How to Sound Assertive

You want to sound more assertive. But you’re not sure what to say or how to say it.

In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple ways to instantly sound more assertive. These are easy phrases you can say to sound more confident and communicate your needs clearly.

Plus, I share several common mistakes people make when trying to be assertive and how to avoid them. So you stand up for yourself and keep your conversations respectful and productive.

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[rosewierzba]

I'm a mental health counselor and your information is very helpful! You are a very skilled communicator!

[mountainwmn]

So refreshing to hear/see a handsome young man who is kind, intelligent, humble, generous with his time, loyal to his family, balanced, grounded, honest, clean, easy going, motivated, healthy, grateful, fit, respectful, assertive, polite, understanding, consistent, encouraging, funny, and probably many other qualities. Thank you for sharing all that you are with people at a time when it is needed the most. I’m sure you’re making your parents very proud.

[comcomlyhouse]

Thank you for dishing out courage everyday for those of us who, even at 70, are finding their voice🌻

[denabatt]

Coming from someone who is lives in Canada, I do not know why we always say sorry for everything we do. I am so grateful I came across your channel because I had trouble with people pleasing, not knowing how to say no, cutting people out of my life, the list goes on. This content has been so helpful to me. Thank you. ❤🇨🇦

[lynno]

With women especially, "just" can be our downfall. Can I just talk to you for a second, I just wanted to ask, It's just feel like, .... remove the "just" it's doing nothing for you. I think it falls into downplaying... I am so happy you're here JF!

[elanemiller]

I have ptsd, it's so hard speaking to others, and hard to speak to people who think they can bully me. Your words have helped me so much, thank you

[dranzer]

Your car must be a monster in social events after hearing all that advice

[charscarlet]

Thank you for helping me find my voice again in a world that loves doormats. I appreciate you so much ❤️

[debbiecloer]

God tells us in His Word our no should be no and our yes should be yes. Thank you for your sharing this wisdom.

[rodrigocid]

I used to be the "I'm sorry" guy. One day, I heard someone tell me they were "broke, not poor, " leading me to believe being poor is a frame of mind. Later in life, I decided being sorry is also a frame of mind. It's okay to apologize. Never be sorry.

[debjanidutta]

I've realised that I'm most assertive when I think less. My innate persona is to be polite and politically correct so when I don't overthink the situation and speak my mind, I'm assertive and powerful.

[Karrie]

I use your advise with my 3 teens it truly helps me set boundaries & parent better. I always say I’M SORRY & I hate it ugh! I’m a people pleaser I need to stop it & get thicker skin & you’re helping me!!

[shelleyberg]

Thank you, Jefferson! I get a lot of value from your quick, condensed, power-loaded videos!

[BeeStingPS]

Topic suggestion. Managing emotions when they run high. Our own and responding

[ahmadsaeed]

Topic Suggestion: How to set boundaries

[ajjudge]

I this! My goodness, I love it! I'm a British woman born in Canada so saying "sorry" is very much ingrained for me. I will for sure be saying to myself, "I'm not Sorry, I'm Alison". Thank you so much Jefferson, and wishing you continued success. 🙌🙌🙌

[NotUnique]

Love your content, Jefferson. Thank you for your great advice. Can you give any tips for disengaging from a gossipy conversation without seeming sanctimonious?

[MargareteGonzalez]

Thank You, Jefferson for your podcast. I am very direct but not very tactful., most of the time. Your videos have helped me to soften my communication style. Keep up the great job!

[cindyolson]

I was brought up to apologize for my existence (I feel). This is helpful information.

[realdeal]

Topic discussion: how to deal with people who deliberately derail discussions/conversations.

Btw- Love your work!