How To Test a Man's Emotional Maturity | Attract Great Guys

[kaboomroom]

First! Woo hoo! Whew Chile. I think you just changed my whole dating game. Thanks for all your great advice, Jason!! 👏🏾👏🏾💖

[jeaniem]

1. Look for a pattern of how he has dealt with adversity. (We can add diversity as well)!
2. Look at his relationships with his friends and family.
3. Is he clear on his VALUES?
I will share this with my children because this is also a good strategy for choosing the right friends. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom! I love your advice on finding the right man, and I can also share your words with my teens!!!!

[womenwhodate]

One thing I know for sure, if a man is emotionally closed off/ unavailable to himself, I know he won’t be emotionally available to anyone else.

[GirlWithAllTheFlowers]

Jason you are wise beyond your years. I would love for you to share a video with the long story of your weightloss and how that has impacted your sense of self worth. As a female who's attained significant weightloss, I admit that the insecurities remain long after the body has been restored.

[Nonamebrand]

I am so grateful for your videos. I found a great guy I've been dating for about 2 months now thanks to you advice and continued support via your videos😊 I would not have otherwise realized where I was going wrong in the past. Thank you!

[dynamichue]

You make being hopeful in the dating world feel a bit easier. We as humans want to understand and be understood by each other but find the process so hard. God bless you.

[beekindtarot]

my spouse is very emotionallly immature no one showed him love physically emotionally or mentally let alone any regard for his wants or needs as a child and hes grown into a mean husband who doesnt value me and insults me frequently ive spent years in this mess and im discovering his emotional immaturity is the real root problem. i know i will have to make a desiion sooner or later and im not sure what it will be but i know it wont be one where i live walkng around on egg shells anymore

[artsyalkalearnandgrowbeaut]

Thank you for this video❤ I was accessing myself too before I access the man . Thank you

[marisabond]

On dating sites, every time i do give the common courtesy to write back whenever men message me and I say no thank you not interested, a good handful of them write back saying whatever fu*cking bitch or say some other immature things to me just for telling them no thank you. I don’t even entertain what they say to me and ignore them. It’s that reaction right there shows me the level of emotional immaturity they’re displaying right there and makes me so glad even more for turning them down. I appreciate the men who can handle it in a mature manner by simply just saying okay thanks anyways, have a good day. And some men wonder why we don’t even message back at all, they get ignored, it’s cause we deal with men who cannot handle being turned down and cuss us out, so half the time I don’t even message back. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️😅

I also don’t get men who message you asking some random off questions that I clearly don’t care about and you tell them no thanks not interested and it’s like they don’t want to admit their intentions of nonetheless trying to get with you even if it’s random question because nobody likes wasting their time and when I tell them no thanks not interested and they say Um okay I wasn’t interested in you or not looking for anything…. 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 and in my mind I’m like then WTF are you wasting both our times. It’s like they don’t want ti face it so they come up with some story. Depending on the person and level of attraction, I’ll play along with it and when they go more into their obvious intentions that’s when I’ll turn them down politely.

Been single for 12 years, dating is so frustrating nowadays. 😔 but Jason your videos have helped me a lot and to set my standards high as I know my value and worth and won’t settle for less. ❤️

[reenanapoleon]

It's good if we test ourselves first

[nita]

Wow so good, thank you. I’m going to have to watch this again..

[mayjune]

Im not really good in english but the way you talk makes me understand it well【good accent】watching fr tokyo japan🇯🇵🇵🇭i am fr philippines.

[kathytrips]

Wish you were around 30 years ago! 🤷‍♀️ Very interesting.

[teresemariecloonan.c]

This is what I think it is…..
Anyone that has trouble telling me the truth, are the best people.
Why?
Fear.

[rebeccasuraci]

What you say isnt true. I value friends and family dearly. But I never see anyone. That doesn’t mean I don’t value them. Sometimes there are other issues like depression anxiety sickness etc

[dncprncss]

Thanks for helping us navigate dating well.

[theflyingguillotine]

no guys perfect, but we can at least all try to improve

[rachelmoore]

I wish I had seen this video months ago 🙈 notes taken!! 🙏💖

[nickydietrich]

You know like Fonteine in Les Miserable would you say she needed to take personal responsibility?

[cabellero]

Ok..
I don't know how I feel about all of this!
It seems kind of biased, even judgemental..
Most guys are "emotionally immature"
But there are young women who are, as well.
I'm sure we've all heard women complaining about how their husbands/ boyfriends are like "kids"

What's the difference between an emotionallly/ mentally immature man and a "grumpy old man" type who complains about a lot?