Why You Have No Friends | The Price of Pretty Privilege | The Dark Side of being Beautiful + my POV

Nioby shares her thoughts and personal experiences regarding the dark side of pretty privilege. #prettyprivilege #adviceforwomen #chitchat

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[Meltyfairy]

When you’re confident, you can only have confident friends otherwise they are too high risk to sabotage you

[rosemiller]

Especially in the workplace, jealous women giving you a hard time constantly. The mean glares, the attitude and rude behavior even when you’re super nice, quiet and just focus on yourself. I’ve heard many false rumors about myself started by jealous people. So many people have tried to run me from my job even a guy who worked closely with us, tried to sabotage me many times so that I would quit and I found out it was because he was secretly attracted to me and wasn’t comfortable working around me.

[BlendedBarbieDoll]

I wish people would admit this instead of gaslighting us.
Men and women will be nasty towards you in different ways all because they are intimidated by how you look.
It’s very lonely, exhausting, and just annoying.

[TheHunnyBeee]

Jealousy is a very real thing and very isolating.

[leeraxd]

Also this reminds me of Shanquella Robinson, the girl who got killed by her so called “friends” while she was in Cabo. Shanquella was pretty, successful, and CONFIDENT. It’s apparent that those girls were jealous of her and then proceeded to abuse and beat her up. I’ve seen this type of thing before. That’s why you gotta keep your friendships tight. Jealous bitches will go far to destroy you.

[gngaa]

sometimes people treat you like dirt just to humble you and make you feel you aint all that

[TheDroShow]

People will say you’re being “shallow”, “stuck up”, “think you’re all that” & “bragging” but this is REAL. Not only does it come from less attractive people (I don’t like to use the word “ugly” because despite society’s standards I still think there are people who are beautiful) but other attractive people as well. I also say this because I know a lot of women say “I only hang with pretty women” but ain’t nobody safe around here lol. It’s like you can’t win.

I understand people want to be attractive & there’s nothing wrong with that, but the obsession with beauty to the point of other women having to be uncomfortable, left out, mistreated, etc is ridiculous.

I also think when you add on characteristics like being intelligent, talented, kind, cultured, etc makes it even worse because it’s being attractive plus more. You’re very right at the boundaries as well.

Great brutally honest topic.

[daisywaizy]

When I was a nurse at the ER it was horrible. There were so many rumors spread about me sleeping with doctors. I left work crying almost every day.

[Faithh.]

Girl you have a very high self confidence 😅
But I can totally relate, I used to think people just didn’t like me because there was something wrong with me.. but I realized it was pure jealousy 😭

[jkeraw]

It’s insane and sad how so many women hate on other women just based on looks. There are so many mean, or evil women out here who don’t deserve to even stand next to other women with naturally beautiful souls.

[TheeCheleMarie]

OMG! You have to deal with jealousy, people possibly setting you up to be put in bad situations, people hating you as soon as you walk in a room, men treating you like an object, you're supposed to just shut up and be pretty, people thinking your dumb, people being your friend just to use you, you dont know peoples intentions and motives, i mean, the list goes on and on.... The story of my life!

[eveningstar]

My Dad tried explaining this to me when I was younger before my first job interview, but instead encouraged me to “play down my looks” in the workplace so I wouldn’t have to deal with jealousy. I couldn’t help but think “why can’t people do some reflection and not be jealous assholes”

[IamJennifer.D]

Literally have only had 1-2 close female friends which are now not my friends. I have never been able to have a close female friendships 😭 and it sucks. I’m such a kind hearted and genuine person and always see the good in everyone. So I never knew what was wrong with me. But you made very good points ❤️

[ftNaturalBeauty]

It’s really a hefty price to pay when you are naturally beautiful. Real hair, clear skin, tall, gorg…straight out the shower, with no enhancements. I have a PhD, very lucrative career, a home owner, drive lux and live in lux. People go crazy in both a positive and negative way. Even men began to hate on you.

[tanafaithrenay]

I get bullied for the way I look too. Also my spirit and education. Especially in the workplace. Its very hurtful. But im going to keep going and shine my light.

[moniquerobinson]

Happened to me in highschool, I was quiet and pretty and it made everyone so uncomfortable. I had a friend curse me out and tell me I thought I was better than everybody l, I asked her how, she had no reasonable explanation. In retrospect, that’s what she thought not me. The hate was strong lol

[RZW]

I would never allow women to bring darkness into my life. And even if they try, I’ll just keep shining like the bright sun. ☀️

[lvettesonai]

It's always lonely at the top. So, just love God, yourself and your family.💗 sounds cliché and arrogant, truly hard being beautiful. Misjudged, etc....

[ahoneysuckle]

i just turned 19, but I got my first real job working as a perfume sale associate this summer at 18. i had no experience, so many of my co workers (all much older than me) were confused as to why I was there. lots of the women would set me up for failure, and the GROWN men would act entitled to my time and attention. i didn't really know any better because this was my first time experiencing the real world. i also got harassed by many male customers who looked like they could be my dad's age. i literally quit after three weeks because I'd go home feeling anxious, drained, and super gross. i've never felt objectified like that, and I had never been sexually harassed until then, so i was incredibly scary... it lowkey feels like my innocence was taken advantage of and I'm not sure I could ever work retail again..

[NkirukasWrld]

Heavy on the fact that men just want you around for your looks! Because have a baddie on their side looks good and Yk men love bragging too