Number four is a social tip almost everyone is probably just as insecure as you are, if not more so. While it may be tough to remember sometimes, if you are feeling insecure about your personality or your social standing, many of your peers are probably feeling the same things.

Number five, you're not going to be able to please everyone and you shouldn't try to. In the same way that your peers might have certain expectations for you about how to fit into a social group, your elders such as parents, teachers, coaches, and so on might also have communicated to you some expectations for ways your life could turn out. Remember though, the one person with ultimate control over your future should be you.

Tip number six also relates to the point about social insecurity, you don't have to hang around with a group of people you don't like just out of a desire to fit in. Having a group to which you feel you belong is a natural human desire. If you find yourself hanging around with people who don't support your choices, your identity, or your future plans and they're just taking advantage of your desire to fit into some group, you would do well to move on.

On the subject of social dynamics in school, you've probably heard the old line at some point, high school doesn't last forever. While I do agree with this sentiment, in so far as the hierarchies and drama of high school stop mattering once you're an adult, there is also a flipside to this because we now live in the age of social media; your teenage choices can follow you around for much longer.

Number eight is another quick tip on social media, while everyone is trying to present their best selves on social platforms, remember that everyone does have their own insecurities and their own challenges and you shouldn't judge yourself by the standards of other people's social media profiles. Remember that by and large, you're only seeing what other people want you to see on social media and that nobody truly lives a perfect life.

For tip number nine, let's jump back to my earlier point about making decisions for your future as there's an important distinction to be made here. While you aren't too young to have any idea what you want, you are still allowed to not know what you want. Remember here that life is a journey and everybody figures out their own personal path at a different time.

Tip number ten is that making mistakes is a natural part of life and not attempting things just because you fear failure will only leave you stuck where you are.

Tip number eleven and our final tip for today is one of the biggest, speaking from my own personal experience, it's always important to set aside your pride or your fears about other's perceptions of you and to ask for help when you need it. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it can actually be a sign of strength. In summary, it's okay to need help because those who care about you will want to provide it.

[elonmush]

I have one major tip: work out! I was always a bit of a nerd and liked reading etc. but I didn't take care of my body. But working out does so many things. First, it improves your body strength, obviously. This also means better health. Secondly, a healthy body and a healthy mind go hand in hand. Studies show that it can have positive effects on your mental health and also on your memory. So take care of yourself! It will improve your life quality and may extend your life span.

[fabianweber]

0:15 even as a kid his jawline was sharp enough to cut diamonds. xd

[edgarcardiel]

Im 16, and I'm glad to know you guys acknowledge your younger viewers. You guys have really helped me as a person and i really love your content. Thank You Preston and Sven :) it means so much

[BadeniaFilme]

His teenage years, back in lothlorien, alongside Galadriel.

[babygerald]

As a 40-something, I envy the teens today who can learn from this channel all the things it took me 30-ish years to acquire on my own. I can't imagine all the money I would have saved.

[Serai]

And remember, style and smarts mean nothing unless you back them up with decency, generosity, courtesy, and honesty. And that means to EVERYONE, not just the people you like.

[aesma-daeva]

I find it very wise and practical that GG is investing time on their younger audience, as well. Good habits, if learnt from a younger age, can become powerful tools, and bad habits can be purged much easier in the days of youth, as opposed to the later stages of life.
As always, great job Preston!

[davidpayton]

Thanks so much sir for the great video. I'm 65 and still learning. :-)

[Cassiearan]

Millionaires and successful people are not people who never fail, but people who never quit. If you want to be a millionaire, then think like one, act like one, and live like one. Maybe you guys might have seen me on other videos but anytime I write a comment, I always tell my story with it so people know why I am saying what I am saying :) - also to keep inspiring other people because for me, reading other people's success journey is so motivating. :) We own a cookie shop business in our college town. When we first started it, we just graduated college and were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. I started it out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location in New Jersey and the second one in Florida! We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams.

[benvincent]

Thanks, as a 16 year old starting A levels, this is really helpful

[shaaaairuuu]

OMG. I'm an 18yo girl regularly viewing this channel for quite a while even though I know I'm not really the target audience (gotta keep coming back for all the amazing outfits and color combos 😍) this video was SO AMAZING. Especially the last tip resonates with me so much! Preston, I'm also the similar way! Always got away without studying much if I just attended my classes but the problem aroused when I started suffering from depression and anxiety and often skipped classes because sometimes even walking to class felt like walking through fire... That completely ruined my confidence. I never flunked so badly in life and I'm still struggling to get out of it but I'm literally feeling like there is no way out. I didn't realize how impatient and hopeless I am with studies nowadays.

[the_ent]

As a 35 year old, I endorse this advice 👍

[fedezzefelbudapestet]

I'm 18 and I wear clothes from the 50s and I love that, I started at 17. This video really helped me gain the confidence knowing that there are people like me as well. And the channel in general helped me gain the knowledge I needed to perfect my style. Thanks you so much

[blazinmark]

Being the son of Soviet immigrants, my parents came here 30 years ago, I was a child of 4 years.
From the age of 13 my family instilled hard work and dedication as an indispensable attribute for attaining the American dream.
I have followed through with my desire to become an Oculist (Eye Doctor), and have been practicing Ocular medicine for 8 years.
As far back as I can remember, not one summer went by where I was not working. By the time I reached 20 I had almost $40, 000 saved up,
and was able to buy my first car, and invest the rest into the Stock Market. My advice for any teens reading this would be to stay focused and find
something that you are passionate about. I can honestly say I haven't worked a day in my life because I love what I do, and you can do the same!

[GoldenGarden]

Great video Preston! As a 75 year old woman (mother of a 40-something son) who loves the "tea" scene and vintage women's clothing, I am thoroughly enjoying the Gentleman's Gazette postings and the comments, especially by your younger viewers. What a wonderful resource you are providing!!

[jakobmatthies]

That last bit directed towards the "smart kids, " a groups of which I once considered myself a member in high school, is especially true. In my experience, I was not "smart, " but unchallenged. It wasn't until college that I met the truly intelligent, and most of them were professors. Talk to them. Develop a relationship with them. Ask them for HELP (even your fellow students). They are more than happy to oblige, most of the time. If there is ANYTHING you do not understand, whether in school or in life, ask someone who has experience for help. It has saved my GPA more than once, and it is becoming a valuable asset in my career as well. Be as successful (however you define that) as you can be, both despite and thanks to, your environment.

[Joseantoniomn]

This video is gold. I'm 36 years old right now, lived in Venezuela almost all of my life then moved to Chile almost three years ago, I'm an MD with a major in radiology, it was a challenge because I had to take several test to prove that I had the knowledge to be a doctor and after that other tests to revalidate my major here. I set some goals like I had to study at least 3 hours every single day, also asked for help from some fellow radiologists I met here by being polite and they did help me, and well i made it. If you can dream it, if you set your mind into something, if you have the tenacity and the dedication to stick to your plans, there's no goal you can't achieve. Sorry for my bad English. Great video with great advices.

[franzjosephi.]

Im 14 and I love watching your vids.Keep doing your great work.

[l.]

Your eyes dude.... they pierced through my soul.. and burned my house down.... I'm now a homeless dead body just walking through endless abbyss....

[YokoshimaOfficial]

Thanks for being inclusive and teach the younger ones :)