What To Do If You Have No Real Friends And Lost Faith In Humanity

If you have no friends and lost faith in humanity, this video is for you.

#nofriends #makingfriends #howtomakefriends

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Intro: 0:00
Do You Feel Like This?: 0:47
The Good News: 2:36
Shortform: 3:11
How I Shifted My Mindset On Relationships: 4:39
What You Don't Seem To Realize: 7:08
Set This Intention: 7:34

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Hey, I'm Cole Hastings. I'm a vegan athlete/content creator with a passion for videography/video editing, among other things. I try to help people through sharing my experiences and evolution through life.

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[Anne_Myriam_]

I’ve come to realize that most people do not care unless it’s convenient to them sadly …

I no longer force friendships or conversations either, it will always end badly if the feelings aren’t reciprocal.

I’ve been there, done that 😐

[AleArno]

As men, having a tribe is important, but to be comfortable with being alone is probably that best thing that can happen to you!

[nancybelli]

I needed this today, I have lost and or am losing my faith in humanity. It seems no matter how hard I try I am still rejected, morally spit on and feel absolutely isolated. Im going to finish watching the video but pray to find solace.

[AhmetKaan]

*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*

The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

[shedontlove]

To anyone who is worried that he no longer has friends: all your ten times best friends will disappear after 30 anyway.
And the reason is simple - they will have their own life, and they no longer won't care about you much.
At best, they will become your acquaintances, with whom you sometimes meet, correspond, talking on the phone. And, most likely, this will happen less and less often...

Don't worry about it. Best friends are temporary, life is temporary, your job is temporary.
Everything is temporary.
Just deal with it and enjoy your life while you can. Cheers!

[OnlyJerico]

I feel more connected with people here than it is in real life

[Suoinotlad]

I'm gonna be honest. From someone who had almost committed 3 or 4 times, who has been completely addicted to alcohol for half a year, who has had lost their biological father (I'm adopted) almost lost my biological mother, been diagnosed with depression, lost all my friends etc, nothing gives me as much hope and a will to live another day than your videos do. Seriously thank you Cole. <333

[letmobilet]

sometimes I wonder why people doesn’t even try to resolve a conflict and rather cut you off, seriously

[mirellaelliott]

Came at the perfect time. Been feeling like I’ve came to so many realizations lately and so many people in my life don’t get it

[frezzpr]

Thank you Cole it's very strange how many of us can actually relate to each other but yet we are all so distant and I believe a huge part of it is the fear of rejection subconsciously and part of it could be the fear of not being liked whenever people get bored of who you are I know that's my issue for sure I've had friendships that only lasted 2 months because of the less time they gave

[joeykenney]

Focus on cultivating those few high quality friends that will improve your life, but don’t rush that process. Putting yourself in the right situations to meet like minded people, online or in person, is a great way to start

[dantepepper]

It is a bit sad that the self improvement wave has actually spread us in a way lowing our actual happiness which is the opposite of the overall goal emotional connection should be embraced and is apart of the human experience love this series and happy your making more 💯💪🏾

[Joel-pgyi]

I have lot of childhood abuse. I want to make friends but my subconscious kicks in and my automatic response is fear and people can't be trusted everyone is an abuser

[immyopic]

I literally have no friends of any kind whatsoever for literally all my life; even lost my faith in the future. At this point, after so many times of betrayal and hurt, nothing can restore these things in me anymore and I just keep to myself; never speaking a word to anyone that isn't my family.

[aaronaustrie]

Wow. Just this week I was telling myself that I'm finding it difficult finding people that genuinely care about me. And now I'm here watching this video 🤦🏾‍♂ Very relatable. This video is very fitting for me especially right now

[freakyfreshwater]

You totally hit the nail on the head when it comes to having negative assumptions. I always tell myself my voice isn't unique and doesn't need to be heard. I should just stick to myself and let others live their own lives without interrupting them. I stay in my lane and they stay in theirs. This is obviously a destructive mindset as it prevents me from opening up with others. We are literally hard-wired and evolved to be social beings. By being social with others, sharing thoughts, feelings, emotions, I open others up to do the same. It is a win-win situation when you think about it. I need to quit being so self-righteous in my head and realize no one is better nor worse than I am. We all die in the end. No reason to believe someone is better than me and vice versa. We all act in our own self interests and we all have our own values and experiences. I need to go out and explore, forget what others think about me. Some people won't get along with me and that's okay. Because like you said there's more than 1 person out there to be friends with. Be upfront, , create meaningful relationships, stop bottling up feelings and opinions. Free others from emotional pain and social neglect by putting yourself out there. We are all craving social interactions and lacking meaningful relationships thanks to social media, working 40 hour weeks at jobs we aren't passionate about, paying off student loans, having debt, social distancing due to covid, rent rising relative to average income, unclear futures, traumatic past experiences, grief, regrets, you name it. This world needs more love, forgiveness, and openness. It's no shock people are questioning whether to keep going or not, life is not so easy nowadays. I hope I can be a positive presence which allows others to feel understood and accepted.

Internalizing everything is only going to lead to sadness. I can confidently say this as I can speak from years of experience and even now. Mindlessly scrolling through social media, studying alone, afraid to speak my opinions, comparing myself to others, having negative thoughts, etc. All this can be prevented through sharing and being open. It's okay to be angry - just express it and explain what hurt you. It's okay to feel suicidal - tell someone about it. It's okay to be behind in school - talk to your professor, counselor, ask for help. It's okay to question life's purpose - tell others how conflicted you feel. It's okay to feel you don't belong - express why you believe so. It's okay to feel your present situation does not reflect where you want to be in the future - tell someone your pain build a support system. All the non-physical struggles of life can be cured through sharing. And there are people out there who want to help. I need to fully understand this and believe I can be myself. I need to prove this through my actions, no matter the shame or discomfort I may feel. Nothing worth doing has ever come easy, I need to sacrifice my comfort. In return I will not only create a better future for myself, but for others as well. Thanks for the video and allowing me to self reflect a little bit.

[henriqueoliveira]

I recently went threw a breakup, and i've been experiencing the emotional rollercoaster of this chapter in my life. You and your videos are helping out a lot. Keep up the good work! Thanks!
Sending Love from Portugal ❤️.

[yourcalmplace]

- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨

[noahschoolfield]

I learned this way of thinking from working at a grocery store for two years. Love you Cole, your videos always come out in the best timing

[warriora]

I’m at the point where it’s hard to imagine someone having this condition worse than me…as selfish and narcissistic as that sounds. I’ve been pretty much isolated, and limited to just my family for companionship for nearly 4 years now. Covid was just 1 more year added to the pile. (And some considered 1 year exhausting) It gets to the point where any positive lessons learned begin to fade into the background, consumed by the loneliness. With no hope, it begins to effect every part of daily life. Idk if there’s a point to all of this, but I honestly hope anyone out there can be comforted knowing we who don’t deserve this treatment in the world still survive. It’s the only option, as suicide has become wayyy too easy of a way out. I’ll pray for anyone feeling the same